Hello to everyone who is on this site and shares your intimate experiences. I am a 21-year-old girl, next month I am even 22 years old. My problem, which depresses and depresses me terribly, is that I have never had sexual contact with anyone. Not because I'm ugly, crippled or anything. I just think I was ashamed when I could do it. However, this feeling has now become an absolute shame .... I meet, I constantly go out with friends back and forth, I don't even lack male attention ... But how to go out with someone, what confidence to have, knowing that I didn't have sex myself and I can't offer him anything ... It bothers and saddens me a hell of a lot, it doesn't give me a minute of peace ...
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Girl, I can only say goodbye and thank you !!! This is not a shame, I would give everything to be a virgin, not brutally raped by two Roma at the age of 14! Don't worry at all, but be proud, find a really good friend and he will be extremely happy to be the first !!! Just head up and don't worry, rejoice!
Don't worry, you will do it when the time comes. I move in the company of many boys and I know that they have a much worse opinion of girls who have had many sexual contacts than of those who have not had any.
I'm in the same situation only on the other side. I understand you completely and I know how you feel. The thought that this will change, however, is the only thing that makes me not think about it all the time ... Friend
Thanks for your feedback. I personally don't know if I should be happy, because that makes you feel insecure and you have almost nothing to offer the person next to you. I don't know, I may be wrong, only time will tell .....
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. You haven't met the right boy yet, and boys with serious intentions don't particularly like girls with a turbulent sexual past. And it's not a shame. If someone wants to be with you, they like you. Abe, having sex is normal and great with a loved one, though.
And I think that when you meet your boy, he will be happy with this fact :) No one will make fun of you, nor is there any reason to be ashamed and so on. As soon as you feel ready, give yourself to the moment :)
I think Freud was terribly wrong and sex is greatly overestimated. It's great when you're with your loved one. When there is an emotional connection - then sex is the greatest intimacy between the two. So to speak - the emanation of empathy. But sex as a sport gets tired too quickly, and can be very frustrating - especially if it's your first time. And do not forget that the passion and stormy emotions of falling in love are gradually being replaced by calmer, but also deeper love, mutual understanding and respect. And if such feelings did not exist from the beginning (albeit in its infancy), over time, along with raging chromonic hurricanes, the relationship will gradually subside.
extra is that you have protected yourself mome :))) this for me and for more people than you would imagine would be a terribly good surprise. so there is nothing to be ashamed of, nor is there any problem :)) you will meet the right guy and everything will be fine
Great, girl! WELL DONE! When the time comes, God forbid with a suitable person - be proud of it! But by no means do you marry in such a way that there are men who just think they can, and believe me, two, not just one, should be happy and satisfied with sex. Men are often selfish in this regard, so I advise you to fall in love and be ready for this step - act boldly, because only then you will gain experience that will be useful for you in the future - be it for a serious relationship, cohabitation or possibly marriage. Success!
I also congratulate you. This is not a shame. Some time ago I was bothered by a similar problem, but I did not think to do it with someone just like that. I was waiting and the Man and the moment came and I told you, for the right person, that's a lot. Success!
Safe from this sex ...... everything sex sex sex sex .... yes there are more important things, sex just complements happiness. If you catch someone and he says to you "Ah, but are you a virgin, let's get out of my head" jump on me with joy, you already know that he is a complete worm !!!
Don't think that this is a shameful thing, on the contrary, be proud of it, I'm also 22 and virgin, but that doesn't bother me and I, like you, have a lot of admirers, but I just want to be with the right person, so don't bother, you'll find someone who deserves you. and appreciate what you are.
Thank you girl, at least you're lucky you're still a virgin, and I was raped when I was 14; ((((I was sick, but there was nothing I could do; etc .. and when you decide to have sex he will be happy that he will be your first! success ..
Bravo Bravo! Such girls are already very rare, you have nothing to be ashamed of, I was in the same situation even until the age of 24, but I found the man who deserved to be the first! We are a family now and we are very happy. I wish you to find a MAN who deserves you!
I will say the same. Well done! I am 18 (after 2 weeks I do them) I am a virgin. I have everything and I do not lack attention, but I do not want to be someone who has me only for the number. I believe that I will find the right one. You too.
Open yourself .. I'm not kidding you just know that you live only 1 life and it's short so you have to try everything before it's too late ..
I'm also 21 and I'm still happy, believe me, if the boy is really decent, he will appreciate it, so I'll tell you from experience :)
I understand that you want to support the girl, but ENOUGH! !! What's good about him? That she managed not to sleep with a 22-year-old boy? Many people at 22 start a family if they don't start taking things more seriously. This girl will meet the "perfect", "the prince on a white horse" and will think that the wait was worth it. Sounds great to all of you ... yes, but in the movies. In time, this girl will become interested in other men. He will want to make up for lost time and the "prince on a white horse" will not be so "perfect". I'm not saying that sexual intercourse should have started on the 13th, 14th .. I'm just saying that we should enjoy every moment, use every opportunity. In their quest to be perfect, people run away from their happiness. :) P. S: Maybe a lot of people will turn to me, trying to teach me some kind of morality, etc. But I'm sure many will agree. :) Passion