Hello! I don't want to complain about my life in this story, I just want to encourage those who are desperate for love. 7 years ago I met the "love of my life". In the beginning (as in any relationship) everything was nice, strewn with flowers. We lived together and I was the person who covered the bigger expenses, in the sense that I paid for the accommodation, I bought food, I bought clothes and shoes ... we loved each other and we had to help each other. Even so, I felt much more secure, thinking that by indulging in everything, he would be grateful to me and at least not cheat on me. Unfortunately, this did not happen, now I only understand that there were infidelities and there were not 1 or 2. I loved him so much that I chose to stay with him and treat my pain with infidelity on my part.
And so 3 years began only lies, infidelity, but at least there was no breaking. I didn't want to leave him because I was sure I wouldn't meet a better man, and I guess that's why he was sitting with me. One day I just couldn't stand it, I packed my bags, I said to myself this is not the life of the lovers I watch in the movies ... and I went to another city. The first night I met my current husband, with whom we have a beautiful boy and I just never felt happier. The boy and I kept our friendship and from time to time we see each other for a coffee. He also immediately after my separation met the WOMAN (as he puts it) and now they are a family. I'm glad for him that he's happy, that he doesn't cheat on her as I do, that when he says her name and honey drips on him, that she really loves him too, ... but I'm most glad that I really met the love of my life (and this time I will not quote). My thought was,
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I'm happy about you! I lived 15 years with a man, made my life hell. Then I met another - we made each other's life hell. We both have big children, we are neither young nor old, but ... 10 times we separate and reunite. I just started dating someone and he-hop with me and I-hop with him. And the other is cooler in every way, at least at first reading. What nonsense only, eh! Such scabies, you can not give advice on how not to waste time, sometimes just common sense does not help. And as for infidelity - how do you know if your ex-boyfriend is not cheating on his new girlfriend?
Well, I know because he's been with her all day (while it wasn't with me), only when they go to the toilet they break up, if I may say so. My husband and I are in exactly the same way now ... we don't even go out for a minute separately, and my ex is even worse off with his, they even work together. Can you imagine what it's like to be with your loved one 24 hours a day and not get bored ... that's how it is with them. I'm not angry, on the contrary, I'm happy for them.
I'm happy about you. I am the author of the previous story. If it so happens that I finally decide to end this relationship, I wish I could finally meet love. Be happy and enjoy every moment with your husband and child. And I have not lost hope that one day I will meet a man who is like me and with whom we will speak the same language. I hate infidelity, lies and fake relationships between people.
So what do you write when you don't want advice?
I only think one thing ... these 7 years are not a waste of time. On the contrary ... You have filled the time until you meet the real one. Or maybe if she hadn't gotten angry and packed her bags and gone to the other city, you would never have met him ...