Cheers! A desperate girl of 27 writes to you. I hope you can help me at least a little. I have a friend, his name is I. - we have been together for 6 years. We have been living together for almost 3 years, but lately we don't understand each other much. We used to fight so seriously once every 2-3 months, but now the quarrels have become more frequent and the work has become serious - it got to the point that he told me if I want to judge and leave his apartment - where we live alone. The main problem, in my opinion, is actually sexual. In my opinion, we are talking about the exchanged roles of man and woman, ie. I have a lot of masculine features, and he has feminine gestures, thinking, as a child he communicated with many women - his mother, his sister, his sister's friends - he liked to watch their pantyhose, etc., how they put on make-up, make hairstyles etc. Now that he's older, these things turn him on, and I was more in male company - my father, my brother and his friends. Unfortunately - I could not find my femininity until now, to find it and arouse it in front of him as every man wants to be excited and happy with the woman he loves ... It is difficult to write about it, but it should be ... The most interesting thing is that we both love each other a lot, but I work late and I can't take care of myself as a woman and a woman - a beauty and a model, I jump in my jeans in the morning and come on, without thinking that I kill the woman in me and my love and I can be left completely alone ...: (But there is something else - he has problems with the waist - he has an operation - a herniated disc - he has chronic pain, it is difficult to get aroused and it is difficult to keep his erection. has found and says and I know that it is so that he needs a very strong stimulant, ie a very weak, graceful and elegant woman, and I'm not very close to these qualities and vision, and I'm a male type of girl and always with pants - only occasionally with a skirt, it ruins him, and I realized it only now ... He wants from me a root and immediate change - but for me this is difficult ... He is my first husband, and I am not his first. But I have no experience and I can't give him enough to get aroused, and he only arouses me when he screams and sees the man in him - I want to see that beast that wants to possess me and tear me apart with pleasure I don't like sado -mazo - I don't like violence at all - he is very tender and loving ... I love him I want to make him happy, but somehow I don't feel like being a temptress, how can I achieve it ? and I realized it only now ... He wants a radical and immediate change from me - but it is difficult for me ... He is my first husband, and I am not his first. But I have no experience and I can't give him enough to get aroused, and he only arouses me when he screams and sees the man in him - I want to see that beast that wants to possess me and tear me apart with pleasure I don't like sado -mazo - I don't like violence at all - he is very tender and loving ... I love him I want to make him happy, but somehow I don't feel like being a temptress, how can I achieve it ?? and I realized it only now ... He wants a radical and immediate change from me - but it is difficult for me ... He is my first husband, and I am not his first. But I have no experience and I can't give him enough to get aroused, and he only arouses me when he screams and sees the man in him - I want to see that beast that wants to possess me and tear me apart with pleasure I don't like sado -mazo - I don't like violence at all - he is very tender and loving ... I love him I want to make him happy, but somehow I don't feel like being a temptress, how can I achieve it ??
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It's just not for you, just because it's your road doesn't mean it will be your only one, despite your love for it!
Hi, I want to point out that I'm not your age and hardly in your right mind, but I think it would be nice to tell him what you think, and the final decision is to have a compromise on both sides, and not just him to accept you whatever you are or vice versa. So if I were you, I would gradually become more elegant, because I am also a sports guy with tied hair and jeans, but a nice body, and when I started to talk and pay attention, our relationship became much better, and he, in turn, can help by giving more of his masculinity to your relationship. Everyone should gradually start giving little by little, if you love each other a lot, because compromises have to be made, but at the same time keep a small part of what you are used to - jeans and his femininity, but let the aspiration prevail and the good result which is not abrupt but gradual (because it will be more interesting) to change. This is my advice!
Girl, unfortunately you came across a fagot. These with back problems are ala-bala job. A real man can or can't do it. And when he can't look for other culprits. The shoddy member is also bothered by the wave - an old truth. Believe me - I had the same case and it made me inferior. She found a real man and I fell in love again. I guarantee you that you will feel the difference from the first time!
I had an acquaintance who, however, wanted women to fuck him (he has various tools) .. he did not want a man, He put a bra on his boyfriend .. he also wore thongs, you can see for yourself that this is not because of his weakness or because he grew up with his mother and sisters. And for other examples, I know of my friends who have come across such people ... just get away from it, and there will be no change. And I think you feel more sorry for him .. really try another man, good luck, I hope you listen to us :)
You seem to be quite contradictory! Do you know what you want?
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The girl loves him for 6 years they lived, you ruined her straight. But on the other hand, I will tell you one thing. If you make a lot of attempts and start closing down, it is yourself as a result. Draw the line. If I am a person who never abandons, but tries to fix things to the end (50% of the time I sow), then really, if you despair, there is no way out.
Honey, men are not over :) Find a man who is more masculine than you and sex with him will give you more pleasure and everything else will be different. That's what I think, I may be wrong :) Good luck.
Try rubbing his prostate, with a finger in the anus so there is no way not to end even with a soft penis, then you can buy a dildo if he likes, and for you a clitoris stimulator to the dildo.