Hello! An 18-year-old girl who doesn't know what to do is writing to you. I have a friend for about 2 years, we understand each other a lot. In general, however, I am such a person that I can not tolerate monotony, and this is the reason why I write here. I am from a small town and there is a boy who has been attracted to me for a hell of a long time, who also has a girlfriend (who studies in a big city and is not here). I knew I was screwing him too, but that's it. Until one night he wrote to me. I was very happy because I wanted this to happen for a long time. We went out and it was very nice, it was our first date but we got quite far (there was no sex, but there was pressure), and I'm not such a girl in principle. We went out for the second time, but this time I was a little more distant, because as I said above I'm not such a girl. And we haven't written to each other since. What do you think I should do?
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No, don't write to him! He will use you, he will see that you do not let him have sex and he will stay with his. I was so "loved" and in the end ... don't be as naive as me. A girl of 20 years
You are not such a girl, but you go out after there is an attraction between you and you were aware of what could happen, and you are "bound". Why are you dating him a second time when you're not such a girl? You were keeping your distance - well done, this is the correct behavior on the second date after pressing. Focus on diversifying the relationship with your boyfriend is not impossible.
You are not such a girl in principle, but obviously you do not have such principles ...
Obviously, he only wants sex, and you want a relationship - too bad. Your relationship can only be non-committal, but not serious. When you are not ready only for sex, do not embark on this endeavor, success!