I don't know how to start. I will tell you a little background about me and the fate of my family. In 2009 my father died of cancer. It ruined my whole family. Then I was 11 years old, my brother was 8 years old and my mother was 31 years old. The incident taught us to be one who can cope with a lot of difficulties and problems. We have just recovered and in January 2010 my mother's father died. This was another pinch of salt in our unhealed wounds. We gradually recovered. It was time to apply I was already in 7th to 8th grade when I was accepted to study English economics in my city. Exactly on September 3, 2011. 12 days before school, my mother had a serious accident thanks to a very good "girlfriend". From there she lay for 2 months in hospital with broken right limbs. Anyway she came home from the hospital and was at home for 2 months in bed and I looked at her almost alone. I am very grateful to God that she is alive and well. After he recovered and became a qualified driver, we bought an ordinary small car adapted to Bulgarian roads and urban conditions. We used it for almost 2 years, but it turned out at one point that it needs repair, which breaks a lot of money and there is still no guarantee that it will happen. Not only the daily problems I face constantly suffice me and now this too. It turns out that now there is a relative of ours who can find us a tolerable car at a good price, but it's as if I'm not ready to part with it and I can't understand it. As the head of the family, I am already in a vicious circle at the moment. Will the new car be so good and nice. I am very sensitive and I also have nerve problems for many understandable reasons. This news about the car makes me cry to wander and what to do. PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE !!!
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Do you need a car so much? In this situation, you are in, I don't see the logic of even crying for a car ...
I have also fallen into a similar hole. I read a book that changed my life - mentally and materially. If you read it, keep in mind that some pages are full of nonsense, especially the first ten, but there are some things that made me rethink my life, everything turned for the better for a moment. The book is not about religion, don't be fooled by the title. It is not about positive thinking. "Christ speaks" - it is in the spiral.net.
Moderators, I just recommended a book that helped me in the same situation. I don't understand what I wrote so obscenely that you wouldn't approve of my comment. I'm sorry, but I can't take that anymore. Sometimes super malicious comments are approved, and now, when it can be really useful, you don't approve. If you find this advice stupid, it can be very helpful. I sincerely hope it's a technical or human mistake, not a bias, because if it's the latter, it doesn't speak well for you. I didn't want to write in that tone, but I'm really outraged.
A very smart man once said to a young woman, "Honey, I'm older than you and I have more experience. Remember, never cry for something that can't cry for you!" This is also my advice, the car is just a thing, never get upset and don't cry for a thing, it's not worth it! More importantly, your mother is fine and you're fine, and the car ... you live without a car. Ours never had a car, I bought my first car ... at the age of 30! And let me tell you, we survived again! So never put something so insignificant on your heart. Not worth it! Give more serenity and enjoy life, because you have seen for yourself how easy it is for something bad to happen and how fragile life is, so let us rejoice in it and appreciate it!
Thank you very much for the beautiful comments!
№ 4 blah-blah !!! Apparently you are one of the people who do not invest a single lev in its appearance - it is dirty, with rust, there are leaves inside. The car is much more than a thing and if someone does something to mine, it will eat a lot (which happened once). And I hope you never come before my eyes !!!
Dude, thank you, from a very young age you started to be responsible for the family. and others will come, etc. This is life, we just don't have to stop fighting and learn to see and appreciate the little beauties in our daily lives. Good luck!
Number 6, first I'm a girl, not a dude and second I love my car, but I'm not a maniac! However, there are more important things in the world, such as my family. But if for you the car is more important than your loved ones ... it's your problem! Live happily with her! And the fact that he was going to beat me made me spasm of laughter! Have a nice day and look at life more cheerfully!