Hello, I am a 20-year-old girl, very in love and naive, so I have never been successful with men and I have always suffered for them. I don't know why I'm writing here at all, but somehow I'm trying to answer some questions ... I met a boy five years older than me, the perfect one in my eyes. We started seeing each other every day, at dinner, at the movies, on a walk ... he was unique with me and everything was perfect ... until one day he just disappeared. I spotted him by accident and he just told me he didn't want a relationship. I was very upset, I was depressed because I fell in love and became attached to him. A month later, when I started to feel a little better, he wrote to me ... He apologized for doing so and explained to me that he did not want to dig deeper because he was going to live abroad and did not want to he lies to me, but often thinks of me. When I asked him why, only now he remembers talking to me, he answered that he felt bad .... I forgave him and told him if he wanted to see me one day to look for me and that was .... Why the hell is he only now writing to me out of nowhere and giving me an explanation? I doubt he feels so bad ... Is there a hidden intent? What does he want from me and will he look for me again? ....
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I don't need a joker :) This is the one with the "naive" again. Nice, ah;)
And look at the girl ... he wanted something and he must have taken it from you ... what are you for now .... if he wants to and he will write to you ... the bad thing is that you will meet then ....
Falling in love always takes place in fantasy. You make up an imaginary image and stick it on a real person without opening your eyes to see if it really is what makes you tingle. If reality coincides with fantasy - this is paradise. But it never matches 100%. And we humans are becoming more and more capricious and perfectionist when it comes to requirements for others.
I'm sorry chick, but it's just that the boy has found another one and the moment the other one cuts him, he knows that you are "tied in a towel". As he disappeared once, he will do it again. If he really liked you, he would tell you the first time he was going abroad. 1000% is just an excuse to hang up again. You will hardly accept my comment, because according to your writing style, I feel that you have sunk. It will be better for you not to deal with it anymore. You will just save yourself nerves and frustrations. And once he has stopped communicating with you, in the first moment, like another chick is tied to him, he will stop it again. I'm sorry to write it, but in my opinion, you're just a backup plan for it ... You better watch your life and move on! A man. 29
Shall I tell you why ... because it's simple.
You are a backup option. If he cared about you, he wouldn't look for you in a month or two, but all the time. Try this one, the one, and the one you tie. He knows you have feelings for him and he takes advantage of it. It sucks, it's nasty, but it happens. Unfortunately, I experienced it on my own. I just told him that I deserved something more, that if he wanted to be with me, he would change his attitude. If you really mean something to him, he will not give you vain hopes and you will be together, or he will disappear from your life. Just be more confident and say clearly what you want from him, and ask him as a person not to make fun of you. Success!