I am afraid to go to the doctor, I am afraid to share with my relatives. The truth is, I smoke, I drink, my voice is hoarse. It's hard for me to swallow. Very irresponsible on my part! Don't go to the doctor until now! I noticed that for a year my tongue was yellow and coated, sores appeared on the corners of my lips, cars, blackheads on my teeth. I jokingly asked an ENT friend (Ear-nose-throat), mentioning that it was an acquaintance, and he said quite jokingly and slightly carelessly that my acquaintance had laryngitis and was paranoid. However, my ears also hurt, not just when I swallow. I'm afraid it's either cancer of the mouth, or of the throat, or of the tongue. For the latter, I know that it is almost incurable, especially if it is in an advanced stage, and it developed too quickly. It seems to be in an advanced stage for me, because I also got pimples. But I smoke it wrong! Cigarette salivation, and so on. An acquaintance died on the 21st. I'm 23, I haven't seen anything in my life yet, I haven't even finished my studies! It's my own fault! And I deserve reproach, because even after the doubts arose, I did not break my bad habits. Yes, I went to the doctor. But I'm furry! People, I'm very scared. What to do? I act like a puzzle, I know. And whoever does what he can, no one else can. From fucking simplicity! I don't even think about my relatives. Insult me! But people, I want to live. What would you advise me? It's urgent. Please post my story, because I haven't been on my own for a few days, I'm looking at pictures of cancer patients, and one to one! Even shadows appeared under my eyes, I got a sick look. And I haven't had sex yet, but that's another matter! ... Don't spare me the truth. Are there people who have survived this disease, and at what stage? ... Thanks in advance to both those who will write and the moderators. I fully accept statements such as: "Why haven't you gone to the doctor yet, what have you been waiting for", "Don't write here, but go for tests", because I caused it out of stupidity and selfishness!
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From the author: Please move the story to the first page, I see that there is no readability, and I urgently need advice. Otherwise I would not turn to an anonymous site. This is a very serious problem. And honestly, I don't understand this way of looking at history - 25 times - and not writing. It's a little confusing, but it's because I'm stressed myself. I will be very grateful.
Girl, I don't have time to write in detail, but in general people don't write because they don't know. I don't know either, but I will share my experience. First, find out on the internet how languages are recognized by language. Coated language is a sign of many internal problems. Which of all, I can not say. But the first thing I can give as advice and gurgling. Yes, with oil or olive oil, and if it's unpleasant, just with water first. However, the gurgling with fat absorbs this deposit, which in my opinion is rather contaminated lymph. Then for swallowing. Start exercises on the ground, such as yoga. Bending the body or swinging on the back. If there is a lever near you, go hang for a while. It can be a simple pressure in the neck area or below. Yes, go to the doctor, they will calm you down there. In my opinion, there is no reason to panic. It can also be a problem with the ears. Is there a trinity, as this nerve was called, it can cause ear pain if it is inflamed. Go to the doctor.
And what exactly do you expect? Someone tell you what's wrong with you? Isn't it better for a doctor to do that? You can write in puls. bg. In my opinion, if it was cancer, it wouldn't drag on for a year, it's probably a chronic infection, you need to boost your immunity. And stress depresses him.
In fact, they are afraid of death, not of diagnosis. Accept that we are all in this world for a very short time and we will be reborn again. And go to the doctor! Sooner or later everyone dies from something, most often cancer nowadays. But you are a young man, if it was cancer by now you would have moved to the afterlife. Blackheads on the teeth are tartar, most likely. The pimples may be due to an improper lifestyle, incl. nutrition. The coating tongue is a fungus or inflammatory process. Well, it's very clear that if you don't get treated, it can all degenerate into cancer. Suppose you have cancer, and suppose you are not being treated - then you will leave anyway. But at least you will know how to make the most of your remaining days. And so - you know nothing, you live in constant stress and this is no life.
go to the doctor as long as you grumble and fret for no reason, in the 21st century we are for god, I have no words for the carelessness and carelessness of today's youth ...