Hello! Before I start writing about my problem, I would like to say that even though I am 14, I have been through many things and I know very well what it means to love. Hardly everything in life depends on age, right So .. on 23. 06. 2012. I met a boy. I was on vacation with the mother of my deceased mother (I like my grandmother) for a month. This boy and I left. Can you believe how happy I was? !! He showed me that I can always smile, enjoy the little things. We were together, but the time came for me to return to my father, all the way to the other side of Bulgaria. Saying goodbye was really hard, but he told me that during this ONE MONTH he felt good and this is our wonderful memory, which is not worth crying about. Now we're texting him on Skype and he's telling me that if we keep in touch next year we'll get back together, but what girl would believe that a boy would wait for him all year ?? I have the opportunity after the age of 14 (I have completed them) to move to live with my grandmother. I told him, but he was afraid that if he moved and it didn't work out, he would be guilty. I fully understand it, but my desire is great. Yes, it's not worth moving just because of a boy (he's 17), but when I think about it, my father and I don't get along, and maybe that's why I'm leaving. Any ideas? :) but when I think about it, my father and I don't get along, and maybe that's why I'm leaving. Any ideas? :) but when I think about it, my father and I don't get along, and maybe that's why I'm leaving. Any ideas? :)
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Well, you decide, but I think he's right. And if you move and then nothing happens, you will be very sorry. It's up to you if you're willing to take the risk. Consult someone else! Success! :) // Beauty frog //
Make sure the boy is worth the effort and that he wants it too. If you are sure that your feelings for him have become serious enough in just a month, go ahead. I don't see what you're losing except the change in the environment. Make sure your father and grandmother are okay with this. - V. A
I think you should go, try and see how long you will last .. Yes, you are 14 and you still have a lot to see, but if you think the boy is worth it, what are you waiting for? Besides, you can always go back to your father, he won't kick you out or bring you back :) Risk to win!
Honestly, the romantic in me really wants to tell you to rush after love and not look back ... but the practical part of me knows that this will probably be your biggest mistake. Everyone is different, it may seem to you now that you are hellishly happy and in love, but if you separate, he will not sacrifice anything, and you will sacrifice the life you already have for a new beginning with him. Maybe if it was a little bigger, I would recommend you get together. This is the moment when, reading what you have written, I say that if you think that at the age of 14 you have experienced a lot and are mature enough, then you should be mature enough to be able to make a decision for yourself. you are. If you think that you will be able to move forward no matter what happens between you and it will not affect you as a person, try it, if you are not 100% sure, you better not. You are still young. And the other thing I can personally advise you is to rely on yourself and him in making this decision. You should not be influenced by other people, much less by strangers on the Internet (I do not want to bother with this, I'm just expressing an opinion). -Honest
Hello! If you move, you have to change the school and the whole environment. Do you have acquaintances there with whom you communicate every day? You can go for 1 year to see how things go. If they go wrong you can always go back to your father but you are still a minor he will not kick you out I hope. He is older and I'm afraid he may meet a gorgeous chick and decide you're a child. And if he reacted like that, then he is not sure of his feelings. In general, moving is not a bad thing if you want it and not just because of it. Let him come to your end. Would he do it for you? If he is not ready to do it, why should you do it for him. After all, he is bigger and supposedly wiser. And the fact that you will be with your grandmother does not mean that everything will be allowed if you do not have parents. If you are there, will your father send you money? Moving because of him is not worth it. If you move because of you because you want change and you have to be ready for it, then you can.