Hello. 23-year-old girl I am, I have a serious friend of 6 years, he is my first and only. I have sex with him out of obligation, not at will. Sex is always boring and boring. We do not make French love to each other, but directly begin sexual intercourse, which usually lasts 10 minutes. Neme is sexually satisfying, I even dare say that I don't know what pleasure from sex is. I feel like being with another man, with a bigger penis, to find out what a real pleasure it is, but at the same time I don't want to hurt my friend. I think about a boy all the time and I want to sleep with him, he turns me on a lot, but I don't know what to do. If I do, will my friend know I want crazy and wild sex for one night, I want to know what passionate sex is, and at the same time I'm afraid. Is the problem in me or in him because his penis is not very big?
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I think split up, I also had a 7-year relationship with an asexual woman. Sex has never been completely satisfying for me. She didn't enjoy it, and she didn't need to. We broke up, she cried, she wanted to kill herself. But in the end, I found a woman I felt with as I had always dreamed, she found a mate, we have a child, she too. By the way, I'm not particularly talented, I'm about 14-15 cm, but my partner always told me that sex is great. He comes regularly, clitorally and vaginally, recently we even have anal sex and he has experienced an orgasm. Personally, I don't want her to make me French, but I love doing it. My advice is, split up first. Tell him you don't feel what you felt in nacho. Don't tell him you're not happy with the sex, it will hurt him a lot,
No do not! Don't become another whore! You'll regret
Try, try, now is the time to make a living, enjoy and go crazy, not when you get married and have a family and children. If you suppress this desire, the problem will only get worse. Sex is very important for a person's self-esteem. So do not injure yourself. Try different men, so you increase your chances and find the right one for you. Nowhere is it said that the first one must be your only one and that whatever happened to you you must endure it. And the fact that he is small is an aggravating circumstance. Who wants to tell you anything but size matters. Try it and you will see for yourself. Good luck and good luck.
Zavaliykata, fix your problems now, that then you will suffer a lot from your own disorientation to make a decision in your life
Off, another dissatisfied muffin, buy a vibrator, make it big and see what it is
There is no problem in him or in you. However, there is a desire on your part to plunder life with full hands, and the person next to you cannot answer your desires, which does not make him powerless;) Do not hurt the person, do not stain your conscience (if there is one), but separate with it and do whatever, as, where and with whomever you wish. I'm sure you'll be so happy;)
It's not about the size, darling, it's about your friend's skills. I was with a boy with an 18 cm penis and I didn't have an orgasm, and the boy was sexy, but he didn't know what exactly to do. My friend I'm with now has a 15 cm penis, when I saw him it was funny how small he is, but when we have sex he gives me great orgasms, I just go crazy, so it's next to the man, not the size.
Very interesting how you need something you haven't tried like I'm a 25 year old man. to NEED to be with a black woman. Stop porn people is harmful and distorts your psyche. I'm very interested in what irradiates you so that you think whore. How could one not say that he thinks he needs personal development, why do you make sex the number one priority in the relationship ... no one calls it love anymore everyone thinks about fucking and that's the problem. A relationship symbolizes a whole, and nowadays one half looks only at what it consumes from the other, so unity is not achieved, only this I will tell you and all women with such thoughts!
First, realize whether you want to be with your boyfriend or you are in the habit together. If it's the latter, split up live healthier. If you have feelings for him, try talking. Tell him what you want, be the initiator, don't ask him, but give it to him. Then sit on his face to return the "favor". If this helps him to overcome his dryness - well, if not, a relationship of young people without good sex write it fugitives. Whether you will be better off with a bigger one, I can't tell you, there is only one way to find out. Grandpa Torbalan
I had written a few more lines, but I decided it wasn't worth it. Simple advice, read books. Whether to find out how to break up without lying to your friend or how to stay with him and still be interesting to him, and you to him.
God, God !!!! The problem is not the size of your friend's package, but the size of your brain. Complete 0 !! Horror, horror ... leave the boy.
The problem is not in the size. There is a problem in both of you. First, teach him to respect you a little and do what he gets from you. Second, learn what you want to be with him or not after you fix the first one, because if you are with a person who only wants the hole, and does not respect the person who is quite rude of him. If you don't want to be with him and you want to be someone else, you have to be honest with him and yourself in that regard before you jump on another dick.
The first three comments I'm sure are male. Aio here, a man was complaining about his boyfriend's skills in bed, would you comment in the same way? Number three, you wrote to buy a vibrator. Well, I'll surprise you, but the pleasure is not only in the size, but also in the person on the other side. Apparently her friend is not good in bed and she felt it, but she can't be sure because there is no basis for comparison. By that logic, if a woman doesn't get up, you take a sex doll or just break it, let me just ask? Now darling, let me tell you how it was with me. Just like with you, my first was not good, neither the second, nor every next one before my current friend. And among them, believe me, there were those with very impressive penises, and yet I never got pleasure and I was even used to it. I gave myself to be good to them, and I had accepted for myself, that I just obviously can't finish. Now, however, it is completely different and it is not of size, but of the man himself!
Come on, stop with these fake topics already, you're smeared. Moderators, take matters into your own hands: This is, perhaps, the only forum in the world where absolutely every topic and every answer has to go through a moderator's approval, lest there be a crime, and yet every second topic is fake. And it's high time to have some rudiments of usernames, because 5 schizophrenics write on their own and answer for themselves.
If you hold the person close to you and want your relationship to last, talk to him about the problem and try to change things. If not, leave it and then go to bed with whoever you want. Just don't spin whore numbers. That's not the way.
Number 13 is just to insert the typical female representative, apparently in every topic supporting the right of a woman to sleep with hundreds, without even having the right as a man to resent. And the regular answer, "well if you were a man how would you react", "how do you sleep with a lot". It is obvious what such women are, they even anonymously manage to become disliked by you. I am against the double standard, but many "light" women have begun to justify their lightness often on baseless accusations of double standards.
From the author. The topic is not fake first and second please stop with the attacks. I have been and still am honest with my boyfriend, I love him, but sex is sex after all. I haven't slept with 10 boys to call me a whore. I want to try something different and new for me. I'm 23 years old and I've only been with one man, and I'm sure he wants to try another. We thought of options to diversify sex with a threesome, first with a man, then with a woman, but we gave up. Shouldn't we really try? This does not count as infidelity
17, just to ask where he saw "the woman sleeping with HUNDREDS" !!! It's an exaggeration, but you're funny now! And what is the double standard by which women justify themselves? !? !!!
To be a complete idiot. You will find that this is a fictional story in order to gather interesting opinions. And maybe in order to kill the self-esteem of someone with small (normal) penises. I do not want to offend this forum in any way, because it is a good place to pour out your soul for anything, because no one knows you, and to share. But many people are starting to abuse it! I ask the moderators to come up with an option to restrict topics from an address or ID, or to open a registration for users.
Don't listen to these complexes .. try something new ... passionate ... WITH A BIG PENIS .... Try a threesome with a man and a woman ... Try anal sex .... Abe time passes quickly but don't to do it with an acquaintance ... never.
I am a woman of 30 years, I have slept with 40 or more men. The problem is with your boyfriend. With a small penis, sex can never be amazing. Besides, your boyfriend has no experience and does not know how to satisfy you, he is a boring person among other things. I started having sex late, at 19 years old. Because I didn't have a basis for comparison, I couldn't realize that I didn't like having sex with him, when in fact I had never finished with him. A sweet mistake, infidelity with a top womanizer, made me see that sex is a unique thing. But if he is with the right person. Apart from being much older, he is a real Don Juan. We had romantic sex, he felt that this attracted me. But he had a lot of experience, and your friend obviously can't even compensate for his small size ....
From a woman Believe me the size does not matter, it is important to have chemistry and the man to know what he is doing. The most important thing is to get aroused first. I advise you to try another. If you want to keep in touch, do it discreetly. I doubt that after so long you will leave him, at least try something new. Obviously you want him a lot after you have identified a man. No one can blame you. You are not an easy woman. Men are constantly cheating, and women are cheating more and more often. You are so young, God live.
Author, don't pay any attention to the attacks. Different people, different ideals. You do not live for them, but for yourself. When something in a relationship doesn't satisfy you, you just break up and move on. And whether you will be satisfied depends on you. There are no awkward topics between the closest people, initiate a conversation about what you want and what you are missing. Things may be fixable, there are sexologists, etc. A little alcohol usually slows down ejaculation, for example. Try to change the routine and boredom in sex, to be with someone else you can always. But nothing guarantees what he will be like. And a person appreciates what he had only when he lost it.
Number 22, only after 40 men did you understand what real sex is. So all 40 men had small penises. Are you still with this Don Juan with the big penis or are you already separated from him. If you have already separated, how is your new lover? And does he have a big penis. You are probably already a great expert, after 40 pieces, how to choose men by their penises. Do you make them show their penis first before you have any intimacy. I ask because not so long ago a beautiful woman asked me to see my penis first, and it is not as big as your Don Juan's.
Size doesn't matter, but you can't live with a bad lover. From personal experience I tell you. Separate.
From the author to number 20. If you want me to give you contacts to contact me and find out if the story is fake or not. I am looking for opinions and advice on the matter, without advice as I have already said. It's not my fault, it's just feelings I want to experience. And about the size of my friend is normal, but he himself no longer excites me, I'm kind of tired, no passion, but I love him.
You need to think carefully about what you want to move forward from this relationship. Or get along to see each other for sex with other people. Because now that I "itch" you so much in the future, I don't know ... it's better to scratch yourself when you're young, that then it gets scary. Women are most shaken in their teenage years and then when they hit 30-35, and if they go to lovers in those years, there is no stopping there.
to number 22 - It seems that you are not wasting your time, at 19 you started having sex and now you are 30 years old and have an asset of 40 or more men. When and how did I spin them? This makes an arithmetic average of 4 lovers a year, that is, you changed them every three months and non-stop, is not a cause for pride, your poor man who takes you like that, with four football teams behind you. I hope you at least use condoms so you don't spread the infection. If you have a daughter in the same spirit, will you raise her?
"We do not make French love to each other, but we start sexual intercourse directly, which usually lasts 10 minutes." - This is the problem. Obviously you do not have the necessary imagination and technique. In short - you are both not very active and erotic. To change things, just play a porn video of the more tender and duplicate it. Seduce it in unusual places, organize different scenes. Watch erotic movies together, not porn movies, but erotic ones. Quality sex is not for the lazy.
From the author. I have a great desire to be with a man who knows exactly what he is doing. To be rude to me and meet my needs HA-HA. I want to be a slut with him and do nice things to him, and he to me. I have no idea what women down there feel when a man does it ... I have no desire to do this to my friend, because it doesn't turn me on, and when we do, it's an obligation, not a desire. I really like the idea of being with 2 men and it excites me a lot, but my friend is adamant that it can't happen. But maybe this will save our relationship, nothing prevents us from trying with a woman.
From the author. I even register on a dating site, but somehow I'm afraid to sleep with a stranger because I don't know if he's sick or not. And if I do it with an acquaintance, I'm not sure if it will remain a secret.
Author, from everything you write, I understand one thing - your relationship with your friend is at an end, it is exhausted and there is no point in existing. All you have to do is officially put an end to it. If you want sex with another, even threesomes, etc., and you are already looking for it on the site, you do not love your current boyfriend, even though you write like that. Sex without a relationship can be, but a stable relationship without good sex is not. When you left with your friend, you were mature enough only physically, without a basis for comparison, and now you are a woman and you are fully aware of the deficit in your relationship. If one of the partners decides to hire another, he inevitably does so and this is the end of the relationship. Just be honest and worthy enough and BEFORE that end the story with your friend. That way you won't offend and hurt him as much as if you lie to him and sleep with someone else. For the 6 years in which you have been together you owe him at least that. And to yourself, if you are a worthy person, and not just another unscrupulous ... (I don't want to write an ugly epithet).