Hello! I want to complain and ask for advice on what to do with the colleague we are in the same room with. First a few words about her - it's a very rural stick, with hellishly arrogant behavior. He dresses like a whore, looks down on everyone and listens to chalga in the office. During one move we were put in a room and I started to annoy her at the very beginning. There are only the two of us in the room and she doesn't comply at all and plays all kinds of pop-folk hits, talks on the phone, puts her feet on the desk and looks at me as if I'm some kind of fossil. The relationship did not develop well, I asked her several times not to play this music and it seemed to me that she would play whatever she wanted. I started to hate her. At the same time, I think it's normal for everyone, I look in jobs.bg for example for some interesting offers, and I talk to friends in the chat who is looking for what, is there anything interesting, etc. One day my phone rang and I went out to talk. The nasty villain went to my computer and after about an hour I received by e-mail a full copy-paste of my conversations in the chat and a picture on the screen with an open position from jobs.bg. I was told that if I kept pretending to be open, the boss would find out and fire me. Since then - about a month ago - this nasty peasant woman has literally started making fun of me. Ivana thunders in the room, makes me make her coffee, looks at me like I'm some kind of garbage. He just does absolutely anything to humiliate me. She puts her feet on the desk, which is L-shaped, so her dirty nasty, disgusting soles are next to my keyboard, literally in front of my face, which is very nasty and humiliating. Of course, when someone comes and takes them off. At first I decided to pardon her, I tried to be kind, not to argue with her, but she just knows no bounds. I don't know what to do - I'm tired of being commanded by a peasant woman, burying her soles in my face, making me make her coffee and the like. He has a huge vulgar self-confidence. You know what the labor market is, and to be honest, I'm happy with my job. What should I do, should I fuck her, should I leave, should I become harder
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Everything just without leaving.
God! If all this is true, then just return the same. Take a picture, write down some compromising material and blackmail her in the same way.
DRAW THE FUCK BUT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE! There is no other way! Iveto;)
You deserve it, honestly! Man, I got very angry with you as I read this. How the hell do you let such a creature command you?!? Do you realize how pathetic you look on the sides? If I were you, I'd talk to my boss first. Explain to him everything that happened, but don't miss the jobs or the chats. If he's a dude on the spot - he'll understand you, as he said - everyone is looking for something better, and it's very clear to their bosses that they don't work all day. If not - think about it, does it make sense to continue in this company. Whatever happens after the conversation - the next thing: grab your colleague's head and drive it into the wall (figuratively speaking). Never let yourself be in such a situation again, me!
You serious? Play WASP, "Babylon Burns" - a scary song. Say fuck your mother, there is no decent boss to fire you for such a thing, provided you do your job well. If he fires you, then it's not worth staying. If you're dirty enough and tidy up a few tricks. But honestly, I don't believe a word of this story. Grandpa Torbalan
You are very right and I sincerely sympathize with you, such behavior would also throw me off balance. if the company is big to its direct manager. Not to immerse it, but just argue well with the fact that such behavior is disgraceful not only for her but for the company as a whole, that its behavior irritates you and therefore interferes with your work. Last but not least, remember that her actions arouse in you disgust for your workplace and you have even seriously considered the option of looking for another job, but since you have always liked your work in this company, you decided that this is too hasty a decision and so you decided to discuss it with the management with the hope of understanding on their part. In this way you close the mouth of the peasant in question and even she to use a "goat" against you will be spent alone, because the management will inform her that she was to blame for your decision to look for another job. I think this is an intelligent way without rudeness or flattery to solve your problem and give it you close your mouth. I wish you success !!! I think this is an intelligent way without rudeness or flattery to solve your problem and shut her mouth. I wish you success !!! I think this is an intelligent way without rudeness or flattery to solve your problem and shut her mouth. I wish you success !!!
I think try one last conversation with her and if not, leave. You can't be a foot mat on some chalga rag, have a little self-esteem !!!
As she treats you, so you treat her! It's true that revenge is not the best alternative, but it's obviously hard for you to work like that. Why don't you talk to your boss and drown her instead of bothering her like that? Isn't it possible that you're not in the same room? You're a man. Put her where she belongs when she's so cheeky :) Meg *
What !? You allow an animal to humiliate you !? Well, no! Take action, talk to the boss!
In my opinion, you should fuck the whore and show her who the man is (she was also a gypsy) (I really want to fuck a gypsy)) !!!
Hah, Grandpa Torbalan seemed to be in the top ten. There really is no normal boss to fire an employee for looking at jobs.bg. At least I wouldn't do it, I would rather think about why my man wants to run away. Otherwise, the story doesn't seem real to me either. But
As soon as he pushes his legs in your face and grabs them tightly and pushes them ... whatever happens :)
Well, if she's not higher in the hierarchy, she's straight, and she's a mother, and if she's cool, if she's cool, she can do it too ... why are you napping, keep up!
I can't understand anything else. With her overall behavior (chalga, coffee, legs on the desk, etc.), didn't this colleague provoke remarks and warnings from someone higher than you, an employee of the company? Has no one heard this chalga, has no one seen how it stands ?? Because for a serious company, its behavior is much more unacceptable than the fact that you browsed sites and chatted in the office. The bully should be her, not you. And in the end, "a dog that barks doesn't bite" - it's unlikely to use these ... um, compromising materials against you. It's just convenient to blackmail you. Download a louder one and tell her to do what she wants and ignore her. You try to do your job properly and you have nothing to fear. Holly
Lock your computer when you go out so that they don't peek into it, and this applies in principle, not just to the specific case. Play music on your headphones and show that you don't care at all ... you annoy her too, but do it with the class :)))
Is MEG my friend .... So what "WOMEN" are we talking about? Will you deny "their behavior" again? And my words "FEMALE"? In the end you will agree and you will come to mine ....... One day when you get home .... I think you will fully understand me Examples, examples, do you still want, isn't it enough for you ... I hope your future ??? as well as you do not face such garbage !!! That's what I told you.99% of women are like that. If you have a little valor, you should apologize to me .... I will still assure me of my right about these Fools ... and Empty-headed ...... females. greetings: Rosiros
Rossiros, aren't you tired ?! I will say it again! There are such women! I AM NOT A HATEFUL. I do not deny their behavior, I do not like them! As I said in another topic, I cannot judge and conclude for all women from such cases. How can I hate my own sex because of some geeks and shoots ?! How do you sound? You can't say "99% like that" Be a little optimistic! I do not believe and do not want to believe that only 1% of women are decent and are not "garbage" ... 1% !! ??? You believe in what you want, if you want to be misogynistic. I'm not. Meg *
Jobs shouldn't bother you. You read, so what. But if there is something compromising in the chat, written about the boss, it seems not a good idea for your problems with the colleague to reach him. If what you write is true, well. Sounds a little fictional to me.
I'm a MEG Rossiros. After you face the years like me and those without sorry women ... think of me. I've never done anything bad to anyone, I've kept my level - BUT ... and such filth has done me that you have a poor fantasy flock ... I can tell you until the morning. That's why I got along with men more. They always said: I love you whores ..... BUT I hate whore numbers. You will still meet k ... you in character. Such insidious creatures in their youth have made me cry more than once ... without guilt ... You will feel them on your back too. You are still very young. BYE
Rosiros, is it all up to you ??? I'm not small - I'm over 30. Why didn't anyone make me dirty and make me cry? Why do I think the problem is in you?
Sorry kodja .... HA-HA-HA You really haven't come across bad, damn, envious women. I mentioned that I won't be able to give examples all night. Isn't the problem in me ??? I don't think you read well ... it's no coincidence that I emphasized..I HAVE DIDN'T MAKE DIRTY OF ANY WOMAN / GIRL and I'm still to blame. APROPO: My friend read the comment and said, "Why don't you tell them something else and I'm a witness and I understand why women are angry with you" "Because you're sweet, too slow, the soul of the company and the men start having fun with you iii they forget their wives / boring"/."You are not to blame for that..I see in the forum that they don't believe you THEIR PROBLEM IS THEIR! " Greetings from Rosiros and Valros PP Valros I AM DEFINITELY THAT MY WIFE HAS NEVER GIVEN ME AN OCCASION. Men just like her and they are angry.
MEG, you're very hypocritical. I've never been as slimy, so I rarely like someone. I hope you don't make someone cry, but you're very arrogant. You don't insure yourself. Now I understand why you hid your age? WHICH man will like you? Don't search this site, are you looking for a man? Whatever you do, I watch the classes you write in, don't you have a place and someone to go out with? At your age, I had a 10-year-old child. What have you achieved in your life? that you took me to judge and scold me? Obviously you have no other entertainment ... PITY I did not go out of cinemas, theaters, restaurants..a great childhood, adolescence sea, mountains, good companies..praise you with something .. I am disappointed in you, as well as my husband. He deceived us at one point that you are different from the others. Yes, but no. And the funniest thing was reading a comment and then ....... FORGET TO WRITE ROSIROS.
Yeah, Rosiros, looking at the frequency of your comments, you don't really come out of ... cinemas, theaters, restaurants and ... movies! Come on, as long as you're already bragging - we all understand what your product is! And the fact that you get into constant arguments with a 19-year-old girl speaks volumes about how ... mature your wife is! Get to know at last that everyone has an opinion and you can't impose your own! Yes, they must have done dirt to you, but maybe it was because you're a hell of a person. Form without content. That is, a form to which you yourself try to give content, but it does not work! Grandpa Torbalan had said it very accurately - "Troll"! Come with health and start behaving adequately for your age and for all the positive qualities that you claim to be a carrier of! Holly, 35
:))) Thanks, Holly! Ray
ooooooooooo, RossiRos is very disliked, honestly. I'm a little naughty that I tell you so directly, but you deserve it. you know everything, you've seen everything, you've experienced everything and you're constantly flaunting your age. but you know, don't ask old man, and ask patilo. stop pretending to be very competent in all matters, and try to impose your opinion. I wish no one in you would pay attention to you and you look for it here. and besides everything else, you are terrible vicious. it doesn't suit you, the years. I'm disgusted with horror ...................................... .... simba, 27y.o.
I didn't want to say it directly either, but you're starting to get on my nerves too. Don't call me a hypocrite and stop attacking me, because it doesn't do you any honor! Don't tell me who will like me, but look at yourself, what a vicious bitch you are. You went to the forums to pick on and argue. Just because you've found a fool to put up with you for so many years, doesn't mean you're very dignified and perfect! Look real and stop scolding others! Don't tell me that you are disappointed, because the least I can tell you is that you don't know me at all. When you write, you can't draw conclusions about my social life. You seem to be a great fortune teller, huh? Do not worry about me. There's someone to go out with and have fun with, and I do! "boast with something" ?!?! Why should I do it. If you're on this site for this, I'm not! I didn't come to talk about myself, even less about your social life! I'm trying to help someone little by little! If I've been useful to someone, I'll be happy..if not..at least I've tried! I don't hide my age, but I don't flaunt them. I said I was 19 I will say now! Calm down a bit and don't talk without knowing ... don't tell me that you had a child at my age ... I haven't encountered anything ... well, yes, I still have to face many things! With so many years behind you, what have they taught you ?! To insult, to label and to brag ?! Don't tell me it's not, because a lot of people will support me! You may be convinced that your life is as perfect as yourself, but that won't really make it so! I don't know ... there's no point in arguing with you anymore ... a lost cause ... Meg * If I've been helpful to someone, I'll be happy..if not..at least I've tried! I don't hide my age, but I don't flaunt them. I said I was 19 I will say now! Calm down a bit and don't talk without knowing ... don't tell me that you had a child at my age ... I haven't encountered anything ... well, yes, I still have to face many things! With so many years behind you, what have they taught you ?! To insult, to label and to brag ?! Don't tell me it's not, because a lot of people will support me! You may be convinced that your life is as perfect as yourself, but that won't really make it so! I don't know ... there's no point in arguing with you anymore ... a lost cause ... Meg * If I've been helpful to someone, I'll be happy..if not..at least I've tried! I don't hide my age, but I don't flaunt them. I said I was 19 I will say now! Calm down a bit and don't talk without knowing ... don't tell me that you had a child at my age ... I haven't encountered anything ... well, yes, I still have to face many things! With so many years behind you, what have they taught you ?! To insult, to label and to brag ?! Don't tell me it's not, because a lot of people will support me! You may be convinced that your life is as perfect as yourself, but that won't really make it so! I don't know ... there's no point in arguing with you anymore ... a lost cause ... Meg * Calm down a bit and don't talk without knowing ... don't tell me that you had a child at my age ... I haven't encountered anything ... well, yes, I still have to face many things! With so many years behind you, what have they taught you ?! To insult, to label and to brag ?! Don't tell me it's not, because a lot of people will support me! You may be convinced that your life is as perfect as yourself, but that won't really make it so! I don't know ... there's no point in arguing with you anymore ... a lost cause ... Meg * Calm down a bit and don't talk without knowing ... don't tell me that you had a child at my age ... I haven't encountered anything ... well, yes, I still have to face many things! With so many years behind you, what have they taught you ?! To insult, to label and to brag ?! Don't tell me it's not, because a lot of people will support me! You may be convinced that your life is as perfect as yourself, but that won't really make it so! I don't know ... there's no point in arguing with you anymore ... a lost cause ... Meg * because many people will support me! You may be convinced that your life is as perfect as yourself, but that won't really make it so! I don't know ... there's no point in arguing with you anymore ... a lost cause ... Meg * because many people will support me! You may be convinced that your life is as perfect as yourself, but that won't really make it so! I don't know ... there's no point in arguing with you anymore ... a lost cause ... Meg *
Offff, horaaaa, stop! cinema. I am simple, neither cinema, nor restaurant, hey me! But they in cinema do not give movies with accurate and correct solutions to every problem. All happy families are alike, every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. -This is what Tolstoy said, and he is not anyone! / The principle is one, the private cases are innumerable./ So my thought was-We cannot look only from our own bell tower and measure other people's affairs with OUR ARSHIN.
Meg, look at 21 comments, the aunt thought you wrote it and her last comment is obviously aimed at him. Otherwise I really want to see both face to face :))) Ale
Holly, Meg are smart girls, and you feed the troll. I know how strong the desire to respond to an insult can be, but that's exactly what your Russian bull wants. For this type of parasite, it doesn't matter what attention they receive, whether approval or hatred. The only important thing is to pay attention to them, to see emotion as a result of your words and Meg, your bitterness was like heavenly manna. A contemptuous smile is the only thing worth giving him (the troll has no family). Grandpa Torbalan
I'm not a lost cause, Meg answered me yourself why you hide your years or forget, brag about something where you go, what you saw ... I've been in the mountains with my parents since I was 5 years old, they took me to back to all the peaks, cinemas, theater productions with the best and prominent actors who almost died N. Kokanova, K. Paskaleva, G. Parcalev, GEC, G. Vachkov, etc. There was no chalga, no nonsense, it rained with good and happy and most of all ....... CALM ... childhood. And you are for me and my friend SMALL THROAT. It shows in how he lost his temper as well as many others. Don't do that, YOU HAVE MUCH MORE TO LEARN FROM THIS LIFE. I had to defend myself. At your age, you have to be a shoemaker who doesn't want you after you're home at these hours and that's all you have fun with. I'm just watching SEIRA. P.P. AND WHY DO YOU THINK YOU KNOW ME?
hey vultures .. one starts and then you can't stop them .. The woman definitely has some deficits, I hope she can compensate them in an anonymous site .. BUT agree that at this age some mental disorders begin, people are taken seriously .. after another 10 years they forget 50% of their "speeches", but they don't give up and finally turn into some chattering old men - there is something charming about that. What are you burning .. and we will get to her position .. we may not be so vicious, but a clearer mind will not come to us over the years. behave with respect
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