I've read a lot here now and I've heard from my friends about these "swing" performances. Exchange of partners, etc. From my point of view, I would not imagine sharing my girlfriend with someone else or giving her the freedom to fuck with whomever she wants. In my opinion, this is disgusting, and if there is love between two people - there is no room for a third. My friend, with whom I have been with for several months, has always told me that I am more than enough, but I am still afraid that she will not come up with this idea. I would not tolerate sharing it with others. What do you think about this issue? Would you do something like that with your partner?
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Well, the same topic is a few lines below. Couldn't you join there, but everything has to be rewritten.
If your girlfriend really wants something like that and you don't, then you have a significant difference in character and maybe you're not for each other. If I had a boyfriend who wanted such things, I would first talk to her and tell her that I am not a fan of such performances. If he continues to ask, I will be even clearer, and if he still doesn't understand, I will drop it. Otherwise, there are other ways to diversify your sex life, such as entering roles, weirder poses and interesting places.
absolutely not
Hello! I also think, like you, that when there is love between two people, the third, fourth, fifth, etc. have no place there. Perhaps, for couples with "many years of experience" in whom the diversity of sexual intercourse has already been exhausted, such an alternative could be considered. Although even then I still don't understand them. Are you sure your girlfriend wants something like that? Maybe he never asked for it, and these are your assumptions, unfounded fears? Or might he seemingly agree to do something like this for you, if you've ever talked about it and she's left with the belief that you want it? Speak up! Communication between people is something very important, but I'm not talking about chat on Skype or Facebook. I mean face-to-face conversation. People forgot how to communicate with each other because of the damn social networks, which shook the brains and notions of love of adolescents. Be honest with her, say your fears, justify yourself. Then both you and she will be calmer. Otherwise I do not condemn anyone. There are people who say that "group sex" is a new peak in communication between them. Well, I don't think so. However, this type of sexual desire and practice belong to the group of paraphilias. But everyone is free to do whatever they want. You know - when two people want the same thing and no one feels humiliated or harmed in sex, then there is nothing perverted or forbidden. However, this type of sexual desire and practice belong to the group of paraphilias. But everyone is free to do whatever they want. You know - when two people want the same thing and no one feels humiliated or harmed in sex, then there is nothing perverted or forbidden. However, this type of sexual desire and practice belong to the group of paraphilias. But everyone is free to do whatever they want. You know - when two people want the same thing and no one feels humiliated or harmed in sex, then there is nothing perverted or forbidden.
I support 1 - what is the point of repeating the same topics 100 times ???
1 life is lived and must be tried. It's not about love. I have a wife too and I love her but this is another kind of diversity in our sex life. I can even say with my hand on my heart that when I see her being fucked in front of me, I get really aroused already. The first time there was some jealousy at this sight, but in time one relaxes. My advice - try it! And for the woman it is a great feeling to take 2 members in a so-called sandwich!
We have been practicing it for years. It's great!
Anyone who hasn't tried it hasn't seen the fun of it.
Don't worry, most swingers are usually over 45 years old ... You may want it then, but it's not very common with younger ones.
This is for people who don't care much about their partner. Something like open connections. Who enjoys it, but others like monogamy more. Trusting someone is one of the most valuable feelings that give life satisfaction.
About 6, this is the fault of the moderators who approve the topics, but with so many topics that come in different sections, it is normal to do so, and it is not easy for them.
You have nothing to worry about if she hasn't hinted to you that she has such desires. Maybe everyone has some more relaxed thoughts and fantasies in their mind, but it is clear that these fantasies are just fantasies and very rarely does anyone dare to realize them, and most people do not even want to realize them. Some people like it, others don't. In any case, the so-called "swing" has not yet reached its peak, and it cannot be said that every second person practices it, so there is no point in worrying. And your girlfriend told you that you were enough for her - believe her, you have to trust her!
№ 11, it is not true that we do not care about our wives, on the contrary we are understood enough as men to know that it is also interesting for a woman to change her partner and do it with another man. It's just that with us this disgusting and disgusting feeling of "jealousy" does not exist! Swing is a very pleasant experience and very exciting!
Look, people, my partner and I also like and do such things, but the feelings have not moved a millimeter back, on the contrary, they have become even warmer. Trust in such relationships is very important, and with us it is great. I won my wife as a friend, which is very important to me! Many men are deluded that their wives share everything, but they are very wrong. Many of them suppress their desires and emotions so as not to lose the person next to them. In every woman there is a slut that many men dream about and do not realize that they go to bed at night. The problem in most couples is the communication from there come all the doubts and problems in a relationship. Do you people realize that most of us have hidden fantasies about our halves that will die in your country, and can you imagine what they (your halves) have. Think about it and take the first step. When your partner becomes a friend, then you will feel the beauty of your relationship. TO SPECIFY ABOUT FRIENDSHIP IN A RELATIONSHIP, it is the basis of it itself, love. I do not want to provoke or offend anyone with anything, I will be happy if I have been useful to someone here. 450
At first I was naughty as a man to share my wife with other people, but then I experienced great pleasure and orgasms from the fact that I fucked another woman and watched my 4uka another man in front of my eyes. There is no stronger feeling and pleasure than SWING. PS The people who fall in love with SWING are not only over 45 years old, but there are many between 30-35 years old.
The swing is not from yesterday and will last until the end of the world. There is no reason for all people to be the same. Everyone is different, some things to hear about it, others change their view over time, others can not do without it - different people, different views.
Swing is definitely not for everyone, it is especially contraindicated for the jealous. The claim that those who practice do not care about their halves is far from the truth. Swing is practiced by couples who are aware of themselves and have iron communication. It is communication that brings the two partners closer and launches the relationship into another dimension. It is difficult to explain to those who have not experienced it. Think about whether there are taboo topics between you and your partner? If so, then your communication is not complete and unconditional. Number 16 explained it very well. When trust in a relationship is inexhaustible, there is nothing taboo, let alone sex with other people. My wife has full confidence in me and does not hesitate to tell me what, who or how has tickled her interest. I can do the same with her without worrying, that she would be jealous of me or that she would be hurt. We realize that we are people who live a life and there is nothing forbidden between us. Strange as it may sound to some, such trust, understanding and communication have made us closer and more in love than ever. This will sound crazy to most of you again, but I scratch my ego a hell of a lot when my wife was with another man and she came to me. She is beautiful, as a person and appearance, and has the opportunity to be with whomever a man wants, but in the end she chose me. Tell me how not to raise my self-esteem from this fact. When my wife started sharing things with me that she would not say even to her closest friend, then it became clear to me that our relationship is on a much higher and higher level.
Hello, I am a girl of 15 and I soon realized that my parents practice it too. They don't know I know. I'm ashamed of them, I hate them. I don't want to live with them anymore, what can I do? And don't explain to me that your life is theirs, if you find out about your parents, will you accept it?
Number 11, you're not right at all. Swing requires much more trust between the partners. And just as you allow your partner to enjoy something different and very invigorating means that you care a lot about him and you want to enjoy everything in life. I am 32, my husband is 36, we have been having sex with other people for several years and I can say that this brought a lot of positive emotions and refreshed our marriage. As soon as I married him, I told him that I was not a woman for a man when it came to sex. Of course, I don't have a problem with him fucking other women, but only when we are together it was 3 or 4. And doing it with a complete stranger to my husband was the most exciting thing that ever happened to me :)
Number 20, Can you explain to me how the fact that your parents practice swing makes them bad parents? Don't they care about you, do they love you less? Would she feel better if they were divorced? Think with your head and you will realize that swing does not make them bad people. Couples who practice have strong communication and great trust all of a sudden. In my opinion, you should be grateful that your parents are a stable couple, and not fuss about who you sleep with. You are 15 and old enough to talk to them openly about it. My advice is to ask them openly, talk to them and you will see that things are not as black as you think. Good luck.
20 - If your parents were beaver parents ... What of it? It gives them pleasure, and the only one hurt in this situation is an ungrateful child who doesn't even know why he's crying. But if your mother and brother-in-law told you that sex is only between two same people for life, but only after the wedding, then they are a gang of fucking hypocrites and they deserve hatred.
Number 22, since I found out about my parents, I've read a lot of articles on the Internet about it and I'm getting more and more disgusted with them. How can I accept that they have such a perverted consciousness and are able to have sex with other people and look at each other during this time ... But this is disgusting! I can't look either of them in the eye since I found out, my mother saw that I had something and was worried about me, and I had something to say to her, for example, "I understood that you fuck other men while my father looks at you", this is it I will also share how I found out - I read my mother's Facebook chat with the woman from the other couple. At first I thought she was a friend of hers, but as I continued to read my reading hung ... How to live with these perverted people? I'm not saying they don't love me or anything, but the very fact that they practice something so dirty and perverted makes me loathe them. From number 20
Ahhh, without those numbers darling. People have raised and educated you, what they do with the little part of their life left free from you is not your job. There is only one rule in sex and that is that everything in it is normal as long as those who do it are adults and agree with it.