Hello! My girlfriend and I have been together for a year now and I really love her! I had a 3 year relationship just before it. During this time I cheated on my ex many times and I do not know why. Apparently I was looking for something else. We're both 22 and a half now. She is a very valuable person and always treats me great. I haven't cheated. I don't want to be with another girl, I just want to be with her! So I wanted to share something. When we talked soon I wanted to know how many boys she slept with and it turned out that they were 5, at 18 she slept with a boy for the first time and she didn't sleep with any of them just for sex and she had feelings for all of them for a long time. time, however, she never managed to be with a boy for more time, even though she wanted him, except with her ex-boyfriend, with whom she had been for several months. She remained friends with some of them after that. She is beautiful, intelligent, I like her very much and I already love her. And she loves me very much. It's not just a "muffin". I don't know why she hasn't been able to be with them for longer, because she's just great. I don't know if I'm normal, but something keeps bothering me about these 5 boys. I don't know what has been happening to me for 2 weeks, that's all I think. She told me everything 2-3 times already, because she doesn't stop gnawing at me and I don't know what, but she is already coming to continue like this. Is it normal Are these 5 guys a lot or am I imagining something !? !? !? I haven't felt this way before. I met my ex when she was 17 and she slept with 4 people. I haven't had a problem with this thing in 3 years, maybe I didn't care. My question is: am I limited that something like this bothers me, I have never been like that before! intelligent, I like her very much and I already love her. And she loves me very much. It's not just a "muffin". I don't know why she hasn't been able to be with them for more time, because she's just great. I don't know if I'm normal, but something keeps bothering me about these 5 boys. I don't know what has been happening to me for 2 weeks, that's all I think. She told me everything 2-3 times already, because she doesn't stop gnawing at me and I don't know what, but she already comes to continue like this. Is it normal? Are these 5 guys a lot or am I imagining something !? !? !? I haven't felt this way before. I met my ex when she was 17 and she slept with 4 people. I haven't had a problem with this thing in 3 years, maybe I didn't care. My question is: am I limited that something like this bothers me, I have never been like that before! intelligent, I like her very much and I already love her. And she loves me very much. It's not just a "muffin". I don't know why she hasn't been able to be with them for longer, because she's just great. I don't know if I'm normal, but something keeps bothering me about these 5 boys. I don't know what has been happening to me for 2 weeks, that's all I think. She told me everything 2-3 times already, because she doesn't stop gnawing at me and I don't know what, but she already comes to continue like this. Is it normal? Are these 5 guys a lot or am I imagining something !? !? !? I haven't felt this way before. I met my ex when she was 17 and she slept with 4 people. I haven't had a problem with this thing in 3 years, maybe I didn't care. My question is: am I limited that something like this bothers me, I have never been like that before! but something keeps bothering me about these 5 guys. I don't know what has been happening to me for 2 weeks, that's all I think. She told me everything 2-3 times already, because she doesn't stop gnawing at me and I don't know what, but she already comes to continue like this. Is it normal? Are these 5 guys a lot or am I imagining something !? !? !? I haven't felt this way before. I met my ex when she was 17 and she slept with 4 people. I haven't had a problem with this thing in 3 years, maybe I didn't care. My question is: am I limited that something like this bothers me, I have never been like that before! but something keeps bothering me about these 5 guys. I don't know what has been happening to me for 2 weeks, that's all I think. She told me everything 2-3 times already, because she doesn't stop gnawing at me and I don't know what, but she is already coming to continue like this. Is it normal? Are these 5 guys a lot or am I imagining something !? !? !? I haven't felt this way before. I met my ex when she was 17 and she slept with 4 people. I haven't had a problem with this thing in 3 years, maybe I didn't care. My question is: am I limited that something like this bothers me, I have never been like that before! I met my ex when she was 17 and she slept with 4 people. I haven't had a problem with this thing in 3 years, maybe I didn't care. My question is: am I limited that something like this bothers me, I have never been like that before! I met my ex when she was 17 and she slept with 4 people. I haven't had a problem with this thing in 3 years, maybe I didn't care. My question is: am I limited that something like this bothers me, I have never been like that before!
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Well, you tell me what bothers you - you went with her because you considered her a valuable person, ie a little congested and you loved her more than the former, because you found her more preserved mentally, physically and etc. Suddenly it turns out that not only is there enough, but among the five who were with her - only you stayed voluntarily, which you interpret as the most unpretentious or outright crazy. The others who dumped her are more understanding and fucking, you think. And now that you're with your girlfriend - they've switched to cooler girls. Hey, such nasty things go through your mind and you feel fucked up. If you do not trust your own sense of this girl and look for the opinion of others who have completely different criteria - then you are no more smart than them.
You are not limited. I'm 26 and I've had a lot of relationships. For the first time, my last friend and I happened to experience the same thing as the past. I don't think there are many of these 5 boys, some will even say they are few. She is nearly 23 years old. A completely normal number for this age. And why should something have happened to any of them for many years? !! She hasn't matched one. Now he meets you, you fall in love and you have the tendency for a serious and good relationship. Leave the girl alone and do not harass her for nonsense. The past is the past. And I don't see anything bad or wrong in it from your story.
I have a 5 year relationship with my boyfriend. Before him, I was with more than your girlfriend. My boyfriend had no experience and yet I have the best sex with him and he is the nicest man I have ever been with. He's not happy that I've had men before, but he didn't make it a problem. After all, I'm only with him and I'm loyal to him. Isn't that important? Before him, my longest relationship was 10 months, which seemed like a lot to me :) I also had a two-month relationship. They look short to me now. They were not good enough. Maybe her 5 men weren't :)
That is why such questions are not asked of a woman.
Consider that there are at least 10 as soon as she said 5:) ... but this is normal, today's women are rarely found with less than 7-8 pieces. So don't bother her 5 isn't much! M 22
From the Author To No. 1, is it possible to leave me an e-mail, of course if it is not a problem. I think you understand my limited thinking the most. I would like to communicate with you at least a little.
Author, there is nothing normal or abnormal. Follow your inner voice. Only he tells you what to do, not number 1, 5 or 125 ... Remember that! n. n. And this is not normal for me. at 18, and now by 5 ... at least. She is hardly honest with you and they are not just so ... that the truth is not told about these things!
From Author To No. 7 I know I have to listen to myself, I just wanted to share and hear different points of view. She's not 18 by 5, she's almost 22. Why do you think she's not being honest with me? I know he's telling me the truth. I just want to write to someone who understands me best. Look, you don't fully understand me. I know that there are all kinds of people with different lives and different experiences and relationships. Every life is unique in itself. You can't put everyone under a common denominator because of a certain criterion. It's like making a psychological profile according to a test and believing unconditionally in the results of what kind of person you really are. Everyone's life has turned out differently and under different circumstances. I know I answered this to myself to some extent, but I still want to write here and share something that bothers me or just sits in my head. I do not know why, but this thing unlocked something in my head and I started thinking completely different things from then on. However, if number 1 decides, let me write to ....... Moderator - we do not publish contact information
From the author No. 1, give me advice, one more thing. I see him figure out what's going on in my head. Not that it's very difficult to understand, but it seems to be exactly as you wrote it. I don't know what to do. This thing is still going on in my head, only in a different aspect.