Hello, I am a 16-year-old girl and lately I am starting to notice how most of the girls around me, and the others (by no means I say all) are interested ONLY in the boy's appearance and nothing else! For example, a friend makes sure that all the boys have blond hair, blue eyes and tiles, if they meet these "criteria" then they are perfect! And for me the appearance is not in the first place (it is natural that I look good, after all I have eyes and I use them, but that's not all). I want the boy to be able to make me laugh when I'm sick, to calm me down with a hug and forget about everything else, to understand me and to respect my feelings and those of others, to be able to have fun and have a sense of humor. Be caring, HONEST, FAITHFUL and HONEST to love me as I am without wanting to change and just be around me, to share everything and be persistent, to go for walks and teach me to play video games, to skateboard and all sorts of things. In general, I just want to love each other, in the already "old-fashioned" way, without intrigue, lies, infidelity and betrayal, things that all teenagers are already facing. So my question is do I want too much or nowadays the number is important, not the feelings? I want to ask for some other boy's opinion on the issue - what do you think about the "ideal" boy in my opinion, would you go with a girl with such expectations? PS Thank you in advance and I hope the story (in fact I do not know what it is) to be approved by the editors, it is very important for me to hear other people's opinions on this topic !!!
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Hello, I have noticed that many of my acquaintances are "proud" of the number or appearance of the girl they "killed". Not whether they have feelings for each other, but whether there is money, whether there are muscles or a car. I personally think that it is not the appearance that is important, but the feelings and the mutual attraction. I'd rather talk about a topic that doesn't look like a model than go to someone who looks at me like a mineral while I'm trying to explain something to her. Decisive for me are the fun moments and mutual support in a relationship, not the appearance. Dax
Hello, a 15-year-old girl writes to you. And I will completely agree with your opinion, but unfortunately nowadays they rely more on the outside than on the inner feelings, but of course there are always exceptions, unfortunately decent girls and boys are disappearing. I, like all other people, first see the external beauty, yet from there comes the attraction, but then I try to understand what the character of this person is, whether he is honest or not, and so on. In general, there are indeed individuals of both sexes who are decent, but as I said, they are disappearing, but there are! That is why I will completely agree with you, author, and I hope that my opinion will be useful to you.
There are such boys, but in general the boys in Bulgaria are terrible (bastards, simpletons) at least those who play "video games" as you say: D -I am a boy