The story is as follows. I'm 18 years old and I've never had a problem with my voice ... or so I thought. I don't have many friends and I communicate regularly with relatives. Until recently, I thought I had no problem with the way I spoke, how I said things, how my voice sounded, and so on. But soon a friend and I went out to play basketball and he told me to take a picture with my phone of how many baskets he would score one after the other. There were also comments during the video and after watching the video I couldn't believe it sounded so idiotic and oligophrenic. Then I came back to us and made my own recordings to hear how it really sounded. Then I secretly recorded my parents to compare how they sound. They sounded just like on the record! That means I really sound awful, like an oligophrenic! I decided to avoid talking to anyone and focus on "fixing" my voice, but I didn't know what to do. No matter how many recordings I make, it always sounds like an oligophrenic. This is the right word - oligophrenic, slow-growing. The way I finish each sentence is awful, the pauses I take sound especially nasty. Can anyone tell me what to do Should I go to a speech therapist or something else? Thanks in advance! Boris
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Eee, dude, I also sound disgusting on the record, even lately my voice has mutated, but to an intermediate degree, but it won't fall yet, which makes it a super nasty teenage voice: X: X: X I even like it mocked for it ... I recommend you to put more intonation, sometimes it helps!
And I sound dumb on record .. Very dumb, but that's not a reason to stop communicating with others. 14-year-old girl;)
How naive you are, young man. Of course, in no case will your voice heard or recorded from the side sound the way you hear it yourself internally. When you speak, you hear not only through the air as others hear, but also through the bones and soft tissues of your skull. In short - what you hear is not what others hear. And what others hear, and what you heard on the recording, is "your true voice" for them. Don't worry - it's not oligophrenic, it just sounds unfamiliar. You will get used to it (like all of us) ... If you don't like something in the pronunciation and intonation, you can record, listen to the recording and correct yourself. However, there is almost nothing you can do with the timbre (except to catch a cold or hug ...). It is absolutely certain that everyone was very surprised when they heard their voice for the first time on the recording ... Ray
consult a doctor, he will tell you what to do, you are only 18, life is ahead of you and this should be fine because one day it will prevent you from many things in life.
to 4: instead of running to and fro for doctors, you better learn to think a little with your head (see №3). Doctors are just people like you, they make mistakes, sometimes they are even dumber than you (although - hardly, if you are ready to go to them for such a problem ...), not to mention that some people look at each other openly. how to suck your money. Stop thinking that someone else (doctors, psychologists, counselors, masters, fast food restaurants, paid women, etc.) will solve your problems!
Това ми напомня на приказката, дето Настрадин Ходжа тръгнал да води едно стадо магарета от едното село в другото: водил ги той и постоянно ги броил да не би да се загуби някое, че стопанинът им щял да му одере кожата иначе.. Обаче по едно време се уморил, качил се на едното магаре, взел пак да ги брои и... ги изкарал с едно по-малко! Ужасен скочил на земята, взел трескаво пак да ги брои и... ох, пак били колкото трябва. И така няколко пъти... Накрая като стигнал в другото село попитал Хитър Петър: "Абе, Петре, 7 ли са магаретата или 8? Като се кача на едното и започна да ги броя - излизат 7. Като сляза на земята и пак ги преброя - излизат 8!". Хитър Петър погледал, помислил, накрая започнал да се смее и му казал: "Ходжа, магаретата са 9, ама едното е с 2 крака!"
There is no one who likes the voice of a recording. This is a fact! And I can't stand listening to a recording. When I was little, I worked hard until I realized it was normal. So stop making nonsense. In time you will wonder how you could have bothered about such a thing. Obviously everyone has to go this way.
Just because you only now discover this defect in your voice (I don't even think it's a defect ...) doesn't mean it's something new for people who know you. They are used to perceiving you that way, to listening to you speak exactly like that, they accept that as part of yourself. And if you ask me, if you're so worried, you can talk to a speech therapist. But if you completely change your intonation, way of pronouncing, etc., then you will be more strange and unacceptable to those who know you than now ... Ilsey
I don't know about you, but what am I going to do .... I'm 14 when I speak, so live, I don't have problems with my voice, but really ... I've known for a long time about my voice problem, but I never found a solution .. here's how I found out about my voice >> some time ago me and a friend of mine, one day we were filming, that here is a crazy guy in our neighborhood ,, I'm filming, and he's talking to him ,, m I'm supposed to be a reporter, and my friend his son .. it was a big laugh .. but when we released the video after that mother ........... it really sounds very dumb .. in a position that the voices of the crazy and the friend are one and the same the same, both live and in the video .. not long after I forgot .. I spontaneously wrote a lyrics to a song, and I decided to record okay, and when I released the record after that, abe is not for talking, I'm only 14 d. if I don't break the rules, let's search on skype: ceci.ceci2 if you want to look for a solution together, figuratively speaking, our common problem Ceci ...
I am a vocal pedagogue. The opinion of number 3 is the most true.
Did you just find out now? Calm down, most people don't like their voices when they first hear them "from outside." I don't like mine either, but they tell me it's nice. I'd love to hear my husband's inner voice, but ... it can't happen. : ((
I am a girl of 14 and I really want to sing professionally. When I sing, it doesn't look bad. Then I make a recording on the phone or on video and my voice is awful .. I always ask my sister and my friends if my voice really sounds so awful and they say it has nothing to do (I don't trust my friends that much, but sister she is quite critical of me and I think that what I say is so, and not to deliberately tell me that my voice is not like that, just not to kill me) So my question is whether the device with which the recording is made can does not record well (because it is a phone or laptop) and whether, for example, in a recording studio my voice will be the same or better as heard live .. And can the problem be how I pronounce the sounds, for example not to be I open my mouth enough or I don't know .. I read the previous comments,