Stop Judging People Once You Don't Know The Reasons Why They Talk And Think About This Alternative

   If there are people who want to do this - OK. However, I do not agree that the state and poverty should be cited as a reason for a girl to work as a prostitute. There are so many girls who also live in poverty, with little money, barely move, but still it does not occur to them to go make money this way, because they have dignity, self-esteem and pride. Bulgaria may be poor and rotten, but it is in the EU, as you live in poverty here, go somewhere in the west, nobody stops you, there you will certainly find something to do that is not related to opening your legs. I repeat - poverty is not to blame for the presence of prostituted girls, greed (the desire to get rich quick), lack of education and the presence of very, very laziness are to blame.

   Bad and ugly road. Everyone chooses the easy way to go or the hard way.

   Another topic that tells us about suffering prostitutes! I have many acquaintances who struggle with poverty and do not practice this profession. I suggest that prostitutes forgive themselves for their lack of morality and stop waiting for 100% approval. Recently, it has become fashionable to jump whenever 1 or 2 Bulgarians exercise their right to free opinion and say they do not like something or someone. And what is left for the cases when these Bulgarians are 10 or more ... Reconcile - prostitutes have not been, are not and will never be a role model. Just like drug dealers, thieves, murderers and liars. Fight your remorse without involving others in your inner struggles! And because he mentioned the chalga - isn't it constantly said that they sing in playback and you don't have to be able to sing? Surprisingly, because with these music TV competitions in recent years I was left with the impression that here is full of future singers and singers. So why don't the poor women become chalgadzhiyski then - it was the same, but at least they will have a slightly better reputation. They will not be canonized as saints, but at least they will do more work than simply opening their legs. But it's easier to make more money with a minimum of effort, isn't it? They have chosen the easy way, and we must applaud them because they are immoral and lazy? Should we go to brothels to clap in the corridors, shout "You are the top! We owe our GDP to you!" And create a pleasant atmosphere for the working people? And the example of the Netherlands - yes, the country of legal addiction is an ideal example of morality and human values. Is Jack the Ripper an example of how we should court women and be gentlemen ??? And should we legalize corruption and see what economic growth and a new Golden Age for Bulgaria are? I love these overflows from empty to empty in order to look like victims and candidate saints, but they do not change one thing - the truth remains true even though our opponent says it.

   I do not think that we are judging these people, but we are expressing our personal opinion. Others were 22 years old and felt hopeless, but did not become prostitutes. Most voluntarily become such out of greed and laziness. I personally do not condemn them, but deeply regret them. What irritates me, however, is that they are trumpeting everywhere, what a great profession they had, how much money they made (this way "fresh meat" is recruited, ie newcomers) and how happy they are in their personal lives. The next time you're out, look at a man you're disgusted with, smelly, with dirty hands, bad breath, greasy hair, thick, hairy, etc. Will you go to bed with him for 40-50 euros plus a blowjob. stinking his genitals for 20 euros? That's why I understand prostitutes to some extent, that they have the mental need to tell everywhere that prostitution is a normal profession. And you, Dear author, you want us to stop judging prostitutes, but you hastily condemn the bankers in your post. This is a rather unusual approach.

   I do not judge anyone, but I do not admire such a profession. To me, these are people who don't respect themselves enough. However, in reality, there are thousands of other professions with which they can earn a living, both here and abroad.

   I feel sorry for your boyfriend with what KUR * VA he shares his money. Women like you have never had and will never have dignity. Go paw someone's x * y now;)

   Don't look for excuses, girl, for the urge to become a prostitute. We all know the prices of meat, bread, petrol. We also know that the situation in Bulgaria is, to put it mildly, complicated. And do you know that we are world champions in whining and grumbling? Do you know that you can't please a Bulgarian with anything? No matter what you do, no matter what you do or say, everything will fail. That's why he admires easy profiteers - everything else wants an ass - learning, looking for alternatives, etc. You were right here - if you don't like it, leave. One more - one less ... what does a person mean here, as the poet had said. But just don't justify yourself with poverty. There have been years of terrible poverty, war and famine. But millions of Bulgarian women have not even thought about this way of getting rich. This is a personal choice of every woman. A matter of values. But first you have to have them.

   Life in Bulgaria can be really hard, but this is not the way to live. Do you have to become a rag without any moral values ​​just because of one food? I am not judging anyone, not even those who have chosen this path, but no one can convince me that this is the only alternative to experience! It is better to try to work an unskilled job abroad, for example a waitress or in a shop, where you will probably make money to live normally, than to go on the path of prostitution, from which, in my opinion, there is no going back!

   Prostitution is a disgusting profession. I'd rather be hungry than eat this way. Not that I'm a moralist or judging the girls who feed on it, but it's disgusting to think that who knows who will have to fulfill my dirty fantasies and what it will do to me

   Those of you who think it's easy to be a prostitute are very bad!

   I support number 3. Everyone makes their own choices and I don't see why you are looking for someone else's approval. When you are sure that this is the right choice for you and you think that your profession is not shameful, I do not see why you should seek someone else's approval, praise, etc. When I hear that someone is a prostitute, I do not go to I judge her. I perceive that this is her personal choice and she brings with her both the positives (money) and the negatives of the profession. Like anything, prostitution has a good and a bad side for the practitioner. But when someone like that comes to ask me what I think, to tell me how moral it is and to take water and excuses from three hundred wells, then I will have my opinion. I'm not going to clap and say, "Oh, darling, how much you have suffered, how wonderful you are." I could say that about people who, by force, they have been forced to become like that, but when someone has made their own choice, then not to go and complain to me and ask for my pity and approval. I will never go to attack a prostitute or sue her, but I will not keep quiet when he explains various stories to me. And yes, the situation in Bulgaria is bad, and in Western Europe it is better, but why not look at the situation in the cantons of China or India or Afghanistan or Africa. I'm thankful that I was born here, not in a third world country - and whoever says we're the worst is obviously not aware of how much grief there really is in this world. Ana And yes, the situation in Bulgaria is bad, and in Western Europe it is better, but why not look at the situation in the cantons of China or India or Afghanistan or Africa. I'm thankful that I was born here, not in a third world country - and whoever says we're the worst is obviously not aware of how much grief there really is in this world. Ana And yes, the situation in Bulgaria is bad, and in Western Europe it is better, but why not look at the situation in the cantons of China or India or Afghanistan or Africa. I'm thankful that I was born here, not in a third world country - and whoever says we're the worst is obviously not aware of how much grief there really is in this world. Ana

   To number 3 ... from the AUTHOR: I didn't say anywhere that they are sufferers, or maybe they are, but only they know that! which they do, but it's ugly to judge them and address them with ugly names! And let's unravel the topic of the Netherlands some other time, because now I'm not in the mood to explain to you how, if you want, 10 Jack the Rippers to get out of her country, are still light years ahead of us. To number 6 now: How quickly do you judge me to be a whore after commenting on prostitutes? I'm not calling for women to become prostitutes, I'm not saying I'm like that, I'm not saying that I sleep with different men every night. ..Tell me again, how did you conclude that I am a whore? Probably my 4 year monogamous relationship at the head of the family makes me one of the lowest whores :))) Hide ... And finally to number 7: I have no strong desire to become a prostitute, but if I had, would I still spend 300 leva today ?? I know best the prices of everything, I know best how everyone in this country grumbles and complains , I know best how many young uneducated people there are, and how our whole life is based on our choices, and our value system has the greatest influence on our choices! And I'm not excusing myself for anything, and I'm not trying to justify anyone, my goal is to stop judging prostitutes for their choice of profession, and transfer them to the "second quality people" column. Some of them are mothers, others support whole families, and this is not even about those who have chosen to do this out of laziness and greed! I do not condemn them, I do not justify them, I am not on anyone's side, but I am angry when you judge people without even judging yourself first! Well, the other day in the store, the saleswoman returned me 10 leva more, but I, as a well-mannered person, returned them, and she looked at me dully and didn't even say "thank you". Here you are all moralists, very honest, righteous, almost Samaritans, but where are you on the street? why, since you are so against grumbling world champions, when you walk in front of me with a friend, do you curse your bosses and complain about all sorts of trifles? I'm a prostitute! "?? I'd better not look for them, so as not to find them squatting between someone's uncle's legs in the booths at the discos. You are very good, but only in the internet space ...

   Bray, that many snakes and lizards are vomited by this author! Personally, after this tirade, I do not find any sense in answering. Anyway, she knows what each of us is and is the only one who rules the Truth.

   You're right № 13! Author, I hope you find a way to unload mentally. Then your worldview will change. Yoga? Sports? Ah, one more thing. What is this mania for control? No one will change their mind just because YOU want it. Learn tolerance. We respect your opinion, you respect ours.

   The author doesn't make sense, everyone has their ass behind them and can't see their own dirty ass and accepts that once they wipe, it's clean. When you look at how many women are on a salary of BGN 300 and how they go dressed in make-up and at the solarium, she realizes what their second job is at night. And whether you sleep with a man for money or every day with a different one for money, there is no difference, it's all about money, hence the conclusion that more than 70% of women in Bulgaria sleep for money with men and what were the names of women who sleep for money aaaa prostitutes.

   And? What's wrong with you, girl? Leave them to the "judges" .. How did you do?

   From the author: Number 17, what did I do with it ?? I've never been faced with a dilemma whether to become a prostitute or not :) I'm just fed up that everyone on the site is always judging strangers and their choices in life. If I'm not fooled, the site is called "Share", and one should find consolation, advice maybe, but I don't think it's right to judge people and insult them and so on. Do you understand me? I continue to live as before, everything is fine :) And at number 15 I just wanted to say that I do not sleep with my friend for money, I have never slept with anyone for money or for anything else (work, cocktail) :) The fact that we live together and have a common budget I think is normal, and I do not go into this column in which you are trying to put me;)

   I had this dilemma almost a year ago and on the verge of jumping into something like that, which terrified me. For months I was on the verge of despair and misery, with a small, late-born child, with thousands of levs in debt, loneliness, power outages from the winter and all sorts of other annoyances. I went out several times with men with the idea to like each other as people, to have money and even give me a little, not to starve, not to be lonely and to have a friend. Of course, from too much choice and procrastination / and to whom should I leave the child? !! / and nothing happened, I was obviously scared and I'm not up for it. Some of the meetings ended very quickly - the men are fleeing from the really difficult and unsolvable problems. Well, I was looking for a job - but how to look without electricity, without a charged phone, without a net, without a paid bill? At 40, that and above? !! What if your legs are shaking with hunger, where to go No light in the tunnel ... there were no grams, I lost weight, and the child ate only margarine and milk ... A vicious circle with no way out. And I would almost do it - in the name of the child I would not be ashamed. In one of the rare cases of access to the net in a club, I launched SV, which turned my life around. I was elected and have been working for almost a year now. Well, my salary is about BGN 400 ... they don't get anywhere, but there is no mention of misery and hunger. In the end, everything was predestined. It's bad that I have debts left, but there's nothing I can do ... at least we have enough money for some other bill and food, a chat-pat dress and so on ... From that dark period I learned not to judge anyone, yet fewer prostitutes. It's easy to say, he's looking for a job, he's working, but what if he doesn't ?? !! Fortunately, these gloomy months did not make me angry, but made me more tolerant. You never know what's wrong with the person opposite when someone tells you it's bad, and you and I are bad! Yes, but there are worse and worse. For one it is bad not to drink, for another it is worse not to have bread, for a third it is worst not to have a home ... I still don't have a washing machine and I don't feel bad. Don't judge girls who prostitute - you don't know what's wrong with them! Author, I really liked how you write and for me you have the right to rebel against those who judge left and right. I really liked your comment, where you are number 12 and 18. I wish you all the best! But there will always be "judges", alas ... who prostitute - you don't know what's wrong with them! Author, I really liked how you write and for me you have the right to rebel against those who judge left and right. I really liked your comment, where you are number 12 and 18. I wish you all the best! But there will always be "judges", alas ... who prostitute - you don't know what's wrong with them! Author, I really liked how you write and for me you have the right to rebel against those who judge left and right. I really liked your comment, where you are number 12 and 18. I wish you all the best! But there will always be "judges", alas ...

   The happy prostitute… I also read here somewhere about a woman with this profession, who was independent and satisfied with the choice of the profession of prostitute and achieved great success in Europe. I personally do not know one. I would say that we should be grateful for all the comments here on this topic, because we need to talk openly about these issues… Also, everyone can draw their own conclusions from the facts that are presented. I would like to briefly explain and recall some of the meanings of the word prostitution. Or as it is also called the sex industry. The person who works as a prostitute actually performs sexual acts for money or other direct compensation, where the remuneration goes to the performer or the person who organizes the prostitution. The driving force is fast money. A common case is when prostitution is associated with violence. For example, from men against women and children, and many countries have strict laws that prohibit or regulate this activity. In some eastern countries, there is also the death penalty, where women are always to blame. In countries such as Germany and the Netherlands, prostitution is legalized and is seen as a recognition of a woman's free choice to pursue a profession of her choice. In this way the problem of safety of the working environment and social rights is solved. Even in 2009 a requirement was introduced for the registration of prostitutes and their taxation, but they mostly work illegally. It goes without saying that the more prostitution is criminalized, the higher the prices of prostitutes become. Now you understand why prostitution is better paid in Italy and Greece, but violence is also more brutal because the laws are stricter and prostitution is considered immoral and unworthy. In the Scandinavian countries, a law was introduced in 2000. which punishes only the buyer of sex. This is to reduce the need to buy sex and organized crime related to prostitution. When there is no demand, there is no supply. I don't think everything can be solved with laws and penalties, because it's only for the benefit of the slave traders behind the scenes. The most unfortunate thing is that a woman has to fall into this situation and have plans for a long-term career in this direction. Lately, sex has been sold on the Internet like everything else. The modern prostitute should not hang on the streets. Internet availability benefits both the buyer and the seller of sex. Personally, I expect this to lead to great violence and mental problems. The day the prostitute stops selling her body for some reason, fear will appear. This happens sooner or later. You can't sweep the secret and the lie under the rug. She will haunt you for the rest of your life. I hope there is someone outside who will be able to help you regain your self-confidence and broken soul.