Hello! A 26-year-old married woman with two children aged 4 and 1 and a half writes to you. Let it not sound praised, but I am quite a beautiful woman, I work in a store in the city center and this implies a lot of contact with people. I constantly receive invitations for meetings, gifts, obscene offers, sponsorships, etc. from men, and I have to hide this from my husband and it weighs on me. Do you think it's right for me to confess to my husband about everything that happens at work, and is it right to accept someone's invitation to a meeting from a man I like We do not live in who knows what luxury and is it right to receive money from men to meet? I'm really tempted by the money, but I'm very afraid to do something like that. Please give me advice! One woman
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And when he woke up, what turned out? The important thing is to believe in yourself!
You better not tell him and do not accept any invitations, gifts and the like .... I assure you that once you give in to the least and you like it, you will make a huge mistake that will divide you maybe forever. She said it herself, you are married, you have children ... you have taken on a great responsibility by starting a family and becoming a mother. Every woman dreams of this. Why do you want to destroy your happiness and that of your children and husband? It is not worth destroying everything because of some obscene proposals from some uncles .... you will be with one night, maximum 2, and with your husband never again, if you cheat on him. Is it worth it? NO!
My opinion is that if they give you money for a meeting, it means that both or at least one of them will be satisfied. I guess you understand what I mean. And for a woman with children, married, this is NOT right at all.
This behavior does not apply to a woman with two children ....
Don't do nonsense !!!
Whether you tell your husband is your decision, I personally would not, you know what men are. About the invitations ... If you want to accept one of the nice guys, but be careful what you do, think about your family and your guilty conscience after that. You judge. Success :) MP =]
You sound like a complex ... and only you can give yourself the answers to these questions. You have to decide for yourself whether it is right to break your husband and whether it is right to do it for tempting sums. I even feel sorry for you when I read you ...
Now, it's okay not to tell your husband, it's okay to take money, but they'll want sex. Choose who he will be tied to, as a rule, to do it less often. Frequent encounters are dangerous. Find out first about the conditions, how far and how far you can go. Be very careful, because it is dangerous! Under no circumstances tell your husband !!!
Say NO to prostitution !!!
"sponsorship"? omg do they already call it that ??
I feel sorry for the children of such parents. :(
You talk like blood, you're crazy about money and you risk your relationship with your spouse, aren't you ashamed, are you selling yourself? !! People beware of such
From the author: Please do not misunderstand me, I am not a complex and the situation I find myself in is completely real. Thanks to all of you for the advice, I'm really confused and don't know what to do. My husband loves me very much, he has never given me cause for doubt, I hold on to him, but other people's attention really tempts me. The truth is that my husband does not remember to give me gifts and pleasantly surprise me, and I definitely miss that and that is where my hesitation to accept someone's invitation comes from.
From the author: I did not want to sell my beauty and body and I did not do it. I do not deny that my husband and I are no longer like 5 years ago, our lives go through a hectic daily life and we do not have time for each other. I miss his tenderness, caresses and attention. All this is due to the fact that we are both busy working late and I earn extra income as a makeup artist. However, I can't say that I bought another gift with the extra income ... I really have no one to share it with and it bothers me a lot to keep quiet and hide everything from it, but on the other hand it's nice to feel desired ...
And what if they knock you out a few times and take BGN 100-200-500, and then you let them treat your syphilis or fix a broken tooth? But the most plausible scenario is that when your husband touches you (and this will happen faster than you want) - he will have the full right to divorce and keep the children. If that's what you're aiming for - keep wagging your tail and melt with pleasure when the men in your eyes say you look like a prostitute.
And why are you in such a hurry to get married, and to have children, when you haven't combed the kitten yet?
The curse of beautiful women. Don't worry, as you get older and uglier, no one will want to fuck you, not even your husband. You have a few more years left. Otherwise, grit your teeth because of one fuck, as you are ugly, you will not be fucked, and you will not have a family.
There are on duty, disoriented, who are far from Earth and in old age - other generations. If you have not cheated, what will you get - medals, orders, diplomas? The girl has opportunities for something different that she misses and wants to experience. Infidelity is genetically embedded in man and there comes a time when it is unlocked. And in the above-mentioned there are some worthy citizens of the Republic, without hesitation, without staring, forgetting even the erotic, let alone the pleasure. And to make money from it ... pleasure comes at a price. To the Author ... smart and beware!
Number 19, are you talking about a woman with marriage and children, or are you giving an example of something else? Of the medals you are talking about, there is something more valuable, something called Morality. And what about the children? You seem to have a genetic predisposition. Good luck with the medals for infidelity. For now, win one for stupidity. :)
It's me again (Number 2). Author, since you lack your husband's attention and caresses, don't you have so much mouth to tell him, but you have an ass to sell? Is the second easier? I'm sorry, but I'm disgusted by such people .... I'm a person who LOVES and SHOWS his feelings ... I don't understand people who can't show their feelings and can't have conversations ... then why did they get together as a hello surely do not say? If you want to fix your relationship, start seducing him, tell him you miss him, do something good for him !! Then he will do something for you, and so ... as it came to you from within. Don't miss your chance, it may be the only one. If you cheat on him, all three of you will suffer for life.
... I never thought that being a "shopkeeper" would be such a tempting profession ... sorry-job ... ZARA
That what is it for the girl to work in a store, the important thing is that she earns her money alone and does not lie on her husband's back ..., and I read here 90% of the comments are written by old, complex and envious pathetic women. Of course, people like her have many opportunities and why not make a gift to a beautiful woman if I meet her, even in a store ... Your anger has no end.
The author to read "Only for participants in extramarital affairs" has it in this section. To number 20 ... as a moralist, why are you trying to teach morality to me and her? Let us fuck who and whom we decide! Children what? They are growing. Number 22 ... the most courted are waitresses, bartenders and shopkeepers, so they put on beautiful clothes to attract, the flow of men is large and the hints are everyday, but you have no way of knowing because you are not one of them.
From the author: To number 22 I don't think there is anything wrong with working as a salesman and number 25 is right that they should be good looking people because it is important. There is a lot of time to number 18 until then, at least as many years as I am now ... unfortunately there are many girls, 7-8 years younger than me and no children, who look much older than me . To number 21 we have talked about all this more than once, but I come to the conclusion that he obviously has no sense of how to show emotion and feelings. He may not be the perfect husband, but he is great as a father and that keeps us together. If it weren't for that, we wouldn't be together for a long time. The fact that I received gifts without anything in return does not think that makes me a bitch, as most of you have said. I wanted to know what you would do in my place, and most people here have distorted things like that, it's as if I've done it a thousand times and they've forgotten that I haven't done anything yet. What woman wouldn't be flattered to see that she was liked and wanted, who wouldn't enjoy male attention? Ahhh, I guessed probably those who have never had it and could not have experienced ...
Author: Number 1, I have not exaggerated anything, everything written is real, as well as myself ... I do not mind leaving a link to the Facebook account, but I want to remain anonymous ...
.... to the author; darling, I didn't even think that what you were doing was wrong, I don't see where you read it ... it's not wrong to work even as a prostitute, what's left for a shopkeeper .... 24 and why don't you really make a present for a saleswoman ... I even wonder how you may not have thought of it until now ... 25 .. this "stream of men" really made me laugh .... and where from I will know these things without relying on the "hints" that you so desire .... easy work ... ZARA
Yes, Zara, how could you not understand this about the flow of men and the hints? It's so prestigious to be a shopkeeper or a waitress in a smoky country pub and some uncles to wink at you, slap you on the ass and bow to your beauty ... I think I deviated from the topic too ... author, like you knock, go scratch your ego (and not only) with the first uncle or immature crib where you take off and then just do not post new topics, I fell in love with my lover, and he stopped looking for "and blah blah such heartbreaking dramas children, they grow up, but as they grow up, you blow on someone's genitals for your miserable ass, one day when you wrinkle and you can't take two steps without the cane, these children may not be next to you as you were not next to them ...
God how much malice and envy. comments from envious ugly women and complexed men. they are angry with you. but don't make that pea. all your life you will regret your husband believe me. everything is paid for in this world. I pay cruelly, do not repeat my mistakes
Apparently you don't mind selling yourself, so why are you asking us? I think you should have lived your youth first, found yourself and only then started a family. I just feel sorry for your children.
To number 21 - we have talked about all this more than once, but I come to the conclusion that he obviously has no sense of how to show emotion and feelings. He may not be the perfect husband, but he is great as a father and that keeps us together. If it weren't for that, we wouldn't be together for a long time. ==================================== In a word, you have reunited with the wrong person. If he has no sense of how to show you feelings and emotions, and you insist on that, why did you go under the wreath with him in the first place, that you gave birth to two children for him? Have you ever asked yourself this question, dear author? Now what, you realize years later that something in your husband is lame and not what you thought he was. And, ahem, what caresses and feelings do you want, as you both work and feed two children? What emotions do you want? To take you to dinner every day? Or on vacation abroad in a month? And what do you give him in return? Anal sex, great oral love, what? And let me ask you again - before you marry him and give birth to his two children, wasn't there enough time to realize that he can't be sensitive and emotional (something you hold on to from what is written) that you are not married in the second week people? Aww ... I will tell you one thing - the fact that you ask this question in an anonymous forum means only one thing - you have made the decision to cheat on your husband and it will happen sooner or later. It may be in a week, in a month or three, but it will happen. Whether it will be with a wealthy client or with some glarus at sea, but it will happen. Your guilty conscience is speaking right now, who wants strangers on the Internet to prove to her how wrong and immoral what you are going to do is. Good luck further. I hope you save the situation with your husband.
I don't think that's right. Until a person is alone and without children, he can do whatever he wants, but once you have started a family, it is no longer normal to look for such attention, money and company of men. Probably something is missing in your house and that's why you look elsewhere, but if so, leave your husband and do what you want. If you're just interested in getting attention from other people, OK, but attention is one thing and meetings are quite another. Besides, if you're from a small town, your husband will find out soon enough
Are you looking for an excuse for prostitution? You don't need it, darling. Dare;) LA
do it free of charge with a student.
If you receive obscene proposals, then you provoke them with something .... A beautiful woman on display, this is you. If you want to break the temptation or give in to it or change your job ....
I wonder how many men jump to condemn and edify. However, if they have a good chance to knock someone out, they won't even think about it, let alone sit down and shake. The author, do not blame yourself. Your husband is also to blame and it is that he took you for granted. If you are really attracted to one of the others, experience something with him. But forget the money and the gifts - they only ruin the good experience. If you want something, do it for yourself and for the other person, not for money and gifts. Success!
I missed this topic. I have to admit that I played a movie in which one of the heroines was like you. Beautiful, thinking about the tip of the ice cream, loving to be liked by men, but not by the man next to her. Beautiful, beautiful, but stupid, when you work in a store and think in this sick way at all. And you don't have to ask yourself these questions, sooner or later with this thinking you will get to where you obviously want to go. The result will be that all weak-willed men will want to impregnate you because you are beautiful and will not care that you are stupid. Finally, in 10 years, when you will no longer be so attractive, you will have a divorce, children, memories of many dicks you went through and a big void in you. Then you will no longer work in a store, because you will no longer attract customers,
I sincerely hope this is a fictional story written by a 12-13 year old teenager. Because if it's really written by a woman of 26 you must be very limited thinking and you must be blonde
Familiar story. My ex-girlfriend with whom I was 3, 5 years old together was also a saleswoman. Attractive beautiful and with not much mental baggage, without a gram of desire for development. In the beginning all pink love and the like. After a while, she began to think like the author (or rather always thought so). I want more gifts, more attention. But at least she said she was often picked up by men in the store, and she might be tempted. Until one day he was really tempted. So from my observations of such girls with professions as saleswomen, waitresses and manicurists are that they are the same. Most are also set up for make-up without gram values and brains. The only goal is to find a better sponsor. In time, of the "elite" saleswomen in the center, only an ordinary aunt will remain a saleswoman in the subways and markets, but the ability to vote and look for a sponsor remained, but all at a much lower level. Of course, there are exceptions, but there are few.
There is not much logic in what is written. You write that you and your husband have understanding, peace and trust in your marriage, but you lack ATTENTION. You write that different men offer you money and gifts. Did any of them offer you attention or do you plan to buy it from your husband with the money earned. Thoughts with that head were a woman