Hello. I have written here before, but now the topic is a little different. I'm 17, and I'm in 11th grade. A month and a half ago I broke up with my girlfriend who is 14. The reason we broke up is that we are both from different cities, and she broke up with me because her feelings have cooled down because we can barely see each other. I tried to go through it, even now I have another girlfriend, but I don't feel anything for her. I'm with her just to distract myself. I'm still thinking about my ex, and I haven't stopped loving her. That's why I've had a thought in my head for a few days. I am seriously thinking that after I graduate, supposedly in a year and a half I will go to study in her city. In principle, I even want to study there, but the main reason I want to go to is the former. So my question to you is is there any hope connection, which ended a year and a half ago to start again? Is there anyone who has gone that route? I know from her friends that she's still thinking about me and that she wants me back, but right now I don't think it's a good idea, and I'd better wait until I'm done and then try again with her. Please give your opinion on the issue and ask if you want to know anything else.
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You made it up, but will she be waiting for you? !!
there are different cases. everyone is different. if only the distance was the reason, I don't see a problem to be together again after you go to study in Sofia. the important thing is to have feelings for each other. in fact, you can feel it yourself. just hear your inner voice.
Nothing is impossible in my opinion. Follow your heart. Start keeping in touch before moving to her city and slowly things will become clearer to you.
In principle, I even want to study there, but the main reason I want to go is the former. - Listen to me, never make my mistake, never, never, and I called myself that I will go to the language school because of my girlfriend, not that it is only because of her, but I will go, and now I am sorry and I will have to regret for another 2 years. Don't do anything stupid that you will later regret, I assure you
The stone weighs in place. There are already too many people in Sofia and Plovdiv. Why don't you study at VINS?
You alone must make the final decision. Otherwise you will attribute the result to someone else (whether positive or negative)
From the author: I thought a lot about it and decided that this is what I want ... and if she wants it, I can't be 100% sure ... even if she wants us to be together now, do you know how she will feel in a year or so? So at this stage I will not make plans for the future, so I prefer to wait to finish, and from then on I will think if I have any future with this girl.
If that's what you want, then you've made the right decision.
And I also want to ask you, how is it better? Should I stop any contact with her at the moment, and when I finish should I look for her again? Because I have her as friends on FB, Skype, etc., and when I see that she's online, or that she's added a new photo, I get super dumb because I remember the moments I spent with her, and so I miss more more, and I can barely refrain from writing to her, and I know it's not a good idea, at least for now. So I'm thinking of removing her from friends and elsewhere, and re-contacting her in time. How do you think it is better?
If you really love her and think that it really makes sense to continue then .. Start writing to her again / regularly / you always start again. And during the conversation, remember that you plan to study at a school in Sofia or ask her what is the right school for him in Sofia / just so she can find out for herself that you will return / and if she really loved you. and wants you to be together alone will show interest in you again. And you can just tell her that in a year or so you will go to study in Sofia and you can also ask her if she wants to start again and that this time you will see each other. If you ask me .. relationships like your girl of 14-15 boy of 17-18, and more .. are full of NONSENSE !! / simple opinion / It seems so stupid to go with someone who is a few years younger than you or older than you. There are always no others "
From the author: Everyone tells me so. She is a child, she does not know what she wants! I realize very well that she is still young, and she doesn't know what she wants, but what can I do? I love her! And for catching a poop, Emmy, what can I tell you? I'm currently dating an 18-year-old, pretty girl with a nice character, but like I said, I don't feel anything for her, and I don't want to feel anything! I want my old girl back! Thinking about how good it was when I was with her, it was the best moments of my life. There is no option to meet another one to replace her, because I am from a small town, and I all know what kind of goods they are. If there was a girl here for me, I would not deal with a girl who is 300 kilometers from my city. Therefore, I will not give up, as someone above wrote, follow your heart! I will do that, and if it is written for us, we will meet again! And if not,
to the author "If there was a girl here for me, I would not deal with a girl who is 300 kilometers from my city" Who does what for himself - you will waste your time with this and so on. You have time, knock your head and gain experience, because now it's OK, but there are men in your situation and it's tragic ...
to the author "If there was a girl here for me, I would not deal with a girl who is 300 kilometers from my city" Who does what for himself - you will waste your time with this and so on. You have time, knock your head and gain experience, because now it's OK, but there are men in your situation and it's tragic ...
I will be happy for as much advice as possible so please comment.