Hello! I am 18 years old and I am a virgin. I have had a boyfriend for 3 months now and several times in a row, when we want to have sex and he penetrates only with his fingers, I feel incredible pain ... it's not a pampering, it's just really unbearable! What's even worse is that after the first attempt I got a terrible cystitis, and after the second I was so dizzy that I almost fainted. Let me clarify that he was not rude or careless. He respects the fact that I haven't slept with anyone so far and tries to predispose me as much as possible. Why do you think this happens !! I think it is not normal at all and I will see a gynecologist tomorrow. Thanks!
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Darling, it's best to go to a gynecologist, you may have a problem ... and it may be out of fear, you know ... I can't tell you anything more than that it's best to go to a specialist, because I am a virgin myself :)
Hey after the gynecologist write to tell what he told you :)
Hello and I am a virgin and I do not know what it feels like but I suggest you really go to the gynecologist and see what the doctor will tell you, if not, before you do it drink a lot and you will not feel pain - so hopefully :)
You hardly got cystitis from this exactly. I think you're too worried and shrunken. Relax, enjoy ... Don't keep your vagina tight. Have you never masturbated? Try it alone at home. That way you will relax more.
I'm a virgin but when I insert 1 finger it doesn't hurt and when I move it fast it doesn't hurt but when I try to insert 2 fingers it makes me terribly sick and I have the feeling that I will damage my body so I stop there ...