Hello, please advice, because I feel terribly confused and at a dead end. I am a woman from Sofia, 35 years old, married and with a small child, 3.5 years old. In my family everything is fine, we love each other, help each other and understand each other. Although I come from Sofia, we live in a dormitory and take care of our child on our own, without help from relatives. Our child is very much wanted and raised with a lot of love, but here is the problem. There is no nursery or garden for my child. We are still not ranked. I quit my job because there was no one to take care of the child. I worked as a salesman in a computer company. To this day, only my husband works, and costs are growing progressively. My stock market is over and now we only depend on my husband's income. I have been working for 18 years and I have never relied on anyone to support me and feed me. I feel disgusted and at a dead end. For the last three months I have applied for over 30 positions in jobs. jw.org en because I was hoping that this time the child would qualify for a place in at least one kindergarten in my damn hometown. To this day, no employer has wanted to invite me for an interview after it became clear that I was the mother of a 3-year-old child, despite the assurance that the child was attending kindergarten (our idea was to let her go private). The child is still not admitted to a kindergarten, and a private kindergarten will be too salty for us before I start work. I realize that I am not a first-time youth, nor super qualified, but this is pure discrimination! What to do, how to help my husband? I don't want to stand and cry in the corner anymore, I want to help and contribute to the family budget. I have the most wonderful husband in the world! He comes home rotten and as soon as he enters the house, he starts helping as much as he can. We have always been "side by side", we are together in everything, but the money is not enough, the prices are flying and that is a fact. Please advice what to do.
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Try to make money from your hobby or trade something online
No employer has ever asked me if I have a child or not.
I understand you very well, because I also experienced this with a small child, without admission to the nursery, and then a garden in the neighborhood. We forced ourselves and applied for a garden 15 km from our neighborhood, we left an hour earlier for the garden. She was going to get sick, every other week, for three weeks. My advice is to take a good look at the site with the places and see where you have a chance to receive. You can think of a better qualification (the most convenient profession for mothers with children is a teacher) or a job unskilled, in a grocery store, by the adults, I think they will take you and the plus is that you will be on shifts and if the child is sick , it can be easier to take turns with your husband to watch it. Do not write in cv that you have a child.
Unfortunately, our native employers are looking for someone at the age of 18 to decorate their office - my boss kicked out young boys and replaced them with girls 20 years younger than him ... it's like that everywhere, so we don't have a business, nor will we we have some real business environment. I'm also thinking of leaving work because I'm tired of the boss's lovers crushing me !!! M30
Whenever I apply for jobs on the Internet - I get to a begging stick! In this country, everything happens with my uncle and brother, not by ads.
Hello, I applied under the scheme Parents in Employment to DBT in Sofia. This way you will look for a professional job and you will have a babysitter at home for 18 months. Unemployed parents can also apply. The success scheme is open from 16. 09. 19.
Most employers avoid hiring mothers with such young children, because in reality the woman is absent most of the time on sick leave, while at the same time they have to pay part of the sick leave and insurance, and have to look for another person to replace her. Therefore, orient yourself temporarily to the civil service, there is always a shortage of people, and working hours are acceptable. The salary is low, but the work in most cases is not hard.