Hello dear !!! I am 25 years old, I divorced 6 months ago, I have a wonderful child of a year and a half. I live with my parents, in general everything is fine. But I have a question that does not give me peace .... Are there men who would commit to a divorced woman with a child I think these things because I am afraid of loneliness .... the least I want is to grow old alone ... I live in a small town and here they seem to look at a divorced woman as a second-hand woman .... These thoughts I'm going crazy ... The divorce happened because I was physically abused ... that is, I didn't want to ruin my family, but sometimes that's how it happens ... I'm asking for your opinion on the question, are there any men who would commit to a woman with a child?
Answers 24
The child is not an obstacle!
I haven't married or had children, but I have colleagues of the same age with older children who have changed a lot of men since I've known them ... So don't worry, you even did well to get divorced.
Of course there is. there is a passenger for every train! Good luck and don't think much of it, it will just come.
Around me divorced with children and again married and already pregnant with children from the 2nd marriage as much as you want. Anything is possible!
I think you will get lucky with someone else like you ... meaning and he with a child or a late bachelor. I wouldn't imagine watching someone else's child, not that I'm a bastard, but it's super awkward and weird.
Most do not want, because the child will be their expense, but I know a woman with two children who has found a new husband ...
And I know a woman and a man and the 2nd with a child and now they are together and they already have theirs.
I would never take a woman with a child. Principles! This does not mean that there are no divorced and old bachelors who would not complain. Not everyone would look after someone else's child, BUT anything is possible.
Yes, but men probably from 30 or 35 years up. Before that, men were not afraid of loneliness. You are very young and quite inexperienced. The problem is not the child, but the divorce. Very few people have a problem with this. And no, you're not second-hand. Second hand are only things, such as car, washing machine, dryer. You are probably a wonderful person for your child and parents.
I am a man of 28 and recently thought about it (along with a woman with a small child). On the one hand, I think a lot of men would be OK, but you have to be ready to have more children. Also keep in mind that for some people the problem would not be that the child is not theirs but that there is a child in your relationship at all, which will take up both of your free time.
She is looking for a divorced man and he with children.
It's too early, don't think about it. Watch your child, he needs all your love.
There are such men, when you get together you will have your own child. You don't have 2 children, and one, I don't think it's an obstacle (from a financial point of view for a man). Depends on the person. Many men do not want to raise another's child. I say this from the position of an adult like that. But there are also good people. Don't worry, you're very young.
As a man on the spot I say it and remember it women. If a man loves you, if he is responsible, there are no obstacles for him to be with you. If you want to have 5 children or a deadly disease, it will still be with you. I know so many quality men and women around 40 who do not have families because they were ambitious to achieve something in life or were with the wrong person to start a family.
Just to tell you it's urgent! you have to start reading books - in the title you put you admit a terribly ugly tautology (it is clear for an extremely stupid person that after you are a mother you have a child / children), which is unthinkable to be allowed by a person who has become a parent !! And yes, it's very brutal, because if it was spelled, we could assume it was due to writing from a smart background, but in this case it's an obvious semantic error. You could write 'single woman with a child' or just 'single mother'. Otherwise, yes, it is quite possible to find a husband if you want to have 4 children. Different people have different characters, interests, views, perceptions, worldviews, etc. Regardless of what gender they are. But the other thing to keep in mind is that no one and nothing can guarantee you either. nor to anyone whether he will grow old alone, with whom he will grow old, where and how, etc. The best thing you can do is to get out of the small town, because most people from small settlements are limited and cheap gossips, which as you have already established are managed to instill in you thoughts that drive you crazy as you wrote. And instead of thinking about something useful and positive - you think about the minds of crazy peasants and peasants.
If there are men who want a relationship with a woman with a child, the answer is yes - yes and you came across me, I am the right person. :) I am 24 years old, I have no wife and children or marriage. It's a little awkward to give my phone Skype or Facebook - I can't say them because the moderators will see. And for the child - to be alive and healthy and to make you very happy.
regarding comment number 15 The author writes as she likes.
Number 14 is right. If a man likes you, that shouldn't be a hindrance if he's a man. I know Bulgarians where they go with gypsies and gypsies with Bulgarian women. So someone doesn't know how lucky he is. M 21
by the Author: Thanks for the answers! I know that only time will tell if we will grow old on our own and we will find the person to grow old with .... but I just wanted to hear the opinions of other people on this issue. Thanks to everyone who asked for an opinion!
My 17th number, I will agree with you only if education in Bulgaria becomes paid. Do people pay taxes to this country for that? And it's high time to tighten the belt of people who are parents.
Please, just don't feel guilty about getting divorced. You are a brave woman who has opened a future for herself and her child. If someone doesn't want you because you're divorced, then you probably don't want to be with such a person, with such understandings, do you? You have taken an important step. Spread your shoulders a little, start going out with friends as a start, even if only once a month, try to be among people, not to close. Everything will be in order. Maybe in the beginning it will be just sexual intercourse to increase your self-esteem a little after the divorce. I wouldn't be looking for a lifelong partner so soon. Live as you please and leave the past behind.
You are not second hand! You're probably n-th ... And that's perfectly normal now. I'm sorry you were physically abused. This is unacceptable! And it's good that you're divorced. But ... At 25, with a one-and-a-half-year-old child living with her parents ... Talk about only one thing - irresponsibility ... You probably don't have a promising education or a profession. If you are not a mind-boggling beauty, or a woman that everyone falls in love with because she feels like it (believe me, there are few of them), it remains to emphasize yourself! Or just take a risk with the next one ... He will show up. But, the choice of how to live your life is always yours ...
From the Author: to number 22 I don't think that living in your home is irresponsible! And what education I have is not a factor at all whether you will meet love .... You have a very distorted thinking about the relationship between two people .... I'm not looking for wealth and luxury ... I'm looking for a quiet life in which I secretly hope to have myself, a sober-minded man with whom to share my life !!!! is
A man who likes you and wants to be with you will take you with a child. You are still very young .... We are talking about a man, not a man. But I doubt that a decent one will be found in the small town.