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Still VIRGIN

By little_evilin October 07, 2020 50 answers Last updated October 07, 2020

Hello! I have been visiting the site for a long time and I decided to share my torments. I am an 18 year old girl. and I'm pretty plump, I don't know maybe because of that fact, but I haven't had a friend until now. I do my best to lose weight, but it's very slow. My girlfriends have had boyfriends for a long time, and I stay alone. I am very naughty when they tell about their experiences, and I just listen and keep quiet! I think in the 21st century being a virgin is maybe even funny I am very tormented and worried that even if I find a boyfriend I will not know how to kiss or how to satisfy him sexually. And I don't know how better to do it with someone random or to wait for the "prince" who would hardly come to a fat woman! Please give me advice!

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italianprincessx0x0 answered · October 07, 2020

   Girl, a lot of men like fat, rest assured. Don't worry and don't rush until you meet the right boy. And if he loves you, he will teach you everything. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18. Success! Don't do it with someone random, then you will be hellishly, hellishly nasty and humiliated.

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JaydenMarieAZ answered · October 07, 2020

   Being a virgin, even in the 21st century, is not funny at all. Not bad. It's bad to think that the fact that you're fat is the main thing that keeps you from finding a friend. The main thing that bothers you is that: 1) You hope the "prince" will come. There are no princes. And he certainly doesn't write it on their foreheads. Nor will anyone come just like that. There are people you can build a good relationship with so that both of you like it, and people you can't. And this is becoming difficult, with a lot of effort on both sides. 2) I'm sure that even though there are guys who like you, you chase them yourself. The reasons may be as follows - you worry that you are being ridiculed and not really liked; you think that this is not the "prince" and accordingly you decide not to do anything with him. My advice is to find someone you like, talk to, spend time together, etc., then have sex (I very much doubt that he will not want to have sex with you, provided that you understand each other) and if sex goes well (the first 10 times it is clear that it won't be great) - so this is your prince. Try to keep it!

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iwantmypussyatedaddy answered · October 07, 2020

   Honey, don't worry at all about the fact that you're still a virgin. I lost mine when I was almost 20 - I just felt ready then. By no means is it led by your "modern" girlfriends - let them brag now ... but after a year or two they will be wasted ... Regarding the weight - you have to worry even less !!! I know a lot of men who like chubby girls;) So CALM, move on without these torments.

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sexygamesx answered · October 07, 2020

   Very important - do not label yourself "fat". This will not help you! You are not "fat" - you are a person!

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s.e.r.caxiasoficial answered · October 07, 2020

   Well, at least in my case, my husband always teases me that I'm not 1, you can make your own conclusions, I was 19 when I did it, that you weren't the right person is another topic, success, everything is luck, but don't hurry, there are men who do not like virgins judge for yourself but it weighs on me that my husband was not my 1 success

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mattkenseth answered · October 07, 2020

   It's not funny that you're a virgin. My opinion is to wait for the right person - your heart will only tell you who he is.

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Smiley_xo answered · October 07, 2020

   Darling, I also had such a problem! Do not despair in any case, as people have said, there are sufferings for every train. Regarding the fact that you are still inexperienced on the Internet, you can find everything you are interested in about sex and when the time comes to apply it;) I don't think that weight is so important, don't get depressed, believe in yourself and you will succeed !!!! fingers crossed

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optima69 answered · October 07, 2020

   Chick, don't listen to your girlfriends and get depressed by the fact that they do, and you're still a virgin. As they said above, in time they will be worn out like old bags and fewer and fewer men will pay attention to them. When it comes to weight, you don't care at all, almost all men dream of a woman having more room to touch, but they don't admit it because they think it's a shame to like plump women. I personally like women just like you and I'm not ashamed to say it. So do not despair, but turn your back on prejudice and be yourself.

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healthy_fitmum answered · October 07, 2020

   I am the girl who wrote my problem and I want to thank everyone for the comments! I will definitely listen to them :) :)

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djmikehawkins answered · October 07, 2020

   Hi, I also don't think it's a shame to be a virgin at 18. and definitely do not create complexes that you are plump. I don't think that's decisive. I'm thin, but when I first slept with a man I was 20, so just wait .... Don't pay attention to your girlfriends. And mine were like that and now what - they got married at the age of 17. they have children, they have been infected, they are now wondering what to do and they are very old. And your man will come - just be patient .... Good luck !!!

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burtbwell answered · October 07, 2020

   Health. I lost my virginity at 22 years old. So calm down - hurry slowly. For completeness - I know that it is more important what you are inside! Keep your head up!

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zach7611 answered · October 07, 2020

   Don't worry about anything, men are not dogs to love bones! Many men like such girls, so feel free. I'll give you an example right away - my neighbor is a handsome, slender boy, a mannequin. Marry a girl who is at least a hundred rings, as I watch. And he says that he loved only such women. The weak did not excite him at all. And being a virgin is not bad or embarrassing at all, there is time, you just have to meet the right boy.

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dwayne answered · October 08, 2020

   Hello! I decided to join this conversation. I understand how difficult it is for you, because I am half in your position. When I say 1/2, I mean "virginity". I will turn 29 this summer and no one is sure, but I have not had an intimate relationship with a man yet. I am a believer and I have always been careful about the "prince". I wanted to share the "first time" with the man I would be with for life. And so the years passed imperceptibly in search of the "prince". Now I think I've found it, but I'm afraid of that moment. I think about what will happen, I even feel great fear and shame. He is not in God at the moment, but when he comes I know that it is so to speak "inevitable". I just go crazy just thinking I'm inexperienced and how stupid I look. But my girlfriend reassures me, that indeed, if two people desire it with all their hearts, things will happen by themselves. I realize this, but in most cases it weighs on me like a "millstone" and I want this moment to be over. So I really understand what you're feeling. I had many suggestions, but for me this was the main thing - to keep for my prince. And I pray that it is "he" with whom I am to do it. I support you with both heart and soul. I hope you find the "prince" earlier than me, because the more years pass, the more difficult the choice and decision becomes. Good luck to you, but also to me. I wish you all the best. that I really understand what you are feeling. I had many suggestions, but for me this was the main thing - to keep for my prince. And I pray that it is "he" with whom I am to do it. I support you with both heart and soul. I hope you find the "prince" earlier than me, because the more years pass, the more difficult the choice and decision becomes. Good luck to you, but also to me. I wish you all the best. that I really understand what you're feeling. I had many suggestions, but for me this was the main thing - to keep for my prince. And I pray that it is "he" with whom I am to do it. I support you with both heart and soul. I hope you find the "prince" earlier than me, because the more years pass, the more difficult the choice and decision becomes. Good luck to you, but also to me. I wish you all the best.

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shyandrea83f1 answered · October 08, 2020

   Hello. I admire what has been written so far. Especially from the men who give you advice. Listen to them. I am also plump, although already married. And I have to tell you, I've had an awful lot of men in my life. Men I never even dreamed of being with. And they do not look at the fullness in me - they look at the soul. Many times when I have had a serious relationship, I have shared with the man next to me that I do not feel very well and I am ashamed of how I look. And you know what they said to me - "I don't notice that at all. Look at your eyes, your smile, your face - like a doll." It boosted my self-esteem. So my advice is - don't worry about it. I know you want to lose weight and look a little more attractive, but you still are. As they said above - YOU ARE A PERSON. WHAT ABOUT VIRGINITY - YOU CAN ONLY BE PROUD OF IT. Against the background of 12-13 year old girls who have sex, being a virgin is wonderful. And know that the man you decide to lose her with will be charmed. I wish you a lot of health and good luck.

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mike_anton answered · October 08, 2020

   Hi, I'm also 18 and I'm a virgin. I've never lacked male attention, I've always had the opportunity to be with a boy, I've had the opportunity to do it, but I wonder if it's worth being with someone I don't even find interesting? Only because my girlfriends are no longer virgins - they have found people they are sure they can break up with in time, but at the moment they are sure of them and they want it. I'm not capricious, I just say that I want to be known, not just a sexual object or another, for me the important thing is that the person next to me is with me, to feel my spirit. I am not ashamed of myself because I stick to my principles. I talked to my friend about it and he said, "At least I'll respect you!" And as for the rings, a person is most beautiful and radiates sex appeal when he feels good in his skin, if you do not feel good take off, but if you like yourself you have no problem! GOOD LUCK

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aylleen94 answered · October 08, 2020

   Hello sweetheart, I read your story and took me back years, when at your age I was tormented by the same thoughts ..... will I ever be with a man, will someone love me ... I also have a little more rings, but thanks to the opportunities my life gave me, I built an enviable self-confidence, not that I didn't care what people thought (I put a little effort on the figure, but not much), I just knew that I was a young lady who deserved male attention and it I received, no one saw that I was fatter (don't call yourself fat, don't!), but they saw in me the woman who can entertain them during a conversation, talk to them on any topic, be an equal participant in the conversation ... It was not my body that aroused them, but my intellect ... Today I am happily in love with the man of my dreams and what is better - and he in me, so darling, head up ....it doesn't matter that I lost my virginity at 22 ..... I caught up with men;) People see what's inside you .... Kisses from me.

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openwife59 answered · October 08, 2020

   Hello! I'm the girl who shared my problem. Thanks to everyone for giving me advice, you are helping me tremendously! THANK YOU!!

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krzysiek450 answered · October 08, 2020

   Hello !!! I am 23 years old, I have both of your problems, but for me they are not a problem. Yes, I'm a virgin and what of that I had boyfriends and remembering better that I didn't sleep with any of them, because I would be sorry, so upstairs everyone has their day !!! and for weight loss I lost weight with the book by Pierre de Cannes "how to lose weight forever" try it !!! Lots and lots of luck and you can be happy, not sad

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jestsetradio answered · October 09, 2020

   I'm an 18 year old boy, I do sports, I'm not fat, but I've never had a boyfriend and I've never even kissed a girl :(

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johns0201 answered · October 09, 2020

   As for your virginity - just don't worry - they've already told you, those who start earlier, they waste themselves, and the chewing gum is a woman and valuable when at 55 she can and wants to make love. As for your weight - your question is ridiculous. Sex appeal is not only radiated by the figure and the ability to reduce your weight, but I will not give you recipes. Sooner or later you will make love and I leave you the revelations of the beauty of sex for you!

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soy_adnaloy answered · October 09, 2020

   Do not worry!!!! Be proud of that !! Don't do it because you no longer want to be a virgin, do it when you really found the man and you want him! Otherwise you can always! Success!

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patrikifjf answered · October 09, 2020

   I am a man of 24 years and I always wanted to find a virgin and plump girl, but among those I knew no one admitted that she was a virgin. I adore chubby girls and I think there are a lot of men who like a girl just like you, so be yourself and don't worry - 18 years is not much at all. There are decent and good girls who are virgins up to 23-24 years and more. And don't spoil your health in desperate attempts to lose weight - the important thing is to be healthy and feel good! I hope you find the most wonderful man for yourself. Good luck :)

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theashleygraham answered · October 09, 2020

   Sometimes I have the feeling that virginity is the most beautiful thing in women. So keep it and give it to the beautiful person for you, no matter when he came to you

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clownbutt answered · October 09, 2020

   Well, I'm 16 and I'm still a virgin ... What can I tell you? You won't have to worry at all. When the person comes you will feel :) For the girlfriends .. I have the same problem .. they now tell the 1st, 2nd, 3rd time .. but this way they will become more and will not tell, and when your 1- comes your way :) then you will tell :)

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_iamelnaaz_ answered · October 10, 2020

   See what darling you should not care at all about your weight or that you are a virgin or anything, you should be happy that you were born, that you exist in this world which, although difficult, has its wonderful sides, all people have different destinies but sooner or later they intertwine with someone else, but all with time ... don't worry about anything there is no person who has not tasted the sweetness and bitterness of Love and I guarantee you will soon find your partner and you will be very happy :)

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sflmarriedguy answered · October 10, 2020

   A girl is not always good to be a full stick, boys like to sometimes have a bulging "sexy" belly and a nice ass and not just skin and bones.

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girl_of_yourdreams answered · October 10, 2020

   Give me your skype, I'll come and fuck you;)

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Ronnette answered · October 10, 2020

   Run every morning in the afternoon, do not eat fast food such as hamburgers and such pizza mici. After 18:00 you can eat no bread. Eat fruit and chicken also go to the gym and if you do this after 1 year you will be a super babe. don't be afraid that 1 year is a lot if you are persistent you will become great. SUCCESS

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irene__casas answered · October 10, 2020

   I'll tell you what my friend told me. I hope I help you. So let's get to the topic: he told me I quote "we boys like to eat meat not bones". Translated that they love plump and not those who are only skin and bones. Personally, I'm not weak myself. He is 1.70 tall and weighs 60 kilograms. She made her own conclusion. Do not worry. Good luck.

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mia_presley answered · October 10, 2020

   Hello, I read your article. And I'm full and I didn't have a serious girlfriend. If you want to meet, write me an e-mail [email protected]. I believe that there will be something to say and share and help each other, because I have the same problems. Or we may like it for more serious things. I hope you are interested. I look forward to your reply. I wish you a good day.

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chaseelliott9 answered · October 11, 2020

   Hello. I'm a boy and to tell you the truth, seeing a skinny girl who looks like a stick makes me sick, and my boyfriend is chubby, some guys make fun of me for being full, and so on. I don't care at all. So you will find the boy you like who is fatter. And don't worry about childhood;)

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wildwoodme answered · October 11, 2020

   You need to be a little more confident and open (sorry for the word, but ..) to the world and people, it will help you, believe me;)

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brunetkaxx27 answered · October 11, 2020

   Sun, if you decide, write to me at [email protected]

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shanebattier answered · October 11, 2020

   Look what I'm going to tell you if we're going to be 31st century hahahaha we're not at all grass to think nonsense so stupid that you're fat or miscellaneous etc. that you're a virgin weed to be guided by what God wrote to you if you want to live alone and you're a virgin, you don't have to go through your head at all, I'm ugly with fat, etc. Arresting is a stupid thing, it's just stupid chemistry

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fernandollorente.es answered · October 11, 2020

   Abe people, why are you misleading the girl he does not need pity, he must lose weight if he wants to be quoted. This is the truth. Try darling, but do not overdo the diets, if you do not combine them with exercise, nothing happens. And to all lovers of "abundant flesh" I would say ... you are not well, it sucks to sink into fat, what's sexy about that, and

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lovely_lulu answered · October 11, 2020

   Being a virgin is not a problem! It's even a good thing, because those who started at 12-13 missed their childhood because they had their legs raised. I'm 19, I'm 20 on March and I'm still a virgin. I have a friend for three months and when I told him that I had never done anything with another, he was very happy :) Because I'm just his :) And I missed him upstairs, but this is the first boy I'm dating, before that I had a lot of guys I knew , with whom we played cards and kicked in the school yard, but this is the only boy I like :) Don't worry about sex, everything comes with its time and there are passengers for every train :))))) Good luck;)

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finestraight answered · October 11, 2020

   Number 5 do all fat people say that?

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gabriel_sanz answered · October 11, 2020

   39 Obviously aging: P

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Hannah-Foster answered · October 11, 2020

   Hello dear! I was like you and I had the same problem. Do not punish yourself for this, believe that there are people for whom this is not a problem. Sooner or later you will meet him and he will want you as you never imagined. Don't worry about the kisses and everything else will come from inside you, and you have seen many similar scenes on TV! And believe me, virginity is not nonsense and it is a prestige for every man to be your first, I still sometimes regret it, but it is normal! I send you greetings and I support you with both hands for your determination to change, but do not change your inner self!

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SexiLexi7777 answered · October 12, 2020

   I want to tell you that I am 19 years old and I am also a virgin. according to my observations, popular girls are not so beautiful, they just go to everyone. but did you know that it was these boys who already had them who considered them scoundrels? Honey, what do you prefer, to serve as a call girl just to be with someone, or to have the patience to find a soul mate and be truly happy without having to try half the campus? if you have already found it, I wish you very strong emotions in the future, if not - look around you - it may be closer than you think ...

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nobaddaysjane answered · October 12, 2020

   Hmmm, a lot of men like fat people, but some don't show it, or they wouldn't take a fat woman for a boyfriend because they think that others will make fun of them ... In some cultures it's the opposite - it's elite for a woman to be fat. There, thin girls are also liked, but are more avoided, because of the stereotype. ^^^ уфу

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power_stuff answered · October 12, 2020

   What does it matter if you are in the 21st or 12th century and what is the criterion of virginity? Only 100 years ago in our lands young people married them at the age of 16-17, and their parents married them by force - a kind of trade deal so that the two families could increase each other's property / fields, or to place the poor child in a richer family ... That's why they were virgins - they were still children, worked from morning till dusk and slept the whole 10-member family in one small room (especially in winter) with parents. There was no television or internet to "ski" something "like that". What sex are you? After the wedding, they gave birth to 7-10 children, and not all of them survived (illness, cold, some congenital anomaly ...), because the only contraceptive was ... another pregnancy,

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evayourdream answered · October 12, 2020

   I've always found plump ladies sexy - bulging bellies, bulky, slightly sagging breasts, rounded ass have driven me crazy. Do not follow the fashion trends and do not worry about being a virgin / the first time she remains the only one /. I wish you success.

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maryme.23 answered · October 12, 2020

   I want to tell you that I am full but I am 11 and I do not know what will happen when I am 18 but do not worry, I have a girlfriend who is 19 and is full and she told me that until 17 she did not have a boyfriend because she was worried that she was full but when she relaxed she became my brother's boyfriend and he is ... something like a bodybuilder has a very cool body and every girl wants to be with him so DON'T WORRY !!! :)

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fornalski answered · October 12, 2020

   Let me tell you this fact do not bother you. There are girls and women who are 20-25 years old and have not had sex or kissed. Behave and dress as you like and as you feel comfortable, and when it comes the moment you find a person who loves you then he will teach you everything. Don't make the mistake of going to bed with someone casual, because then you will regret it!

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1jogi3 answered · October 12, 2020

   Are you interested in politics? If not, then you don't know, that's why - look at Iskra Fidosova sometimes what something is. And does she seem to care that she's eating meatballs? On the contrary, he turns and drives the whole of Bulgaria crazy with tricks and arrogantly demonstrates his self-confidence to the invincible. And do you know who her husband is? Ask yourself, because with divination you will not know. One can go crazy guessing what he may have liked about her. And yet it is a fact. Reality. So forget about your complaints and act on the substance. It's time to throw away the excess zipper in your childhood, but make sure you nail the right laluger beforehand! And my wife is fat (165 cm-85 kg), but not only do I not tease her, but I do not try to look at another, because that hole there, and for the weak is still so wide - I tried all sorts before I got married . Well, virgins are a little narrower,

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blondydream answered · October 13, 2020

   Dear girl, the advice of others is very good and inspires you to be yourself. But do not forget that a person is met by a vision and sent by a mind. So, who will stop to understand your mind, if your vision is repulsive. Try on your appearance first, it's not true that it doesn't matter. Men are quite labile, even if he loves you, if his friends make fun of you, he will dump you. Success in the fight against weight gain. So when you meet the prince to be ready for him, and not then to fight to please him. 5 rings on top are well tolerated, but more - no.

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irablockphoto answered · October 13, 2020

   Hello, I am a 16-year-old girl and I have no relationship with a boy. The problem that excites girls now is virginity. I will tell you my opinion. For me, virginity is something special, beautiful and pure. Don't worry girls if you haven't had contact with a boy. It doesn't matter so much, isn't it better for a girl to keep herself clean until she gets married. I think and I know that the experience is wonderful when the girl has a real, first wedding night. This makes the girl more confident in herself, and it is a guarantee for men that, the woman holds on to herself, and will hold on to men.

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madmomedo answered · October 13, 2020

   Stop the nonsense of "virginity is the most precious thing a girl has" or that it's "beautiful and pure." it's just a little skin, why do you make it such a problem? And these things a GIRL tells you about the author; there are a lot of men who like fat girls, maybe; s

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jdhot12 answered · October 13, 2020

   ABE HORAAAA THE TOPIC IS FROM 3 YEARS, 6 MONTHS AGO Is the author still a virgin ??? and ???