Should I Leave Him Or Be With Him?

   You have indicated 6 negative qualities, I could offer them my conclusions for at least as many more, but ... What else do you do with this one? !! For example, right after the first time he insulted my presence (kissing me while looking at others) I was a jester, without explanation. That his mother explained to him. Complete freedom for him and nothing for you? !! These comparisons, and they prove it. In my relationship (13 years old) he only once tried to make comparisons with a friendly family. Like an arrow, I started to collect his luggage so that he could go there. I will not be with another, as he does not like, everyone in his path. Since then, I think about 7 years have passed. Not a damn! And I want Antonio Banderas to be in my apron, for example, in bed and in the kitchen, but ... no. Prepares you for a future "mom"? !! And so ... until he grows up and finds a wife. And this can happen, after you already have 1-2 children. You want a man! Well, get rid of the presence of this juvenile, to look for a MAN! Don't let anyone crush your self-esteem and change it. You will not be happy and sooner or later you will turn your eyes to something else. Well, better early than with 1-2 babies hooked to your sex;)))

   In that case, leave it, no wonder :)

   Quote from you: "When he gets angry, he starts insulting me with all sorts of words ... it's just awful." I think everyone knows, as do you, that you just have to dump him. A man who loves a woman does not insult her or forbid her certain things. You're still young, as you said, don't waste your future, because then you'll regret wasting so much time being with some bastard who doesn't deserve you. Drop it! It may be naughty at first, but then you will feel happy that you have made a good decision.

   "Maybe that he treats me nicely and pampers me by buying me some things (I'm talking about food - for example, when we go to the store, not for clothes, jewelry, etc.)." Find someone to give you a gift. - jewelry and clothing. And without that you go crazy. A friend's boyfriend and shoes, pants and what not to buy her, and she dumped him. Lower your tastes a bit, do not overestimate yourself and catch up with an ordinary young man. You are looking for the material in this connection, and his parents are your obstacle. 150% is clear and I won't even ask if it's because I've heard it from at least 20 girls and I know perfectly well what they do it for. You have no ground under your feet, you are looking for unearthly ideal people, and there will never be any. This boy is too serious for you. You are young and do not understand what a problem and responsibility is, even a debt to the family. This man needs a wife, not a girl. It is a pity that there are so many young boys who do not have girlfriends ... only because of the friendship between young girls with uncles and slackers. Watch them there 22-23 year olds. If you leave him this one, he will have a family in a few years. besides, you look at things a lot.

   Run away from him as soon as he allows himself to insult you. He just doesn't deserve you, tell him you're leaving because he doesn't know how to behave.

   Drop it right away and look for happiness elsewhere that you will cry from this one. Rejoice that you still do not live together, that this present will seem to you a paradise before living together with such a cheshit. I made the mistake of moving to mine, but our problems are of a different nature. Mine never buys or pleases anything, it doesn't think about plans and repairs, it doesn't think about children either, it spends its entire salary on the car, and dogs ate me. But at the moment I have no choice and I set aside from my salary until the time comes to raise enough money and move out to live alone and throw it away. One cannot live with such individuals as long as they are so selfish and selfish. The bad thing is that I am 27 and he is 32 and there is no hope in those years for a person to change. So while it's time, leave it,

   I'll be brief - this man doesn't make you happy. But the decision whether to leave it or not can be yours alone. Everyone is responsible for their own happiness. Success! :)

   "Dear author", you want him to buy you clothes and jewelry ... This is the essence of your topic ... Although obviously your friend is NOT initiative, cowardly and ... mom's boy .... So ... the pain you are not in this ... He just doesn't court you enough / according to you / .... 95% of women under 35 in today's Bulgaria have such a set .... I have impressions of a woman 8 years older than me , I went with her because of um ... sex ... I still have almost only a sexual relationship with her / almost 3 months later / Although she plays the role of a romantic .... She even talked about marriage and that, , I became a husband ". She is 38 years old without children, not divorced, I am 30 years old. She looks perfect, she's cheeky, she knows what she wants, but ... she got the man wrong. although I try to please (moderately) and court her. We've been dating and having sex for almost three months. We are colleagues ... Despite her attempts to trap me and obsess me, I'm away from her, precisely because of that ... I won't say how much money this woman has spent on me since March this year. I will lose her, simply because she is a brutal materialist, and she can't (even wanted to) give me what I need - a good, real and lasting relationship, warmth and love ... One thing is that I don't love her / she loves me too /, but sex is very good ... On the other hand, her whims and her desire to buy her expensive things, and recently to help her repay her consumer loans, to put it mildly, repel me ... And yes ... and this one a woman decided to go with me after the first time she saw the apartment I live in, she saw my car, the restaurants I visit and the fact that I pay all my bills when we go out ... I will lose her soon, although I need from quality sex ... Tip: leave your boyfriend ...

   Run away from such a man, in time you will regret, such men do not change, he will always please his parents and will always stand by their side even if they are not right, unless you are the most important to him, you are not number1 and if they are not second place, as they should be, it makes no sense to be with him, no woman deserves to be neglected like that.

   I wonder why you're still with him if he insults you, make you scare, etc .. He just doesn't care about you;) and will look at other women: @ apparently he loves you so much -_- a boy only needs to torment you and never have to offend you tighten up a little you are 21 years old before you start to go out with friends friends at disco parties, etc. and you are a riot boy ...;)

   Well, you will have to search :) Not that yours is the very perfection, but its shortcomings are not insurmountable, you are just not good at modeling in it a little different habits that are more similar to your searches ... M , 36

   Number 10 was the most accurate and comprehensive. Congratulations!

   Haha, Number 10 killed the fish! Thanks, me! Kaka, if nothing else, at least she learned how to drain dicks and wallets. :) Will you let her go by beating her jester? With the invaluable information from you, I will only kiss her a few times without getting almost anything! "Bad luck", what to do ... If a woman doesn't start a family by the age of 30-32, she writes. And what else is left but to find someone to suck while it's still happening ...

   There is only one reason behind all this nonsense - He wants a bartender to tickle him.

   To the author: I'm Number 10, I'm writing to you again DON'T DEAL WITH YOUR FRIEND! Don't waste your time ... Study, improve, improve your qualification and become financially and socially independent ... They will meet much better parties than this mother's son ... DON'T WASTE time from your life, which you don't have how to get back ... You are looking for a decent man with opportunities to be at least a little happy ... I scream at him like a man .... A man of 28-30 years is very difficult to change and model his character ... It requires a lot of time, effort, dedication and nerves .... you decide for yourself if it's worth it ??? In my opinion, NO! Not worth it! Looking for something better ... I'm writing to you as a man! Number 16, that's right .. these are the realities .... this colleague who was born in 1976, I know her from 6 years ago .... I also know the previous long relationship / her friend was rich, but then the crisis hit him and he thought it was expensive and he was a jester, exactly for the reasons I pointed out / .... I know some of her lovers ... One paralysis, two other liaison officers ... But until then .... She uses them, but they used her too .... Because I know her well what kind of person she is, I have always avoided her. But she started to press me since the autumn of last year, and very actively ... at that time I had my girlfriend in Plovdiv / I wrote in one of the other topics because I am very sorry that it did not work / ... At this woman from Plovdiv was extra for a family, but she made absurd demands on me that she did not want to be separated from the city where her parents are .... The other one, who is 38 years old, is PERFECT as a body in sex. Vision, body - OK .... A lot of my acquaintances envy me frankly, knowing there is nothing intimate, nothing real, no feelings, although she drools me in front of people and at home, she even wanted to introduce me to her parents and her sister ... How many times does she mention to me I quote, "you become a husband" or, obviously I will have to choose you for a husband "Number 16, don't talk and don't look like that for the women of the past 32 years ... More than a year ago I started a real relationship with such a woman. Women at this age are no longer lying, they are not deceived. They have usually had 1-2 severe disappointments from men and are realistic. I had a good relationship with such a woman. Everything was real ... We didn't cheat, we fought. We frankly shared what irritates us in the other. I haven't taken down any stars. I behaved normally. I was kind, gentleman, well-meaning to her ... After a "probationary" period, she let me in and ... let me tell you, I'm NOT sorry for what I found. . My conclusions from relationships with women older than me - 1. A woman, in order to be left alone or not to have a child / children after 32 years, the horizons are, first of all, that she is selfish, wants to make a career or money and does not care at all. taken purely family things. Or he just doesn't like to have a permanent partner by his side, much less children. 2. The other category of such women are WOMEN who have been INJURED by someone like us - by MEN .... And men-GARBAGE .... they do not trust. They are vulnerable, careful, cautious. they even look cold. If you manage to win such a woman, your chances of having a long-term and decent family partner are good ... So do not rush with the comments ... For me at the moment, it would be ideal for me to have a relationship with a woman under 29 years old. up to 34-34 years maximum ... We are just on a wave of reasoning in most cases ... we are more settled .. . I myself do not rush on muffins until the age of 24-15 ... I only point out that in women of this age - 30-32-34 and above, I am scared that the hormone hits them and they start, with more experience. to cheat a lot on their spouses / friends as if for the world ... They just have a lot of sex, unfortunately they don't want to be with their permanent partner ... And one more thing № 16 ... I started the relationship with, "poop" only because I was in pain and I was disappointed by parting with that, the right woman .... and I needed not emotions, but bloating ... That's why I accepted the whims of "poop" ... That's why I pay for them ... But at least she FOUND HER MASTER! In summary, avoid women who fall silent and become very lazy after seeing your property status ... The biggest mistake you will make is to have a family or children with them ...

   10/18, I'm glad for you that you didn't believe the poop. because many men get caught up in such tricks and then roar: but women were bitches, mercantile, nasty and useless. the truth is that there are parasites of both sexes and they are obvious, you just have to open your eyes. I have no doubt you will find the woman for you. Success! F42

   From the author: Where did you read that I am looking for expensive clothes and jewelry? I just clarified why I stayed with him (because he pampers me by buying me food and treats me nicely), I don't know why you all started attacking me like that, that I was a materialist, etc. That I read a comment somewhere to be caught up with my uncle .. If I wanted money and expensive clothes and jewelry, what else would I do with my boyfriend .. Think about it. It's easiest to beat his jester and get an uncle-coin. Every woman likes to be pampered with various gifts, me - too. BUT, MEN, believe me, there are still women who seek true happiness, dressed in joy and shared moments, not in money and luxury. Money in itself does not bring happiness if there is no one to share it with, no one to spend it on. Money is used to make gestures, to offer joy, not to buy a heart. This, that some of you have suffered from mercantile women does not mean that all of them are. Quite a banal phrase, but it is true. Fortunately, for me, money is a means, not an end. I know that my friend can't give me luxury, and I'm not looking for luxury. My friend makes a living on his own, he has dignity, but he feels an eternal obligation to his parents for raising him, helping him with his education. And I understand it to some extent, because one should be grateful and respect and help one's relatives. BUT, what I don't like is: WHERE DO I STAY In this connection ... Even sometimes, when I go to wait for him in front of them, he doesn't invite me to them, but I wait for him outside. To emphasize that I went to them and I know where he lives. Or, when he invites me, which happens very rarely, his mother doesn't even talk to me, doesn't even tell me: Welcome. Another case, for example, my friend and I want to go to his village for something, and his mother must come too. When I say things like "I want to be alone" and I only hear from the other side: "What do you mind my mother, does it bother you, etc." The first one or two times did not impress me, but it happens every time and it starts to annoy me. I don't know, I don't think he can deny them anything. He can't even tell his mother (for fear of hurting her) or at least make her realize that sometimes we want to go somewhere on our own. Okay, let's face it, he's staring at women. It is normal to see a pretty girl when you see her. OK. But are the other things negligible? !! I feel like a soldier wearing his uniform but ashamed not to fight. It feels like a ship that begins to leak water into its hull and slowly sinks. I feel like I'm crawling, not flying for joy. I feel neglected, alone. I feel that my opinion is not important to him. And anyone who thinks I'm looking for big bundles can save their comments. I'm looking for warmth. I'm looking for love. I'm looking for nice gestures. I want to be first for a man. I want to feel wanted, to feel like a woman.

   №10 / 18, №16 am. You fill my soul with quiet glee! As I read about the pathetic attempts of how to cling to you, now to your friend, and later in life he will probably lower his guard even more ... and I imagine the last scene from Terminator-2, where the monster machine The T-1000, which can take on any shape and appearance just to KILL, falls into the pool of molten metal, and, losing its integrity from the temperature, begins to consistently take on the shape of all the people it killed, desperately looking for a MORE RESISTANT, SAVING one ... Very cool! And for most things you are absolutely right! Now, however, I do not have much time to answer you in detail.

   On the subject. why do you think that someone should separate from their ridge at 20 and ... how much, still living alone, and the accommodation is expensive, and it's lonely, unless he has found a wife, that's another .. why is this a problem? If a man insults you on the topic, you run away immediately ... this is my opinion ... For others, it is normal for a woman to be happy with an expensive gift, and if the man does not want to buy her something, this is another matter and I am not talking to constantly buy for her, and just for the woman to see that the man has no problem spending something for her to feel a little special and thus show some feelings ... However, women want to see that men are not compressed ...

   Until № 19: I gave up a decent woman that I would be able to find .. I have already rushed that I will not be able to start a family There is simply no one .. Just all decent women are either married (mostly happy) or do not want commitment or ... they are simply not in Bulgaria, but are married to foreigners ... some of them are fully committed to a career and do not want a commitment. My attempts to find a decent woman for a normal relationship are UNSUCCESSFUL ... I just do not find such .... Some of the decent women / sing those who give the appearance of such /, themselves very cautious, suspicious and doubt when you talk to them for feelings and by taking them out and courting them. I am looking for a woman in the range of 29-34 years. Neither smaller nor larger, simply because I want a person with whom we seem to have a similar mentality and values ​​... Our problem for us Bulgarians, and especially men, is that we are POOR! And money is important. Until № 21: № 21, the most shocking thing in mine was when I saw my friend at a dinner / he was a 1980 set. /, works very open, public work and is well paid ... Takes clean, at least 3 times more than me. But he is Zemen, he doesn't show off, he is an unpretentious and very cheap car ... So the man came to dinner in jeans, a shirt and his car - Alfa Romeo 156 .... She looked at his car and commented, "Ha, the cheapest drives "... did not even try to talk to him, and we were sitting at a table .. A little later, however, as a matter of fact, what works directly asked me for his phone and asked to meet them in person ... So far we had gathered in great company ... I naturally said, "You are a woman with experience, you are socially active, just seek contact with him personally." I'm not going to meet you, I'm not a pimp ... Besides, the man is not your type ... Then I realized that she had gone and disturbed him in his work. They met. They went out for coffee. Her clothes were provocative. She was very kind to him, she invited him to her apartment. This at, "my poop" is the first standard invitation for sex, when you decide that you are for HER .... The man, because we are from the same city / but we know each other first about a joint job and from there we have a friendship / my share it ... I told him directly what my relationship was with her and that I was not jealous of her at all and that there was nothing between us but sex, even though I was dating and that she really lived with me ... even if they did I don't care about sex ... It gave me the greatest pleasure when I bought a "poop" dress for 900 leva for Easter ... She was very happy / It's always like that when she gets something shiny and fresh /. Throw her neck, caresses, sexy, caressing, delicious cooking and ... a request for a trip to Greece ... This followed on her part. Her idea to go to Greece on the weekend around May 6 followed .... Because I know the script, I withdrew and refused .... She started to convince me and I tried: I say to her,, I will come, but this time , please pay for the trip, because I spent the dress, the bills for the two apartments, the car helmet - / to note that since we are together, I pay the costs of her apartment, provided that I do not live there, but with me /. ... So it's time to pay / before we leave /, she tells me to pay for the hotel, I say,, look, I just don't have the money at the moment "Pay you / by the way, it wasn't expensive / .... Finally, we shared the costs and she was very disappointed ... I was cooler on vacation ... Which made me happy, because at least I'm not drooling .... Then she told me that I had never done such tricks, and not to bother her, because if you see she was a woman, and beautiful and could not be treated like that .. That the woman had to court ... This happens less than two weeks after I bought her the dress, I paid for the make-up, etc .... Well, that made me very angry ... Then I told him directly that I was even too good with her, provided that I didn't it deserves it, because if I go for paid sex / prostitute / it will be cheaper and mostly WITHOUT the complications accompanying my life with her .. she made a style, and I told her - I didn't promise you anything and I didn't lie. .. Go away ... No problem ... You will always find a nice tramp with more money than me. The next step that irritated me were her tearful roles, in which she entered, that she wanted me for a lasting partnership and why not even for marriage ... According to her, I became HER husband "... Here already directly and I said," Honey, I can't afford a woman like you ".... A tirade followed, like I turn everything into conversations about money, etc. Now after a while I go to pick her up to go to a restaurant, then we will go home, we will have sex, she will bury herself in her lap top again, and I will work and so on ... I have told her several times directly that the relationship It is not open to us, but I have given me the freedom to look for a man and I to look for a woman, as for me ... She calls me,,, And our relationship, what are it ???? "The good thing is that at least she doesn't want to go to her parents anymore .... Now the end of the month is coming and I stop paying the bills for her apartment, in which I emphasize I don't live and I wouldn't live. Next I stop with gifts and restaurants ... I decided to teach her a lesson .... It's just that her impudence is HUGE!

   I doubt that at 21 you are mature enough to say who lives where .. I realized things only at 23, and I will still realize more and more. Set 87-92 think slightly infantile and commercially on these issues. And so you give the wrong idea to the little ones. It is not necessary to move out after coming of age. I personally perceive myself as too young and I do not intend to export in the next 2-3 years. And because of people like the author, I will never start a family and get married. No matter how perfect I am, they will always beat my clown, because there is one song - Love is a fairy bitch who stares at money. The truth is only in sex for one night and a light day after. There are indeed happy families, but I notice more complete falsehood. There are many where the father works all day, not to mention what the mother scratches, and the child is a total degenerate. This is the truth itself. Because of such connections, there will be no normal people in this country. Smart kids are made for love, not for expense. Now do you understand why we are in this hall? I've seen things sit.

   Up to 23 Dude, you're cool, but I think you're getting a little wet. You spent 10,000 leva for this woman in 3 months! It's nice sex, but no one is crazy to squander so much money on a naked fuck. Come on, limit your imagination a little.

   By 23 - The dude has sunk hard on the poop, and while writing here he kills his complexes and tries to convince himself that he is through ... for her. The steam to the poop will run out when she dumps it or when the finances run out.