I have a pretty stupid problem. It can't even be called a problem, but rather a situation "to have your problems". I have a friend for a year and a half. He is wonderful, I love him and our relationship is great. I also have a best friend (briefly D.), who I also appreciate a lot. The problem is that my partner is a modest boy, he doesn't stand out much. It is not the most beautiful in the world, nor is it rich. He is from a village, but he is far from the "rural" mentality. Just a boy who loves me the way I am! On the other hand, D. is the exact opposite type of boy. Nahakan, handsome and quite wealthy. He sounds like a spoiled kid, but he's not. A great man, with a great character. I am terribly annoyed that most of my acquaintances say that D. and I would be a great couple and why I haven't dumped my boy yet ... A stupid example to illustrate the situation. Photo with my boyfriend on Facebook - 20 likes, photo with D. - always over 100 likes. I hate this "liking" method, but it's the easiest to imagine. I'm tired of everyone criticizing me for my choice. I don't want to be with a handsome rich man! I'm happy with my partner, and I'm tired of explaining myself to everyone. I love both, but in such a different way that I would not imagine the situation different. How do I shut everyone's mouth once and for all !? Why do they think I am crazy, how can I show them that I am happy with my choice? I love both, but in such a different way that I would not imagine the situation different. How do I shut everyone's mouth once and for all !? Why do they think I am crazy, how can I show them that I am happy with my choice? I love both, but in such a different way that I would not imagine the situation different. How do I shut everyone's mouth once and for all !? Why do they think I am crazy, how can I show them that I am happy with my choice?
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why do you care at all, if you really like your friend so much, you won't pay attention to various comments of your "friends"
You do not need to explain to people at all why you are with your friend and not with D. However, if you internally feel attracted to D., this is another topic, clarify things for yourself.
Mistake dear, mistake. On the one hand I understand you and you are absolutely right, because a rich man can have every second, after he has money, and if he is handsome, then he will not only be yours, but on the other hand you say that he is decent, so he will not cheats. I don't know how old you are to give you quality advice. If you are at an age when you are thinking about marriage and family, then it is right to choose the rich. After all, you know that everything is paid and the time will come when your children will want iPhones, expensive clothes, private colleges and will be lucky with such a father, and with your love, they will just stare at the windows. I am a living example of this. Mom was faced with this dilemma, except that Dad was handsome for the time and he was fine, but then he became poor. And the other man was not so handsome, but well-built, and now he's damn rich. It's too late now and she's sorry that she obeyed her heart and chose love, although to this day she loves him, but she regrets that she did not choose the rich man. Now there are a lot of expenses around me and, like any girl, I want to have everything and hang out with friends at the mall and have the latest stuff. She sucks because years ago, if her choice had been different, we would now be super wealthy and have apartments, and now we are barely exhausted. Think and arrange your children, fuck love, there is nothing to eat. If you are small and you are not getting married yet, then stay with the person you love and explain to them that this is your life and you decide and know that these people are not your real friends. like any girl I want to have everything and hang out with friends at the mall and have the latest stuff. She sucks, because years ago, if her choice had been different, now we would be super wealthy and have apartments, and now we are barely exhausted. Think and arrange your children, fuck love, there is nothing to eat. If you are small and you are not getting married yet, then stay with the person you love and explain to them that this is your life and you decide and know that these people are not your real friends. like any girl I want to have everything and hang out with friends at the mall and have the latest stuff. She sucks, because years ago, if her choice had been different, now we would be super wealthy and have apartments, and now we are barely exhausted. Think and arrange your children, fuck love, there is nothing to eat. If you are small and you are not getting married yet, then stay with the person you love and explain to them that this is your life and you decide and know that these people are not your real friends.
I have been in a similar case. you have to prove that you don't care what others think and if they talk to you again about D., tell them "but he's just my friend and that's it". Show your partner that you are not influenced by people's opinions and put that aside with the photos. :) No need to bother unnecessarily, explain to them that you love each other differently :). Good luck.
What kind of guys are you looking at and what do you like? If you haven't had a relationship with people like D, then your partner is the right person for you ...
as you wrote yourself, this is not really a problem. if there is one at all, it is that you are too influenced by other people's opinions. just say that your life is yours, the choice of a man - just as much.
You do not live for people, but for yourself. Their opinion should not affect you in any way. The important thing is who you want to be with, who makes you happy. No matter what it is.;)
Number 3, I'm sorry to tell you, but you're super silly. Your mother taught you very well. Does she share this thinking with you? So why doesn't she work and make a lot of money? Maybe you should wish for another rich mother ... Your poor father! Didn't you think that in your family he is not just a sp **** tozoid with / in this case without / a wallet? !! Financial stability is important, but as you have to understand from your own history, it has not been a constant factor for you either. Your mother married a financially secure person, but he became poor, and now why isn't the other one, who is already rich, my father? !! Instead of giving stupid advice, study and educate yourself so that you can do something with a high income, and not repeat the mistakes of your mother, who was wondering who would support her. Because of wrong thinking, you now suffer and will suffer if you do not change it.
What do you start now that D. was rich and had to choose him. That D. looks better to me is true, but if the author loves her boyfriend, I would stay with him in her place. E. will just be my best friend.
Number 3, You're right, it's nice to be financially secure, but I didn't like your idea of "slowing down" love. Would it be better to live with someone you don't love, to have things, but you won't have love, and if you don't have love, you don't have happiness. Do you understand now? Because money is very important and we can't do without it, but because of it we should not limit ourselves to what WE LOVE! Because when you grow old and you don't need that much money anymore, what will you have left then? Five apartments, just five real estates and a rich man, with whom, however, you can't exchange two stories, right? !! Because then you will be old too .. In general, judging by your comment, I think that you were soon hurt in love and that's why you are so drastic, but I will save the comments on this topic. As for the author, Well, if you are so dependent on the opinion of others and you care so much, then you are hellishly weak and funny and life will REALLY OVERFLOW you. You are now roaring about THAT, which cannot even be called a problem, I do not see you if tomorrow you are told that you should have sex with D. Then there will be a topic again, I guess. "They say I have sex with D. WHAT TO DO ?!" ... !! I'm not usually that sharp, but really the story and comment number 3 teased me a little more. Leticia, 18 I'm not usually that sharp, but really the story and comment number 3 teased me a little more. Leticia, 18 I'm not usually that sharp, but really the story and comment number 3 teased me a little more. Leticia, 18
The very fact that you think it shows that you are divided and in fact immature. You don't deserve either. Think after 10-15 years how you would feel with one and how with the other, and in this situation after so much time with one of the two you will be neither close nor a friend because these pubertal friendships disappear like smoke after 15 years :)))