Surprising Separation ?!

   Accept the words as true, try not to get hurt and move on. It doesn't matter how we act, because we are different people, that is, do not be equal to others.

   And what is the reason he doesn't love you anymore? Maybe she's missing something. Talk to people

   So far, I've always felt if my partner's feelings were cold. I'm a realist in this regard, I don't wear pink glasses for long. I am mentally prepared that someone may leave me unexpectedly and I try to make such decisions as calmly as possible. Of course, when I'm left alone I go through the depressive phase, in which I ask myself questions or cry in ballads, but what to do. I don't indulge in gloomy moods for long, I suffer as much as I suffer and then move on. I'm not made of stone, it hurts. During an argument or something, I react calmly, my emotions overwhelm me after the climax. This is probably my best and worst quality at the same time. Others always wonder at my peace of mind, and my relatives know that I just have good self-control and then I experience things. I've had dramatic separations, but I rarely lose my temper. I realized that if I reacted sharply, I would never understand the reasons and would be left with a bunch of questions. If a person doesn't love me, I'm partly glad he left me. I don't want to keep people who don't appreciate me. I want to be surrounded by love, happiness, good feelings. I don't want a person I want to suffer for being with me. I'm always sad, but I try to be mature. I was hoping to reunite with someone. It is a fact. I have decided that if it is written to us, it will happen, but if it is not written to us, there is no way. That is why I avoid deep thinking about a possible reunion. I understand it's hard for you, but I don't think there's anything you can do. Just believe that separation was the right decision and you don't need to be with someone who doesn't love you anymore. It's not a real loss, it's more like a release. I will never understand the reasons and I will be left with a bunch of questions. If a person doesn't love me, I'm partly glad he left me. I don't want to keep people who don't appreciate me. I want to be surrounded by love, happiness, good feelings. I don't want a person I want to suffer for being with me. I'm always sad, but I try to be mature. I was hoping to reunite with someone. It is a fact. I have decided that if it is written to us, it will happen, but if it is not written to us, there is no way. That is why I avoid deep thinking about a possible reunion. I understand it's hard for you, but I don't think there's anything you can do. Just believe that separation was the right decision and you don't need to be with someone who doesn't love you anymore. It's not a real loss, it's more like a release. I will never understand the reasons and I will be left with a bunch of questions. If a person doesn't love me, I'm partly glad he left me. I don't want to keep people who don't appreciate me. I want to be surrounded by love, happiness, good feelings. I don't want a person I want to suffer for being with me. I'm always sad, but I try to be mature. I was hoping to reunite with someone. It is a fact. I have decided that if it is written to us, it will happen, but if it is not written to us, there is no way. That is why I avoid deep thinking about a possible reunion. I understand it's hard for you, but I don't think there's anything you can do. Just believe that separation was the right decision and you don't need to be with someone who doesn't love you anymore. It's not a real loss, it's more like a release. that he left me. I don't want to keep people who don't appreciate me. I want to be surrounded by love, happiness, good feelings. I don't want a person I want to suffer for being with me. I'm always sad, but I try to be mature. I was hoping to reunite with someone. It is a fact. I have decided that if it is written to us, it will happen, but if it is not written to us, there is no way. That is why I avoid deep thinking about a possible reunion. I understand it's hard for you, but I don't think there's anything you can do. Just believe that separation was the right decision and you don't need to be with someone who doesn't love you anymore. It's not a real loss, it's more like a release. that he left me. I don't want to keep people who don't appreciate me. I want to be surrounded by love, happiness, good feelings. I don't want a person I want to suffer for being with me. I'm always sad, but I try to be mature. I was hoping to reunite with someone. It is a fact. I have decided that if it is written to us, it will happen, but if it is not written to us, there is no way. That is why I avoid deep thinking about a possible reunion. I understand it's hard for you, but I don't think there's anything you can do. Just believe that separation was the right decision and you don't need to be with someone who doesn't love you anymore. It's not a real loss, it's more like a release. but I'm trying to be mature. I was hoping to reunite with someone. It is a fact. I have decided that if it is written to us, it will happen, but if it is not written to us, there is no way. That is why I avoid deep thinking about a possible reunion. I understand it's hard for you, but I don't think there's anything you can do. Just believe that separation was the right decision and you don't need to be with someone who doesn't love you anymore. It's not a real loss, it's more like a release. but I'm trying to be mature. I was hoping to reunite with someone. It is a fact. I have decided that if it is written to us, it will happen, but if it is not written to us, there is no way. That is why I avoid deep thinking about a possible reunion. I understand it's hard for you, but I don't think there's anything you can do. Just believe that separation was the right decision and you don't need to be with someone who doesn't love you anymore. It's not a real loss, it's more like a release.

   I personally accept that the person against me no longer has feelings once he has decided to break up with me, so I wish him all the best and move on.

   Well, why prolong the agony. I personally have respect for people who are direct - I don't hate anything more insidious in my life. To put it bluntly, I don't mean a simpleton or a simpleton who doesn't care about the feelings of the other person. I understand it as a tactful but firm refusal. I may be wrong - I'm not arguing, I've always preferred to be aware of myself.

   I talk until I understand the specific reason, what exactly she feels, why so suddenly. Then I analyze for myself what I did wrong and what to change in the future. This makes it easier for me to move forward. I try not to postpone the conversation, specifically about the reason and not to change her decision, because if I don't know what, why it went wrong, some guesses, wrong thoughts, fantasies about the reasons that affect me badly and everything goes down, emotions start. , work, next link ... Wrong, fictitious information leads to wrong lessons and is not useful.

   If an airplane pilot tells you, "I don't know how to handle these buttons on the console at all," how does that sound to you? Learn your feelings. It's your responsibility. She told you she didn't love you. What gathering are you talking about? She is honest with you and you want to deceive yourself that it is possible to get together? .... don't waste your time

   If you do not move forward, your pain and bitterness will never pass. Give yourself some time to suffer and rethink the situation, but don't get stuck there. Go out in nature, go away for a few days, change the situation and then a new person returns. For you, the desire for separation may be surprising, but for her it is not. This is a deliberate move and since she has not given you any explanation for her decision, there is nothing to think about and clarify. Just accept her typically feminine act as a man and move on. Believe me, you don't have to know the real reason for the separation.