Hello, I am a young woman, 25 years old. A dynamic, highly extroverted person who loves sports, movement and conubulation, and alas, by coincidence, probably works the most boring job in the world - a bank employee. And for 4 years. I leave aside the fact that I take as much as BGN 800 purely, against them I have the pleasure to serve companies, individuals, ATMs, to fulfill a hundred targets and in the meantime to replace the cash register when necessary. My job involves standing all day, which just kills me. I don't imagine myself that way. I tried to leave last year, but I had to help ours urgently and canceled the application. I'm sure I work as a sales representative or some type of regional head of some offices. Something with movement, moreover, is better paid. But, and here comes my weirdo - first, I have a license, but I haven't driven for years and I'm certainly not at a good level. And secondly and more importantly, my husband and I generally talk about children that we might try to do this or next year. It's okay for motherhood in the bank, because I can't be denied sick leave, but the thought of staying here for a while longer kills me. And I'm not sure I'm ready for kids this winter. And now I'm just wondering if I should give up this job, which I go to more than reluctantly, and take a risk in a field that is unfamiliar to me, or last another year or two until I give birth What do you think? If I were a man, it is clear what I would do, but alas, women still have to take into account that we are about to give birth. basically my husband and I are talking about kids we might try to do this or next year. It's okay for motherhood in the bank, because I can't be denied sick leave, but the thought of staying here for a while longer kills me. And I'm not sure I'm ready for kids this winter. And now I'm just wondering if I should give up this job, which I go to more than reluctantly, and take risks in a field that is unfamiliar to me, or last another year or two until I give birth? What do you think? If I were a man, it is clear what I would do, but alas, women still have to take into account that we are about to give birth. basically my husband and I are talking about kids we might try to do this or next year. It's okay for motherhood in the bank, because I can't be denied sick leave, but the thought of staying here for a while longer kills me. And I'm not sure I'm ready for kids this winter. And now I'm just wondering if I should give up this job that I go to more than reluctantly and take a risk in an area that is unfamiliar to me, or last another year or two until I give birth? What do you think? If I were a man, it is clear what I would do, but alas, women still have to take into account that we are about to give birth. And now I'm just wondering if I should give up this job, which I go to more than reluctantly, and take a risk in a field that is unfamiliar to me, or last another year or two until I give birth? What do you think? If I were a man, it is clear what I would do, but alas, women still have to take into account that we are about to give birth. And now I'm just wondering if I should give up this job, which I go to more than reluctantly, and take a risk in a field that is unfamiliar to me, or last another year or two until I give birth? What do you think? If I were a man, it is clear what I would do, but alas, women still have to take into account that we are about to give birth.
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Take a risk, actively look for a new job, go to interviews and when you find your place it is you.
There is nothing worse than being alive and dead. Take a risk. Get out immediately and look for what will make you feel good. Brother.
Do not delay the children, no matter how much you think there is time, the chances decrease with each passing year. It is an illusion how you can easily have a child at 30 and even at 40. Now is your time. Second, look for a job, go to interviews, orient yourself in the situation. In any case, you will find something better and more paid. You don't have to leave and then search. Just send yourself a saint. If you are waiting for everything to be in order and for you to have children. Just act.
Thank you for the comments, I am already on notice, I hope it's for the best.
I am also a bank employee. Our work is low paid, and those at the top of the corporation take a bag of money. My ex-boss even went on vacation to Fr. Bali. And people like us can't afford a vacation even on a Greek island. I don't think you have a child without a secure job. You have time. Settle somewhere at work. Establish yourself there and then plan it. The child does not just want to stutter. There are more costs than even one adult. I am also thinking of leaving, although I am provided with real money. You are not in misery. But the money is small. Every day you encounter simpletons at the front office. They pour all their malice on you. My colleagues are over 50 g gossips, one is even 60 g and with all her impudence she does things I have to do. For example: charging an ATM. I have a certificate and she doesn't. Except that the manager's soles don't lick so as not to cut her. He does his best to take customers as well. Looking at her from the side, it's a pity. At the age of 60, to spin a number of a young girl to be fired, and you to keep the "sweet job", because nowhere else will she be so relieved from work. Their working hours start at 9, then smoking, coffee, smoking again, gossiping outside with a cigarette and coffee. I can't move from the desk, because the moment I close the toilet door they start commenting on me. The whole situation strains me. I have no one to talk to. I'm a young man, I have nothing in common with people like them. I feel that we are separated by several decades and the habit of gossip. We had interns. I was so happy to talk to the young girls, but their internship was over. Now I don't know where to go. I was thinking of starting a distributor, but I wasn't selling FMCG. Traffic is impossible here. But even the nest of snakes in which I find myself does not work well for me. I want not to engage in intrigue and gossip and not to be the subject of such. I don't have nerves anymore, seriously. I can't stand simplicity. I know that there are such simple people everywhere, but at least I can and have the opportunity to limit them, I want to determine my own work without some freak to command me and use me as a vent to my family problems.