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So Much Time Has Passed, And I Keep Thinking About It

By aprilfoxx August 14, 2020 17 answers Last updated August 14, 2020

I have already written the same story 4 times and they do not publish it for me. But much less silly things are added to the home page of the site. Anyway. I will try to be as brief as possible. To all people (at least most) their first love is not long, it is not so strong but at least it is live. Eh .. mine .. was different. I met in a game with a boy - February 2015. It happened by accident, I saw that he was Bulgarian and I talked to him. I thought she was a girl initially. Then I realized it was 10th grade and it was called C (I'll call it that). Over time, I started to like him, even though I was only in 6th grade. We exchanged a photo, he expressed a desire, over time I understood many things - he has two sisters, one 9th, the other 4th grade, that his parents are divorced and have a cat that they took from the street. He told me he was born on December 15 (say). Why did I like it? It was fun, we listened to the same genre of music and watched the same series and movies that we discussed. Even because of him, a band of mine is my favorite right now ... unfortunately. He was also very smart, well-read and made such expressions ... But a month after our acquaintance, my laptop broke down. During this time, he found a boyfriend - from the Internet. She is from Veliko Tarnovo, he is from Burgas. I live in Sofia. It's been a long time, almost two months. I had almost forgotten him until one day I just dreamed of him. How we are at school and laugh, we talk. And I wanted to write to each other again, to have fun again. My laptop was repaired and returned on May 11. It started again, and his girlfriend was very jealous and broke up with him because he didn't want to go to Tarnovo to see him. This happened on May 16. He was not particularly moved, he tried to dissuade her but failed. Then she tried to get it back, but he ignored her. One night we were talking nonsense ... and out of nowhere I knew he liked me. We talked about how it was like that from the very beginning. He surprised me by saying that he knew but waited for me to get scared and tell him. May 25 .. in the evening .. I had not felt so wonderful. My parents just scolded me, I had no friends. He was my life at that moment. How naive and pathetic I am, but yes, we started a "relationship". All summer we watched videos and songs of our favorite band together during the game, we did different things, we got closer. My aunt and cousins ​​were adamantly against it. They insulted him so much that I even hated them. My mother supported me, but she was afraid for my condition because I often cried that she was gone, that she didn't write to me that she was out somewhere ... I lost all my friends (it is true that they were also on the Internet, but with one of them I saw several times, with two others once and with another we talked a lot on Skype ..

I've been friends with them for 5 years), but he was more important than anything. He told me that they were not my friends, etc. On the other hand, S - M 's sister became my best friend. Subsequently, C revealed to me that he is in 9th, not 10th grade and we have a 3-year difference, and his sister M is in 8th grade, supposedly 2 years old. Towards the end of the summer I wrote to her a lot, and he disappeared because I don't know what kind of repair ... let me add one more thing. At the end of July we had to see each other in Burgas, I was going to go to my grandmother there and although we had invented everything at the last moment he told me that he was not ready, we did not know each other well, let's cancel it for Christmas when he came. I cried a lot, but I agreed. He gave me a couple bracelet for my birthday. One part of my heart, the other of him. It wasn't much, but it meant everything to me. Summer is over, he came back for a while from the renovation then when school started he disappeared again. M wrote to me, we became very close, but her brother still had control, entrance, to study. There was no time for Facebook and for me. Sometime in October he returned. He said he had a lot to tell and he wanted to hug me. I felt so good, like a dog that has finally seen its owner. I remember many things I have to save. Like how he wrote me how he wanted us to go out every day, to teach me a game, something he could do, watch movies together, have fun like all couples. Everyone thought we would fit in perfectly, it was perfect. No matter that we didn't see each other, I felt it next to me all the time. But there were also bad moments ... as I said above, I suffered a lot, I cried that he was gone, I wrote novels about how I felt.

He didn't pay attention to me or I was just too slimy, I don't know. He gave me his phone number to click on when I needed him and he would write to me. December came, then it didn't come in, I was upset. Nevertheless, I took a gift from him - a keychain that symbolized our acquaintance. Well, December 15 came - supposedly his birthday. It turned out, however, that it was then the birthday of M - his sister. Why? How did it happen? What is the logic? They apologized to me and I forgave, but I felt weird. I started playing a game with M. C then it also started, but it was a little before we broke up and I didn't develop with him, but with M. Birthday before our separation, which was on December 16. (It was a bit inappropriate to say he was 15 but it doesn't matter). For three days in a row, I wanted to talk to him on Skype. I'm just tired of M, I heard her, I saw her on camera, but not him? Shortly before that, I remember talking to each other, and she explained to me that it would be better to separate because she didn't think he could come at Christmas, that something could stop us from blabbering on. It just upset me. Well, he promised to talk .... but just when he needed to tell me - L, let's break up .... I shivered, I had the feeling that I was going to die, what happened? I did not know.

On the morning of that day, he sent me hearts and told me he missed me. Why did you do that? He didn't give me an answer, he just refused to continue. In fact, he said that if we have a relationship, he wants it to be just writing. I was too shocked by everything and told him that it was not normal not to see each other. He himself spammed me for Christmas and his eagerness to see you was huge. I cried for a long time, I couldn't recover. I can't describe my pain. I talked to M on the phone for most of the day, only her voice made me stop crying ... how I miss this girl. He had promised to meet me when he was ready to call, and I waited patiently. Christmas was over, I had almost forgotten and experienced it, even though M kept reminding me of it because they had the same demeanor and she kept mentioning it. Come in, come out, bring me food today. At the end of January, one evening, she told me that he was sitting next to her. And we started talking to him through her. Finally, she suggested that he write to me. He wrote to me "little one, how are you?". My heart warmed, I kept calm. I didn't leave right away - I miss you, please come back, etc. We wrote to each other for a week, but I felt that I liked him again ... I just couldn't do without him. I couldn't stand all this pressure. I asked him if there was a chance we could get back together, but he refused. Confessions began on both sides of us. He dumped me so I wouldn't suffer and didn't know how it would affect me if we got together and blabbering on, he loved me but didn't want to hurt me. So why did he dump me at all? So as not to suffer. I did not suffer from not being seen by him, I had accepted that even if he was not there it was not fatal, but no and not ... I wrote him a huge novel in which I stated all the facts and tried to convince him. I was only ready to write to each other as long as I knew we were together, that it would be the same. But he didn't look for me anymore.

Something I learned around Christmas. M was talking constantly from "his" phone and one day I just realized that the number he gave me was hers and she supported this lie. As for the keychain, she wore it constantly because she was too lazy to take her keys and lost it in the winter. After her brother stopped writing to me, I was 99% sure he didn't exist. Identical backpacks, photos he sent me were on her Instagram, it was written on his phone that a B was a wife and he said he called her that. After a while I saw that M posted a photo - eating with wife and she was the same girl. A thousand more things. Sometime in February we had a lot of fights, I was fed up with it because a friend of hers asked me why I was angry with her and when I told him about her brother he was just like - Brother? she has no brother. Well, then I already understood what kind of person she is. I would have forgiven her only if she had admitted that it was so, but she didn't. I cursed her and blocked her everywhere, I felt calm. Although I missed her a little bit because I'm currently friends with my classmates, but they're not like her (they just don't listen to k-pop like me, they hate Koreans, they hate all kinds of Asians and they can't accept who I am, but they are certainly better than her and is live communication). Until this month I came across his profile again. He had changed his profile cover and name several times. But why? Why since it doesn't exist. And he seemed to have found a girlfriend, a girl I used to be jealous of. She had put things on the wall. I forgot to mention, I've only seen 3 photos of him, we haven't talked and we haven't seen each other, and he puts various Koreans on his profile. I don't know how to feel, I don't know what to think. Does it exist or not? If it does not exist, because there is still activity in his account. How slimy it just sounds, I don't want you to think anything wrong about me. I am currently finishing 7th grade, looking after my school and life, but that does not give me peace. Thanks for all the feedback! Until this month I came across his profile again. He had changed his profile cover and name several times. But why?

Why since it doesn't exist. And he seemed to have found a girlfriend, a girl I used to be jealous of. She had put things on the wall. I forgot to mention, I've only seen 3 photos of him, we haven't talked and we haven't seen each other, and he puts various Koreans on his profile. I don't know how to feel, I don't know what to think. Does it exist or not? If it does not exist, because there is still activity in his account. How slimy it just sounds, I don't want you to think anything wrong about me. I am currently finishing 7th grade, looking after my school and life, but that does not give me peace. Thanks for all the feedback! Until this month I came across his profile again. He had changed his profile cover and name several times. But why? Why since it doesn't exist. And he seemed to have found a girlfriend, a girl I used to be jealous of. She had put things on the wall. I forgot to mention, I've only seen 3 photos of him, we haven't talked and we haven't seen each other, and he puts various Koreans on his profile. I don't know how to feel, I don't know what to think. Does it exist or not? If it does not exist, because there is still activity in his account. How slimy it just sounds, I don't want you to think anything wrong about me. I am currently finishing 7th grade, looking after my school and life, but that does not give me peace. Thanks for all the feedback! And he seemed to have found a girlfriend, a girl I used to be jealous of. She had put things on the wall. I forgot to mention, I've only seen 3 photos of him, we haven't talked and we haven't seen each other, and he puts various Koreans on his profile. I don't know how to feel, I don't know what to think. Does it exist or not?

If it does not exist, because there is still activity in his account. How slimy it just sounds, I don't want you to think anything wrong about me. I am currently finishing 7th grade, looking after my school and life, but that does not give me peace. Thanks for all the feedback! And he seemed to have found a girlfriend, a girl I used to be jealous of. She had put things on the wall. I forgot to mention, I've only seen 3 photos of him, we haven't talked and we haven't seen each other, and he puts various Koreans on his profile. I don't know how to feel, I don't know what to think. Does it exist or not? If it does not exist, because there is still activity in his account. How slimy it just sounds, I don't want you to think anything wrong about me. I am currently finishing 7th grade, looking after my school and life, but that does not give me peace. Thanks for all the feedback! I don't know how to feel, I don't know what to think. Does it exist or not? If it does not exist, because there is still activity in his account.

How slimy it just sounds, I don't want you to think anything wrong about me. I am currently finishing 7th grade, looking after my school and life, but that does not give me peace. Thanks for all the feedback! I don't know how to feel, I don't know what to think. Does it exist or not? If it does not exist, because there is still activity in his account. How slimy it just sounds, I don't want you to think anything wrong about me. I am currently finishing 7th grade, looking after my school and life, but that does not give me peace. Thanks for all the feedback!

Answers 17

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evanoraenamora answered · August 14, 2020

   Terrible story. I hope it's not true. Brother does not exist. Some time ago they had given something like this on the Sea of ​​Love - a girl pretended to be a boy. It was a very nasty episode, find it on the internet, watch it and it will give you answers to many questions.

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raphaeloliverofficial answered · August 14, 2020

   I found it interesting, I like to investigate such profiles, it's a pity I can't join the investigation and find out exactly what the truth is, maybe the girl is a lesbian, or she's just kidding. Do you still have his three photos, if there is an image search option in Google, you upload the photos from your computer and Google finds you where else this photo exists, if you see a foreigner, it is clear that it is a 100 percent fake photo, but you can to appear Bulgarian sites from games social networks dating sites, maybe this photo is of a real boy from bg. It's very stupid of you to be tied to only 3 photos, you fall in love with someone and you don't even know what he looks like, he may be a pedophile at the age of 50, and you trust him blindly. Be careful in the future and ask for more photos and videos from the people you correspond with.

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beniceandhug answered · August 14, 2020

   Poor girl ... I know how you felt, I had a similar problem and it lasted for about a year. I was endlessly in love, and it turned out to be a lie. I started a new life try to find a hobby and do something you will feel better.

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valissiya answered · August 14, 2020

   I have already written the same story 4 times and they do not publish it for me. But much less silly things are added to the home page of the site. - And leave them - editors! I will try to be as short as possible - you may have tried, but failed. Next time, try harder. I wrote him a huge novel in which I stated all the facts - yes, I'm sure of it. You know, in addition to the date, add the hour, minute by minute. He didn't say his cat's name. This is of great importance. As far as I understand, he turned out to be her. I did not see a question. Just share that you can't forget it, why should you forget it, just back off. And you describe it in 100 lines. Understandably, they didn't want to publish it.

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kfcindia_official answered · August 14, 2020

   Honey, I don't think this guy exists ... apparently this M has gone too far with Korean dramas and even creates fake profiles ... find real acquaintances with whom to communicate and drop them from her btw I also really like Koreans

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atfirstsightshopp answered · August 14, 2020

   Wow what is this, I do not understand! Honestly, I don't think this boy exists at all, but why does this girl have to invent all this ... How can he lie like that and obviously have fun this way. Certainly both the photos and the profiles are fake. I would advise you not to look at these profiles anymore and to completely separate from this person! Good luck :)

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baethelabel answered · August 15, 2020

   Author: No comments have been posted yet, but I want to add two more things. She was a boyfriend with a boy who also reacted - "Brother ??", but then began to justify that he did something wrong. Chances are she just made it. I also still keep her mother's number. Because even then I didn't know it was her number and I wanted her real one, she didn't know who to give me and gave it to her mother (many times she picked me up when I called and so I understood ), so I can just pretend to be looking for someone, to ask her if she knows the boy in question and if she says no, the job is clear. Even if this person doesn't exist, I miss him terribly ... it's not worth it, it was a huge mistake but there's nothing I can do. I look forward to your comments!

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rihannavevo answered · August 15, 2020

   Well, without seeing the person, there is simply no way to have a relationship, this is not a relationship. I had a similar story, but we saw each other live first and on the phone a lot of love and what not, but when we saw each other live we remained very good friends. Just a girl, don't live in cyberspace, but go out.

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nakedcosmetics answered · August 16, 2020

   I was shocked! What fatal consequences this can have today to ruin your laptop! Your loved one finds a boyfriend on the net while they fix it. We smoke !!!

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delicious6812 answered · August 16, 2020

   Poor I'm sorry. As I was reading, it became clear to me that she and he were one person. But until she clarified that you had not seen him, and only she was not sure the girl or the boy existed. Apparently she's crazy and you haven't seen each other about that. Beware of such things. He could be a pedophile and do something to you. You are very trusting. There are bad people who take advantage of people like you.

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bolsonaro answered · August 16, 2020

   You are small, still naive, easily trusting ... Go ahead, let this be an earring on your ear. Do not take any action against this girl / boy. If they have lied to you so much, they have invented something, they have become entangled in their own lies ... what are these people for you? I find it abnormal. So make fun of the other side. Come on, you were strangers, she didn't have to be sick. But, after you met and became friends, why did she continue this farce? Leave them. For the future, do not give such meaning to the Internet, Nothing can replace live communication, contact. I'm not just talking about a boyfriend, I'm talking about girlfriends. You are so immersed in this internet that you only exist there. I didn't understand that you had other girlfriends, that you dated other people ... This is just not normal. On the Internet, everyone can introduce themselves to everyone. We have no way of knowing. If you are anonymous, you can say everything - that you are Korean, that you are famous, that you are a boy, but in fact you are a girl ... Do not accept everything that is told to you as true. Try to lead a normal life, for your age - out. Join others, find your environment. It becomes difficult, and may take a long time, but what is the alternative? Communicating with people, virtually, without being able to see them, talking to them live. You can't call them and leave in half an hour because you need them. You understand me ... If, after all, you still have aspirations for this boy / girl, I recommend you to watch the show Catfish on MTV. I think it will be useful for you. Two presenters, friends, organize a meeting between two couples who are together, but only on the Internet. They've never seen each other, some haven't even heard each other on the phone, but at some point, one party connects with the broadcast, and arranges a meeting, secretly from the other. Everyone thinks that this is his half, things are real, without lies and falsehood. But, what actually happens? Perhaps, 98% of people are not what they pretend to be. Watch it, it may be useful for you to see the situation from the sidelines. You can find answers to some of your questions. You can even tell yourself what it was like for this girl to lie to you and pretend to be someone else. Often these people have complexes. They don't like themselves, there is something abnormal in them. I don't justify them, by any means, but I don't think it will hurt you to watch some series. And go ahead, head up. Take a lesson, try not to trust someone so easily, be it live. It's just that people, very often, say one thing and think and do another. There is no guarantee that even the real person you can see and touch will not lie to you and take advantage of you, but the probability is much lower than on the Internet. You just have to find your environment. And don't be prejudiced against others. What about not listening to k-pop and watching Korean movies? I haven't even heard this style of music at all, and I don't like Asian movies and anime, but I understand, and I put myself in your shoes. Maybe, somewhere out there, you have a soul mate who likes a little different things than you, but you don't close yourself to her. Everyone has tastes and preferences, but we should not be blind to others. Depravity that they don't listen to k-pop and watch Korean movies? I haven't even heard this style of music at all, and I don't like Asian movies and anime, but I understand, and I put myself in your shoes. Maybe, somewhere out there, you have a soul mate who likes a little different things than you, but you don't close yourself to her. Everyone has tastes and preferences, but we should not be blind to others. Depravity that they don't listen to k-pop and watch Korean movies? I haven't even heard this style of music at all, and I don't like Asian movies and anime, but I understand, and I put myself in your shoes. Maybe, somewhere out there, you have a soul mate who likes a little different things than you, but you don't close yourself to her. Everyone has tastes and preferences, but we should not be blind to others. Depravity

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baby_still answered · August 17, 2020

   from number 2 you can write the phone number you have in the Facebook search engine above, so you can open the Facebook of the person whose number it is, if he has registered it of course. If you know the date of birth and where he was born, you can enter this information in a Z-Info program, so it will generate about 10 PIN numbers, take each of the numbers and test them on the website of the health insurance fund, so you will know if such a person exists at all. any information you have you can type in google and see what will open up to you, for example the names with which the girl and the boy introduce themselves, e-mail, nicknames in different sites where you wrote, specific quotes or phrases he uses, make all this if you really want to know the truth,

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olxindia answered · August 17, 2020

   It's the author again - Thanks to those who were kind. Number 4, I know I know. I realized it, I thought at first to write very briefly, but only in this way you will get an idea of ​​me and the other participants in this event. The dates show how attached I was and how much I remembered everything (you can also count how long we were together). And my main question is - If it does not exist why then there is activity in the profile and continues (as a boy) to write to others. Number 1 - if you think I would take the time to write a fictional story .. To others put together - I'm naive, I'm gullible. That's what everyone told me. As I said then, I was very closed and lonely and did not talk to anyone. I found solace on the internet, and therefore him. The girl really cared about me, she didn't want us to ruin our friendship and she was normal ... I think. It is illogical to still support a second person - she has a boyfriend (boyfriend) and friends and she is great. Separately, the C in question has many friends from Facebook, from another site and they do not suspect anything. M would come to Sofia to see each other for real and we also talked on Skype every night with the camera on. Thanks a lot for the feedback, I was wondering why the hell happened.

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karenkhachanov answered · August 18, 2020

   The author for the third time, after reading the last two comments: number 12 I really appreciate your support, I needed these words. I really understand my mistakes. Regarding internet friendships - it really depends on who you come across. Even when I was 9 I met a girl (I think I mentioned it in my story) P, she's a year older. We met recently for the first time and I can say that I felt like we were going out every day. She really is a person I can count on and with whom it is a real pleasure to write. As for the coppers, there are many who like the same group as me. It's just that since M and "her brother" were admins at one time, they're all friends and, uh ... it's still on the Internet, so it's not a pain to die. Good day to all!

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throwaway4fun420 answered · August 18, 2020

   Wow, you broke me ... I can't help but comment because it's a show of disrespect. For the first time I read such an honest story. I'm sorry for the way she developed. I don't think the boy exists. I think if his feelings for you were as real as yours for him, you wouldn't wonder if he even existed. Of course you miss him. You are missing some that you have created. This ideal image of impossible love with the perfect boy suddenly collapses. I'm sorry for the way you feel. Keep a good feeling in yourself and do not lose hope! ,, Life will come better than a song, better than a spring day,, :)

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imoochienorris answered · August 18, 2020

   Hello, dear author! I think they've basically told you everything already, but I want to tell you something about this girl. Apparently she has some mental or behavioral disorder that contributed to her behavior. A person with a sanity will not go on to create fake profiles to make a girl fall in love with her "brother" who does not exist. It just sounds like a movie. Besides, it all lasted too long and she played with you and your feelings of pleasure. In fact, no one can say exactly why. It's one thing to make a joke with a stranger, it's another to deliberately continue to create a script, seeing that the person from the meeting is beginning to feel real feelings. There is a possibility that she is not aware of her sexual orientation, which has pushed her to such inadequate performances. She may have wanted to evoke feelings in you, then reveal to you that she is a girl and see how you will react. Who knows? !! Whatever it is, don't blame her, let her be alive and well and don't care anymore. She doesn't wonder about the profile, as she deceived you, so she bullied other people who think that there is such a boy. And I can find 2-3 photos on the net, make a registration and start sending friendship invitations to different people. It's not that hard to think about. Accept that you were badly scorched by this story, but it's over, over! Put an end to it, don't analyze more and think, don't wonder, it doesn't make sense. You were deceived, manipulated, deceived. It happens, but it's time to stop thinking about it and get excited. You have spent enough time and emotions on something that does not exist.

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j.c.hong answered · August 18, 2020

   It's just that the profile was fake and has activity because it manages it to fool others like you.