I had a real nightmare tonight. I'm in a nervous breakdown and I can't calm down in any way. I lost faith in the good in total. I have had a sex friend for several months. Yesterday he invited me to a villa very spontaneously. He came with a friend, they took me in the car and we went to pick up another of His friends. We drank a lot at the party, we had to smoke. He pretended to be exemplary and did not pull himself off the joint. However, he began to behave mega lewd. He pushed me to his friend, unbuttoned his boxers in front of everyone, lifted my dress so that the other could see my strong ass. At one point he offered me sex and we had a quick toilet. This is not our first time. Otherwise we see each other at home sometimes. What happened next, however, completely ruined me mentally. He began to press in front of my eyes with the other girl (we were only two women) to kiss for a long time. She was lying on the couch, kissing, whatever they were doing. I don't know how I managed to put up with this, but she poured me the glass when she told me: Will you sleep with a man or alone.
Apparently he wanted to tell me to catch someone and get out, you're preventing us from having sex. I don't consider myself conservative, but his behavior made me feel brutally humiliated. Brutal. I didn't even bother to push myself upstairs in the bedroom, deliberately in the living room in front of everyone. I think he deliberately wants to harass me and make me suffer. I told his friend that I wanted to leave immediately. It was very far outside Sofia and there was no way to take a taxi. So I was almost forced to sit and watch them. I just couldn't stand it, I went upstairs and locked myself in the toilet. The others knocked, I was silent. At one point he somehow unlocked it with a knife, entered. I am silent again. Then I said that I don't want to see them anymore. I went out, I started to collect my things, he repeated my name to talk to me, I didn't say a word. What can I tell him ... to scream brutally or to say that I feel like full of garbage. Complete, brutally intolerable humiliation. I was about to run away and it turned out that the door of the villa also had a code and an iron gate.
So I had to go back. I sat there locked, they hugged naked on the couch like in love. He hugged her like I never remember me ever. And of course no wonder they had sex. Besides the grass, they brought coca. He didn't snort from it. In my opinion, he was absolutely conscious and aware of what he was doing, signing, but he could do sex with me. He wasn't too drunk, even with the clear awareness of how humiliating he was, he allowed himself to get here. I just don't know where I am. This kind of advice is bad, discard it, are redundant. I am in a total nervous breakdown. I can't stop this cruel feeling of humiliation I'm feeling.
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For you, he was not just a sex friend, while for him you were definitely just a sex toy. That's how the story sounds to me. I guess he took you completely lightly. Can you be sure that in your behavior he has not seen exactly such a girl with whom he can afford to "brag" to his friends. In my opinion, in order to come up with an explanation even for you, you have to look for the problem in yourself first. And it's easier to think about what you did to make that happen to you. The fault is never just one! I've never had a boy just for sex, but I guess if I had, we'd discuss the limits, which would make both of us happy. Apparently you didn't even suspect this nature of his, which is a risk of this type of relationship. After all, you only meet for sex ... Anyway, what happened - happened. A lesson from life, maybe a little rougher. But after that you will hardly experience this horror again and you will have one thing in mind about the attitude of men towards just sex girlfriends, you will be able to adequately refuse when you do not like something, you will be able to guess that being a sex girlfriend it doesn't make you someone's untouchable property and it's likely that there are much more valuable people to spend your free time with and really feel good both physically and emotionally. And in order to shake off this nightmare faster, I can recommend you to block all your contacts with this man and not allow yourself to think about him by doing sports, work, hobbies, etc. But after that you will hardly experience this horror again and you will have one thing in mind about the attitude of men towards just sex girlfriends, you will be able to adequately refuse when you do not like something, you will be able to guess that as a sex girlfriend this it doesn't make you someone's untouchable property and it's likely that there are much more valuable people to spend your free time with and really feel good both physically and emotionally. And in order to shake off this nightmare faster, I can recommend you to block all your contacts with this man and not allow yourself to think about him by doing sports, work, hobbies, etc. But after that you will hardly experience this horror again and you will have one thing in mind about the attitude of men towards just sex girlfriends, you will be able to adequately refuse when you do not like something, you will be able to guess that being a sex girlfriend it doesn't make you someone's untouchable property and it's likely that there are much more valuable people with whom to spend your free time and really feel good both physically and emotionally. And in order to shake off this nightmare faster, I can recommend you to block all your contacts with this man and not allow yourself to think about him by doing sports, work, hobbies, etc. you will be able to guess that being a sex friend does not make you someone's untouchable property and probably that there are much more valuable people with whom you can spend your free time and really feel good both physically and emotionally. And in order to shake off this nightmare faster, I can recommend you to block all your contacts with this man and not allow yourself to think about him by doing sports, work, hobbies, etc. you will be able to guess that being a sex friend does not make you someone's untouchable property and probably that there are much more valuable people with whom you can spend your free time and really feel good both physically and emotionally. And in order to shake off this nightmare faster, I can recommend you to block all your contacts with this man and not allow yourself to think about him by doing sports, work, hobbies, etc.
You're a unique piece really ... aren't you "sex friends", what do you want from it? No normal man would respect a woman who agreed to be a "sex friend", he is just sincere in his attitude; e. Find a friend and you will have a person from whom you will rightly expect him not to kiss anyone else ...
Aren't you just for sex, and what did you expect from him? He got what he wanted. Just don't hang out with him if you want to find a man and have a serious relationship. What is this nonsense friend about sex. Appreciate yourself a little and don't just allow sex.
The man I was in love with slept on the same bed and is different. Ah, he knew my feelings. Even more so was the instigator. But anyway, he didn't owe me anything, but it was very ugly. Even if I wasn't in love, having sex on your head ... I got up, took my things and went out at 4 in the evening. I left because the humiliation was great. Put an end to this one, those who fly the highest fall the lowest in the end.
What are these sex friends? How do you accept such humiliation? Either you are a couple in the full sense of the word, or you are not having sex. I only sleep with people I have a relationship with. Such random-absurd. Have a price! That she stood and waited. You pick up a cigarette, a crazy scandal, you break, you throw, you call the police if you have to. You explode steadily. You accept to be humiliated. I would have raised the circumference of my head. He would eat a big fight with the women.
Look, you're very modern. As you are modern, you suffer the consequences. You only see him for sex. He has the right to have the sex he wants, if you want to be around. You are nobody to him. He has sex with you and then doesn't deal with you until next time. You are, say, his whore, from whom, when asked, he receives. What's your problem when he's just your sex friend? !! Ham modern, but not exactly ...;)
You are mega badly stupid, you don't have a relationship, you're just for sex, so what are you doing then ??
Horror. It is useless. Lie to him that you're pregnant with him and don't pick up the phone. Believe me, he'll freak out. You will give it back to him, because he made you feel that way.
Big laugh ... Come on, stop with these essays and become a little literate that you write like you're in second grade.
Didn't your parents love you? Go to a psychologist, you have a lot of problems to solve.
Girl, you put yourself in that position. He humiliates you because you let him do it. Obviously you have feelings for him, your relationship is only on the level of sex. You should have guessed that when he invites you to a villa outside Sofia with other people, he obviously has some similar intentions. At first I thought he wanted to force you to have orgies, but thank God it didn't get there. He thought it could have been a lot worse. Stop contacting these people immediately and I hope this incident is a lesson to you. I will not comment on the lack of elementary morality at all. I will never be able to understand that.
I don't know if you will stop the humiliation, but drugs are necessary. At least as you will post topics that you write like someone from the neighborhood with incomplete second grade.
I don't think what happened to you is humiliating. However, if you have feelings for this person, it is extremely painful. For which I sympathize with you. You have nothing to worry about, nothing like that has happened. But save yourself more pain, because it is very clear that this man does not care about you. Also, there is nothing wrong with non-committal sex. Both men and women enjoy sex. It would be humiliating to do it with someone who doesn't appeal to you.
This is how you like everyone who pretends to be very open. At the very beginning you explain that this man is your sex friend. What are these hysteria now? You have not eaten or drunk, except for one sex. What faith in the good have you lost, In what good? Well, he must have a man a lot like you. I will not stop repeating that she who has had sex with a man several times falls in love ... or is attached, I do not know how to express myself more precisely. Very, very little are those women who really distinguish sex from love. Obviously you are not one of them, obviously you have feelings when you accept things that way
From the author to number 13: Are you a man? The comment sounds like On someone else's back and a hundred sticks are few. Few people will keep their cool if they are in my place. I could have reacted more strongly, but I didn't. The next day he dared to look for me. He was worried that I had left alone, he thought I was dead. I said Why, what do you care if I'm dead, we're not boyfriends. And he: is still a man and a friend. It's good to say that I don't like it, that I haven't been sexual, as he claims, and that I'm just a friend. Nobody makes him have sex with me. He brought a boyfriend to work with her there. And not to kiss me, then her, then to sleep with me, then to hug her. If we both like it so much and sooooooo much even want a threesome, to take attention to both of us, to take us off the couch at the same time and we will decide. And that, what he is doing is totally illogical and crazy. He is not just perverted, but abnormal. My question to the people on the forum is whether it seems normal to you, but I may not have described the whole situation in detail. From the side, it seems to him that he is through that job, and he likes it, but if you were in my situation, you will see that at times he is loving with me. I don't think he's a man who doesn't know what he wants, he's a complete psychopath. And that stress me out. I feel like I'm enjoying myself or someone else. I don't think he's a man who doesn't know what he wants, he's a complete psychopath. And that stress me out. I feel like I'm enjoying myself or someone else. I don't think he's a man who doesn't know what he wants, he's a complete psychopath. And that stress me out. I have the feeling that he takes pleasure in suffering me or another.
So how can he not "make love" to you when he gets sex. The man leaves his doors. Stop letting him humiliate you and just end the relationship.
From # 13 to the author. I am a woman and what you describe is quite familiar to me. And I had an affair with a man who was gentle at one point and brutally hurt me the next. That is why I tell you what I tell you. The choice is yours to continue.