Hello: I really like this site, I visit it regularly, but I have never written my story. Now, I have decided to share my problem. "I am not ME" I have been like this since I was a child, I have always introduced myself as another person, even now I am, the writer has learned. I just don't have a personality of my own. I don't know what to do, I want to be my own "I". Even, I don't know why I am like that. I'm worried about going to the doctor so they don't think I'm crazy. If anyone has an opinion I would be grateful to hear it.
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I did not understand anything! Don't go to the doctor!
You pretend to be someone else, you don't have to go to a doctor but to a psychologist (there is a difference between a psychologist and a psychiatrist, I guess you know it). I think the correct term is alter ego - that is, you pretend to be another person because you are insecure with low self-esteem or afraid of being hurt ... it is not a disease, but rather you need stronger faith in itself, it happens gradually, the psychologist can help you to overcome this mental trauma if I can call it that. In principle, I do not know if you will be able to cope, keep in mind that it is not embarrassing to go to a psychologist, it's a little expensive, but they help with such problems - it does not mean that you are crazy, by no means, just like I said you are afraid of something, but only you can judge what - because you do not give details in what situations you present yourself as another.
I also didn't understand you very well, lest you mean that you can't be yourself next to other people, because that's perfectly normal. Explain in a little more detail, because nothing is understood :)
We have a progress! You no longer send her to a doctor because you don't understand what she's saying. Number 2 said what was needed. I do not intend to repeat what he wrote.
Author, read well what number 2 wrote to you, very useful and true comment! Don't panic so much, it's good that you still realize and admit about your problem. We all play roles, we present ourselves in our own and other people's eyes in thousands, different ways, but there are few who will admit it. You learn all your life, you have a lot of time to discover yourself, to get to know yourself and to declare yourself with pride and confidence, then you will not need different roles and performances! Success Bad
To have things that I have saved you. Often, I take on the role of the exemplary child of mom and dad, who performs everything that is ordered. Entering the role of a fearless heroine. During the night I went to the cemetery to prove that I was not afraid of the dark, and of nothing at all. I see myself in different clothes. These are some of my everyday personalities that I introduce myself to. On the other hand, I have very good results at school. Crazy job. So, I mentioned that they would think I was crazy — actually if I wasn't. Thanks to №2, and №5. The author.
Hey, I know what it is! Sometimes I behave radically differently from what I am ... I can't explain it, but I'll tell you my secret ... I have something like a split personality in some situations I'm myself - smart good and cheerful, but in others I'm nasty and I don't care about anything ... Even at this moment I seem to be discussing with my other what to write. DON'T THINK I AM CRAZY IS NOT MY WILL- I just think in my mind .. I know that in some sites it says that there is often a dispute between the two people, but I and my other self somehow agree and sometimes even irritate me that they write that the split personality is a psycho disease ... For me this is not true - I have a real girlfriend at heart .. Try to find the good sides of your other self to talk and you will not have a problem: D ...
I'm the same as N7. I give it to my zodiac sign - twins. Sometimes I even discuss things with my two selves in my mind. Crazy work; D
Right ?? : D I don't even remember when I started discussing things with my other self (it's very cool to have the conversation in English by heart or aloud ^. ^) ... But I'm a Leo sign and there is no meaningful explanation XD ... for ( 8
Author, number 2, wrote you a very faithful comment. You really don't suffer from a split personality. This is a completely different concept and it is perceived that schizophrenics suffer mainly from it. It's like two people living in you. Let's say that during the day you are a good mime, and in the evening you become a murderer - something like that. While what is with you is "alter-ego", from Latin - my other self. you perceive yourself as another person because you are not happy with yourself, with your achievements. That's why you enter another role. Low self-esteem and self-esteem are at the root of this. I think you can fight it yourself, but it will be difficult. You have to have desire and faith in yourself. For starters, start like this. When you wake up in the morning, you stand in front of the mirror and repeat aloud - "I am amazing and unique. People like me and listen willingly. I have something to tell them." Because author, I think you have a problem with your inner self. This you have to overcome - your uncertainty in your own skills. I hope you succeed on your own. I wish you good luck. Magicians