I have a friend for almost 3 months, but we see each other once a week for sex, one day. We have sex, we have fun, we go out with his friends and we have a great time. During the time we are not together we write to each other on Skype / camera, we talk on the phone. He is extremely kind and good-natured. But a few days ago I decided that we would talk about feelings so that we would be aware. I told him that I felt more than like him and that I was in love with him. He was honest with me and told me that it was too early for him to feel that way, not because I didn't give him a reason, but because he was distrustful and had suffered a lot from previous relationships. I just explained to him that I wasn't telling him "I love you", but that I was just in love with nothing more. I don't know if I'm worried about the fact that he's not in love with me or what Thanks for your time :)
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"He was honest with me and told me that it was too early for him to feel that way, not because I didn't give him a reason, but because he was distrustful and had suffered a lot from previous relationships." The typical male excuse to get out of a situation. I tell you this as a man who also uses such clichés.
catch two more and you won't care so much for this one
Do not worry! Rejoice that the boy is honest with you instead of telling you a false "I love you" .... We men (I'm a man of 25) do not like talking about feelings ... I have a girlfriend with whom we just make FRIENDLY NON-ENGAGEMENT SEX, and when she starts to behave slimy, to come to me in public places to hug me, to talk to me about what we are and so on and I feel sick and annoyed ... I told her very clearly that she has a friend from whom to get ligatures, and I am a man for sex and fun! She knows it but still from time to time she wants to talk about feelings ... I'm just like your boy - I say I LOVE YOU only when I'm sure of what I'm going to say, and I wouldn't tell you "I love you" just to let me know for example ... I've also experienced nasty relationships - I went for 4 years with one, who, like a lower gypsy, fucked herself in a dilapidated building with her classmate who told her "I want to fuck you bitch" .... that's why I'm also careful not to fall in love and not to get burned! I completely understand your friend and I sympathize with him! Do not worry! DO NOT press it! WITH THE STUPID FEMALE LOGIC "But why doesn't he love me" the only thing you will achieve is either to lie to you or to get tired of him, to be scared and to separate! DO NOT BE STUPID AND DO NOT BEHAVE AS A WOMAN! Think like a man - if you are good together, does it matter? !! WITH THE STUPID FEMALE LOGIC "But why doesn't he love me" the only thing you will achieve is either to lie to you or to get tired of him, to be scared and to separate! DO NOT BE STUPID AND DO NOT BEHAVE AS A WOMAN! Think like a man - if you are good together, does it matter? !! WITH THE STUPID FEMALE LOGIC "But why doesn't he love me" the only thing you will achieve is either to lie to you or to get tired of him, to be scared and to separate! DO NOT BE STUPID AND DO NOT BEHAVE AS A WOMAN! Think like a man - if you feel good together, does it matter? !!
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Thanks to number 3 :) I just told my friend that I was in love with him and I didn't expect anything, but I just found it weird that he doesn't feel that way about me yet, because his actions definitely say otherwise.
Yeah, it's too early for those feelings. If they gave me 1 lev every time I or someone from my company told this to a girl, I would drive a BMW X5 from 2012: R. Here comes the question of why you see each other only once a week. Are you in different cities or just don't look for yourself very much. If you are in one place, you are more of another number. Of course, there is a chance that he is just afraid or does not want a serious commitment. Make him interesting sometimes and tell him you're breaking up or something. If he says OK and leaves, he gets naughty: P. But it is also a double-edged sword. They did it to me twice. I liked both girls in general. One time I tied up and went with her for another 7 or 8 months, but she moved in with her father in London and there. The other time I was teased because I generally hate getting involved in such dramas and I cut her off.
Yes, I don't drool like that, my boyfriend and I cuddle, but only at home. And I don't touch on the topic of feelings at all because I know that she is irritated by this, and on a walk, let's say, we don't shake hands but just walk next to each other. That's right. And number 3 explained it to you in the best way.
I think he cares about you, if he is honest with you, strong feelings will come, rest assured. I am a woman and as such I will still tell you that while we were at the beginning of our relationship, with my current boyfriend (we have been together for 4 years) he was the first to tell me that he loves me, that he is very in love with me and things like that. that scared me, it was early for me, I was scared, I had experienced love disappointments ... and I told him that I still do not feel such feelings or at least I can not reveal them and that his scare me. Subsequently, to this day, I am still very much in love with him, I love him madly and we get along great. I just trust him now and I am calm, I wish you the same development in your relationship! Success! - Edelweiss
Honey, there's a song by Kat Dahlia-Gangsta. Listen to her :) Maybe others criticize me, but there the girl does not sing in vain that the boys are just hungry and nothing more. Nowadays, everyone is looking for a place to turn, if you understand me. And to some extent the mistakes are in us women, because in order to sleep with a man, at least I think so - you have to know him and know that this is just not some boy spoiled and ... you understand me, right !? -Kati.