My little at first glance years taught me one thing - the bigger your bastard, the more they will respect you. I learned it, unfortunately, in a difficult way. You treat someone well, you please them, you look for them, you turn the earth to He felt special and loved, just look at him, appreciated him and he will be grateful to you. Yes, but no! They start thinking of you as a fool, soft-spoken, they start making fun of you, just making fun of your kindness. You start crushing and humiliating the person in question. The moment you put him in his place, he becomes correct, accurate and respects you at least a little more. Life is already like that, people are like that, be a bastard, otherwise they will crush you. Girl 20 years.
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It's a pity, but a fact. Life has taught me that too - hold on badly with people so that they respect you. I do it sometimes, but I always feel bad ...
Dear girl, my age is twice as much as yours. I think I have more experience in dealing with people and I think at the moment you are obviously offended, hurt (probably by a boy), but it's all up to the person. There must, of course, be a line between goodness and naivety, not to mention stupidity. But if the man is correct, if he respects you, if you are closer and has feelings and is noble, then your relationship without extremes is correct. When it comes to intimate relationships - in my opinion, a man should be as much as he is loved, no matter how you treat him well to always have at least a little worry that if he insults you or something like that you can turn your back on him. Ie seek the balance, because to give constantly and not receive in return - this already leads to disappointment, which you obviously experience. Not all people, especially boys, are
I don't quite agree with you. Depends on the person.
Bad people think a good person is stupid because they are angry that they are bad and he is not. That doesn't mean you have to be like them. Just try to communicate with someone like you. The bad guy will always reject you, don't dream of being like him!
Give contact details and I will find someone who will treat you like a human being and have heard of the word "gratitude".
You go from one extreme to the other. Look at what number 2 wrote you. I would just add that you are looking for a "golden mean" between the two and it doesn't mean being a "nasty bastard" or a "naive". The golden mean is the moment when you know the price of everything you do, you stick to the principles / but it is important to have them / and you know exactly what you expect to receive in return for what you have given. in both business and love, this principle works. Ralph
A long time ago