Situation: men around me-pain. Some want sex, others flirt, others a serious relationship, some offer me marriage - men to see your eye. However, I cannot fall in love with another human being. I can't afford it in any way. In my life I have had only one serious relationship, which lasted 4 years and since then .. different men come, pass me, send me a letter and pass. Do they pass, or do I repel them - I do not know. I focused all my energy on learning, development, building a career. It is difficult for me to establish a stable relationship with someone, but at least I can fight for financial stability. And yet I feel a huge lack ... I miss my partner, I know that. Friends are friends, work is work, but in the evening I go home and sleep alone. And it began to weigh on me. I'm not too old, but I came into life at a very fragile age and now I feel overwhelmed - fun, parties and going out, casual dumps, indiscriminate sex and short relationships - it's not for me. My age does not allow the other extreme - family, children, responsibilities - and this is not for me. Situations - a lot .. what to do with the one I found myself in?
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I bet you look like a Paynerka and take advantage of men the way you want. Then, why are you alone. Some people deserve their fate.
Very well written, but how old are you so you can't start a family? I don't think there is an age for that - you can always get together with the right person. You see, you are right for your children, but if it is too late to give birth, you can adopt, it is a responsibility, but if you do not want to take it yourself, you will exist, somewhere in life and so you will go out, one determines the way your life. As for men - you do not repel them, but you do not want them. Financial stability is a very relative concept, and science ..., um, research papers may work for a very limited number of people or be discussed in symposia, but, girl, your usual vocation is to give birth or raise a life, to create comfort and beauty and to experience the most ordinary human joys, and everything else is wind and fog, but this is of course late. You sound pretty tired and bored with life. At the time when colleagues at the university got married in the second year, we thought "These are not in order, where they have become more engaged", and their marriages came out stable, raised and educated their children. Two years ago, we celebrated 20 years since graduating from high school - a staggering number of old girls and bachelors here and there - some with academic titles and labors, others with enviable careers, but alone. And what? Maybe you didn't miss the last train, open your eyes and see life, I wish you success. Two years ago, we celebrated 20 years since graduating from high school - a staggering number of old girls and bachelors here and there - some with academic titles and labors, others with enviable careers, but alone. And what? Maybe you didn't miss the last train, open your eyes and see life, I wish you success. Two years ago, we celebrated 20 years since graduating from high school - a staggering number of old girls and bachelors here and there - some with academic titles and labors, others with enviable careers, but alone. And what? Maybe you didn't miss the last train, open your eyes and see life, I wish you success.
How old are you?
Well, you obviously don't know what you want someone from here to tell you. Indiscriminate sex is not for you and serious relationships are not for you, what is the average situation? To find someone with whom you can only have sex without commitments? I hope you don't turn 45 and then remember that sooner or later everyone starts striving to start a family. Obviously you will need more time to understand it, or you may not understand it, not everyone creates a family .... well, whatever you do for yourself you do it! No man will end up saying, "Hey, poor thing, look how lonely she is."
At number one, I don't see what I can say .. Number 2, thanks for the support, I will take your words as advice for the future! For me, the main function of a woman is to raise and educate good, emotionally stable children ... I saw sad and completely empty of content young people - I do not want it for my children. Here the emancipated ladies will probably jump like stung, but the woman is first and foremost a mother! I am 18 years old. This year I am starting my higher education. So far, I'm progressing mostly with languages. I don't know if I need 5-6, but that's how I feel engaged in something useful and I continue to study them quite purposefully.
Marilyn Monroe: "Career is a good thing, but it can't keep you warm on cold nights," one of her great thoughts. Follow her, meet someone with whom you have common interests, talk, experiment, have fun .. I can't advise you anything else ..
Shall I tell you what to do? Stop poking your nose and step on the ground a little. Choose a good husband to look after you, love you, look after you and take care of your future child. These children do not rise from heaven. And how come there are a lot of men and you don't like anyone? You seem to have left with the big basket. You know that after a lot of selection you will end up alone? Otherwise I wish you success!
You express yourself well for 18 years. The other is fleeting, you will pass
Ah, you broke me! So at 18 you were tired of life and you were fed up with everything and you only had a 4 year relationship, when did you succeed, was she a girl? Is it *** at 11? If people like you raise children, they will become the same scum. So in this line of thought, stay alone and do not make children, so that there are no more mistakes of nature. Language for the languages you learn
Who knows what happened to her, don't talk much. And maintaining a four-year relationship is not easy at this age. Congratulations! Now what to do? Study, don't shut yourself in, go out with friends and something like this is going to happen. There will always be a man you like and be together
I will support number 1 here, because it seems to me the most logical explanation. We can't always want everything from life to the max. It's not easy - those who rob with full fists, in the end fate fucks them the hardest and you will feel it yourself. How is your situation? 90/60/90, a lot of make-up, hairstyles and nice clothes and no one satisfies you, because you are very cool for everyone, quo? I do not live in Bulgaria in principle and I returned in a year. We caught up with a chick, everything was perfect, but we didn't get into a serious relationship, because she realized that my life abroad is not flowers and roses and she cares a lot and if we are together she will have to work for her; Unfinished claims, this is the Spaniard