Hello. I will ask "homo" critics to ignore it. Let opinions / advice on the upcoming story be from people with good culture, upbringing. The story: A boy of 18, bisexual. Two days ago, I had a dream that gave birth to a "naughty" desire. Me and the neighbor - give him a blowjob, ha! I wonder how and why exactly that and such an experience? : D A man of about 47 years old, married, with a child who does not live with them, as he is big with his own family. In principle, we rarely see each other, if we do, only a greeting is the only story between us. What was even stranger was that the dream event - I liked it, I enjoyed it. Since then, I want to somehow make this incident a reality, but it seems almost impossible. He is married, and I am clear of such an action, what the consequences might be. It is understandable that in Bulgaria homosexuality is not tolerated in the best possible way, and a whistle - a man to a man, is accepted as such, although at an early age, boys, we have experimented with all sorts of things. I say "almost" because it is possible to roll up, depending on the situation and the approach. The man in question is a good friend of my father, he comes home from time to time to see each other. Another time he looks for him when he's not home, in which case I go out to let him know - this may be the right time. It seems risky .. I have no idea about the approach, the very approach to the topic .. it is difficult to imagine this. I couldn't just pour "Are you curled up for 1-2 minutes", it just sounds ridiculous. : D His reaction in the first seconds is disturbing, even if he agrees, after it's all over, what opinion will you form? Of course, the question will be asked if the whole incident can be kept secret - trust will play a role here, but there is some concern. Well, I have a desire, but no idea. Sure, for most of you this whole thing will sound perverted, banal, vulgar, but it's ... it's human.: D I would be grateful for an opinion / advice. Greetings.
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This means not only sex if you dreamed of it, but that you trust this person.
Sounds pretty exciting to do, ha! But first tell us how old you are, because if you are under 18 it will somehow be too much. Still, buddy, he's 47. Are you 25/30?
If everyone goes to realize their wet dreams, do you know what will happen ... Leave this job. There is a high probability that the neighbor is homophobic (after all, we live in post-communist patriarchal Bulgaria). He will be disgusted, he may tell your father to quarrel, or your father (if he does not know and does not approve) will start rubbing salt on your head. Better to focus on boys / men your age and a little older, who certainly have similar tendencies. They will be safe for your psyche, because they will be real gay / bisexual, and not perverts with unexplained childhood traumas, like most uncles who want young boys to blow them. If you still want to be exactly that, it's best to make friends first to see if there's a rug. "Do you want a whistle," like, from the boy next door (in his eyes),
From the Author to: 1. Sex is not included in the description. Trust .. a small percentage. 2. At the age of 18, later this month I hit 19ka. 3. From what I notice in him is that he is quite a calm, cultured and normally communicative person, which could be tied to this. Whether he will be homophobic is presumed. But even homophobes are in some cases willing to take such "risks." He has known me since I was a child, but we are not in friendly relations. I've never thought about someone's "whistle" before, let alone the one in question. Strange was the pleasure experienced in my dream at that moment - the reason for my desire to try this, in reality. :)
Don't do anything because you will eat your fight and something else will be somehow awkward and dull afterwards. Tray is just a dream and your aspirations are caused by lack of sex and will pass with time
I think he found someone else for fun. He is very old and most likely from the generation with conservative thinking, and once he is married there are hardly any hidden homo tendencies. You're going to get in trouble. It is better to find an uncle 3-4 years older, for whom you know for sure that he has such desires. :)
To 8: According to my observations, many of the so-called "hetero" men, whether married or with children, sometimes show homo tendencies, but although it does not lead to something serious, they rather fall in love with secret whistles and the like. : D
And do you like women? Probably from the lack of sex you come such thoughts and dreams. I've tried a blowjob and in the interest of truth I didn't like it, I've dreamed a few times and so on, but all this was caused by complexes that I pushed in my head and the lack of sex with women! At the moment I don't need any of my other extremes, but at the moment I don't have a lack of sex.
1st - I think it's normal to be attracted to, if I may say so - a male. The man is old, authoritative, probably intelligent when you seem to respect him. 2nd - Clarify what you care more about. The relationship between your neighbor and your father should be good or the relationship between you and your father should be good. Keep in mind that if something happens between you, neither will you want to confess because you will cause inconvenience to your family and the anger of your father who will accuse the neighbor of using you, nor will the neighbor admit because in this way will ruin his family. 3rd - Your sexual attraction will fade over time, perceiving that the idea is a lost cause or when another sexual object appears. My advice is, as vulgar as it sounds (a 22-year-old boy), poke your pants up and down a bit, a few days and quickly find another sexual object (be it a boy or a girl) to poke your panties up and down to such an extent that you start moving back and forth. Greetings!
From the Author: Up to 10. Yes, I like women. One is able and free to try a little of everything .. :) Of course, depending on one's own feelings and inclinations. Until 11. I respect him, completely. The problem is just that - trust. Eventually, if this happens, the "trust" factor will become apparent. Whether it will be kept "secret" as if it remained "between the two of us". In principle, I am not a person who identifies an "object" and is ready to make his wishes come true at any cost. This is the first such case, and with a man. Maybe you are right that these feelings, thoughts are up to date - it will be understood. But today the person in question came for a short time at home, of course in the company of his father. It was impossible for now. :) Thanks for the opinion and advice, and to everyone who gave a comment / advice on the topic. Greetings.