I've been working for a company for 1 month now and in the beginning things didn't go well, and every new beginning is difficult. I had a little friction with others until they got used to me, but over time things got better. Recently I have problems with my boss, who is "crooked" every morning and is always looking for a calf under the ox and looking for someone to get it. I have the feeling that he is a kind of nervous person and has a weak psyche after he calls me on the phone and makes insignificant remarks to me, he starts shouting and is nervous and almost wants a person to be his slave and to control him. He constantly commands me and almost gives me orders. One morning he shouted at my colleagues because I had confused courier shipments that were not for our address. I tried to keep my composure and told him they could come back. But he got even angrier and started yelling at me that I was a drummer, idiot, I worked irresponsibly. I don't think this is right, but I would like you to share your experience.
After all, everyone has some dignity and I can't let them talk to me like that, even if he's my boss. Once, twice you swallow and keep quiet, but if he does it again, I don't think my nerves will last and I will leave this company. A lot of work, a lot of demands for little money that's it. Share your experience and what I can do in this situation. After all, every time there is a first time, we must have more patience with each other, everyone has some nerves. you swallow twice and keep quiet, but if he does it again, I don't think my nerves will last and I will leave this company. A lot of work, a lot of demands for little money that's it. Share your experience and what I can do in this situation. After all, every time there is a first time, we must have more patience with each other, everyone has some nerves. you swallow twice and keep quiet, but if he does it again, I don't think my nerves will last and I will leave this company. A lot of work, a lot of demands for little money that's it. Share your experience and what I can do in this situation. After all, every time there is a first time, we must have more patience with each other, everyone has some nerves.
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For those words he said to you, there is an order under the Penal Code, with a private criminal case
I'm left with the impression that you didn't make a very good impression at first. And most likely the problem was in you. I don't know exactly what happened. But when I read these lines: "every morning he is" guilty "and he is always looking for a calf under the ox and looking for someone to get it from. I have the feeling that he is a nervous person and has a weak psyche after he calls me on the phone and makes me insignificant remarks, he starts shouting and getting nervous and almost wants a person to be his slave and to control him. "... I think you take things very deeply. He is like that and accepts him as such. There are also people whose mouths do not flow honey and butter and in no way means that you have exactly you in mind. He treats others the same way.
You better get out. my friend was the same, and in the end, when he went to give his application, even she had reached out to him why he was leaving. his mouth was broken and in the end we couldn't even judge him because there were no witnesses and the witnesses were afraid to talk so that the same thing wouldn't happen to them. get away and don't deal with such rubbish. away from them there is no point in dealing only with nerves
He scolds you for good reason. After all, you have made a mistake, you have acted irresponsibly, although it is a correctable mistake and you should not be angry. And when I fail, even for small things, I tolerate grumbling, not because I have no dignity, but because I am guilty and I have not done my job properly.
I agree with 4. You have to take responsibility for the mistakes and getting used to the subordinates is one of the ways to increase professional discipline. Do you prefer to be fired in a calm tone?
Insult him and you ... anal.
Whatever mistake he makes, his boss has no right to offend him. We do not live in the 18th century, where they do everything they want with their subordinates. Fuck him and he's looking for something else.
Number 4 and 5 Here is sheep behavior! People in Bulgaria have never learned to seek their rights, and even go so far as to accept that they are to blame for everything and that insulting and trampling you is normal and motivating. Number 1 said it well! If you behave like that from the beginning, don't expect any difference in years. No one has the right to humiliate, insult or curse you! Employers must finally learn that they depend on their employees and owe them respect.
Thank you for the answers, really and I don't think I belong there. I will be looking for another job during this time. I also consulted with relatives and they told me that this is not normal. Unfortunately, the Bulgarian is used to being trampled and insulted and to sit idly by. I don't know how long I will continue to fight, but if he insults me once more, I will leave this company ... and during that time I will look for another job. Otherwise, I get along very well with the other colleagues, we even established friendly relations.
Of course you're leaving, I'm sure you did it a long time ago
Some comments seem very strange to me here. Instead of supporting you, readers of the site criticize you. I think you need to tell your boss not to hold that tone and not to offend you, that you can judge him. Anyone can make a mistake and that is human. But constant insults are not tolerated, because you can get sick. Remember that psychologists soon found that one of the causes of cancer is an unforgivable insult. If you see that your boss is overdoing it, think about another job. And sooner or later he will get it. Everything comes back and there is retribution.