I love my husband very much, but I have a very big problem at the moment. I doubt he cheated on me. I never rummaged in his phone, but one day I took it and checked and there was a message inside to another woman and there I read "you are only mine". I asked for an explanation and he told me it was just a joke. I didn't believe him, but he swears to our son that he has nothing to do with another woman, and I don't know if I should believe him. So far we have not had any such problems ...
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Hello! Today I came across a similar case (this is about my best friend). So, you picked up the phone, read something you didn't like, asked your husband, and of course he denied there was anything between him and the woman in question. My advice is this: anyway, at this stage you will not know if your husband is lying to you, you just have to trust him. Don't spoil your family for one text message. Even if he had something to do with this woman, I don't think it's anything serious. I guess you know the person next to you well and you would feel it if there was a parallel connection. Don't let your curiosity kill you. And in most cases, when men cheat, they don't invest anything in it. It's just that any man you ask will tell you: "a stranger is a stranger" Don't bother, raise your head and move forward boldly. Good luck!!!
I don't want to tell you what to think! But there are ways to find out if it's a joke or not, call the number and see go to a meeting with the other party.
Don't believe him and they lied to me like that! I believed for a long time and now I'm sorry!
Never trust a man 100%! If you are so tormented by the thought that he has cheated on you, try to talk to him in a friendly way and ask him not to lie to you, because sooner or later everything is clear. The question, however, is whether you are ready for the truth ... Or maybe there is nothing to worry about! Success!
He must be a great fool if he is really asshole and cheats on you, but swear to his son. Start an investigation, chase him, watch him to make sure
Out of curiosity, I read a text message on the phone of my friend, with whom I have been together for 9 years, and I suffered from my own curiosity, because after the first text message I started looking for others ... I couldn't sleep normally due to doubts ... we started to fight and don't ask me what it cost me to make things right. Certainly people get bored and there are no faithful men, but if you want to ruin your own life - go on, if not ... leave him a little personal space until he realizes himself. It's hard, but it's the lesser evil! And what if you show him that you can be like him, so that at least he realizes faster. The most important thing: don't ruin your life and family because of a stupid text message !!!
I don't think you should trust him. Whether you dig or just keep going is up to you. Just think if you are ready to learn the truth.
My husband was a pathological whore and he liked to fuck his friends' wives (if they didn't refuse him, of course). The scandals reached heaven. He took them home when I was gone. Naturally, we divorced. The bad thing is that for a long time I couldn't believe that he was cheating on me regularly. Rather, I did not want to see. But this with the phone is not always serious. Maybe he gave it to someone to do his job. My colleague asked my phone to text and what to see next - he a love explanation to some. If my friend had seen it - go prove it wrong.
Hello !!! A similar incident happened to me soon. However, I read a letter from his mail, which he had forgotten to open. But I have a big story ahead of me that I won't tell, I'll just say that he had a small affair with the woman he wrote to years ago. So to get back to the topic ... I read the letter, and it said, "Send me your erotic pictures because I'm going to shoot you. And then I'm going to send you pictures of Gabby," or something. Let me just say that Gabby is our daughter. I was furious to see that he was in a relationship with her again, my heart pounding on my neck. After a few hours I couldn't stand it and asked him about the letter, and he told me not to delve into his correspondence anymore, that it had nothing to do with her, he just wanted to brag about the beautiful daughter he had. He told me not to dig so as not to kill everything we had built for several years now, not to hurt ourselves. And then when I thought about it, I said he was right. I generally can't complain about him, he is a very responsible man, a father and a man who has never shown me that I should doubt. So I want to tell you not to dig if there is no reason to doubt, and if so far I am behaving well with you. Leave things like that, if there is something or if there will be something, you will feel it, believe me. Men change when there is another woman in their lifetime. Good luck!!! So I want to tell you not to dig if there is no reason to doubt, and if so far I am behaving well with you. Leave things like that, if there is something or if there will be something, you will feel it, believe me. Men change when there is another woman in their lifetime. Good luck!!! So I want to tell you not to dig if there is no reason to doubt, and if so far I am behaving well with you. Leave things like that, if there is something or if there will be something, you will feel it, believe me. Men change when there is another woman in their lifetime. Good luck!!!
Doubt how else! However, one should never swear at one's child, it is ugly. My friend was suspicious, grabbed my phone and read an SMS to another, with which we only scratched our tongues, so to speak. Let's almost break up with this wonderful man.
Get him castrated or start watching him
Indeed, one should not swear by one's child. I was a student when a colleague told me a secret and said: - Swear to your children! I laughed. "You know I'm not married and I don't have children." Still, I swore to my children because she insisted. I couldn't stand it and shared her secret with a mutual acquaintance. Years passed, I found the man of my life, but I never had a child.