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Thank You

By unialfi October 03, 2020 5 answers Last updated October 03, 2020

No, I will not share any love story, nor will I talk about any problems. I just want to express my gratitude to the two most important people in every child's life. I'm 16, I'm still a child (yes, it's more correct to say a teenager, but I feel like a child). :) Outside the weather is gloomy, past it and my mood begins to deteriorate. I was told it was from puberty and that's why I'm in the mood (so to speak). Bad, but nothing - I will experience it somehow! :) I'm sitting in my room wondering what exactly is happening to me. I'm a little confused, it's weird, I have a thousand questions in my head, I'm 16 but I don't realize it or at least I don't want to grow up so fast. And suddenly I think of THEM! The two most important people in my life! Thanks to them, I am what I am. In most cases, only one of the parents (mother or father) is mentioned, but I owe my life to both. They created me with love and I am so grateful to them! Sometimes I wonder how difficult it is for them with a 16-year-old teenager. Like I said, my mood changes quickly and yes, I try to look positive, but sometimes it just doesn't work. I have problems like everyone else, but why does everyone think first about their problems and then about the small but valuable things they have in their lives And now a message to all parents on the site. We (your children) do not always express our feelings, but that does not mean that they do not exist! I want you to know that every child is really grateful to you for giving them life. Thank you for putting up with us! Thank you for forgiving us! Thank you for teaching us well and educating us! Thank you for taking on the difficult task of being a parent! Maria :)

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surp_rise answered · October 03, 2020

   Well done. I have nothing more to say :)

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TheG_Spot answered · October 03, 2020

   Maria, thank you on behalf of all parents and on my own behalf for the kind words and support! If only all children were (aware) like you ... I want to draw your attention to one thing that is often confused by most people, and is the cause of many dramas and tragedies: If you are really grateful to your parents, you like them as parents and you think that they have done well in their role, then do not feel obligated to them and do not look for ways to thank them literally TO THEM. Instead, "thank" your children by being as good a parent to them as your parents were to you. This is the logic of life: "surrender without returning." Of course, that doesn't mean you have to be an ungrateful daughter, or that you don't have to take care of your old parents, it just means not overplaying your gratitude. Stay a child as long as you feel like a child. Even when you grow up, try to keep in yourself the child's curiosity about the world and people, open and open-minded thinking, children's sincerity and straightforwardness. The problem is more with children who want to grow up too quickly, and in the name of that they make cruel compromises with themselves and their childhood. ... This with "positive thinking" does not always happen :) - it has been checked! So everything is fine. Ray and in the name of this they make cruel compromises with themselves and with their childhood. ... This with "positive thinking" does not always happen :) - it has been checked! So everything is fine. Ray and in the name of this they make cruel compromises with themselves and with their childhood. ... This with "positive thinking" does not always happen :) - it has been checked! So everything is fine. Ray

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Tannia answered · October 03, 2020

   Ehee great, we are very glad that you have such nice parents. Like you, I didn't tell them that I loved them (my mother, to be exact), but I definitely love her very much and I think she knows it. Now I am away from her by coincidence and I am crying, I am very sad for her. Congratulations on the good recognition.

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femmeflytrap answered · October 03, 2020

   In my opinion, this was written by a parent: D I am 99% sure! The psyche of 16-year-olds and their attitude towards their parents is definitely not like that in their teenage years! Unknown Girl 19 *

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webjem22 answered · October 03, 2020

   Number 4, thank you for considering me more mature than my years. This is a compliment to me! :) The truth, though, is that I'm 16 and yes, I think that way. Why should we always put everyone under one denominator? "The psyche of 16-year-olds and their attitude towards their parents is definitely not like that in their teenage years!" Well, I'm sorry, but I seem to be the exception to the rule. And I'm sure it's not just me! What if I'm 16? What if I'm a teenager? Why is it that when you say "teenager" you always mean the worse sides of teens? We are overflowing with energy and we have something to say! I don't think the fact that I'm 16 prevents me from thinking the way I think right now. Thanks to the others for the comments! :) Number 2, I will mean everything written by you. Maria :)