I am a 17-year-old girl. The thing is, the boys don't want to deal with me. That's why I thought for a long time that no one liked me, but recently I found out that several guys liked me seriously, but none of them told me about it. Now these guys are disappointed in me and really obviously don't want to have anything to do with me anymore, and I haven't done anything to them. The question is why don't they tell me they have an interest? Why do they expect me to read minds and take the first step alone, and for them to stand and wait for something to happen while sharing various statuses that hint that I am cold, etc. And this is not the biggest problem ... There's a boy we haven't seen in a long time, but we met last week and I realized I still like him even though it's been 2 years since we've been in a company, but he doesn't want to look at me, and I'm sure I didn't do anything to him, at least not on purpose for sure. I don't know why he behaves like that, I can't even ask him if he will pay me any attention at all. Has anything like this happened to you? What do you think is the problem and why is it happening? Post the story please, because it's important for me to know where I'm wrong.
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Hello, obviously the reason is that you keep cool and distant and do not allow in your personal space. Work on your problem.
17-year-old girl I was the same, but over time I relaxed and now (I'm not proud of that) I turn them 3-4 at a time. I mean, you need to be more sociable. Go out more, meet new people and so on. Good luck!!!
Now you are in their place! I want to ask you, do you like it that way? !! Going to the toilet squatting doesn't make you more important than the boys' feelings. Unfortunately, 90% of girls think so. When I listen to you, you have already realized and you know what it is about. do not be proud and respond with the same.
Number 3, I never wanted to make anyone feel bad for me, I just didn't know they liked me, and how do I know if they don't tell me? Maybe I did something that hurt them, but it wasn't intentional. Whatever happened is already past, the important thing now is what to do to fix things, at least with the guy I like, I want a second chance, but he doesn't pay attention to me ... -The author
I am in love with a woman aged 14-15. There is nothing I can do. She is already married and has a child and I see her regularly 1-2 times a week. I hated her. Sometimes we have to listen to our minds and not our hearts. If I continue to compliment her and sigh at her, at most let's go to bed together and from there what do we do? We ruin a family, the child suffers and a chamber of contemptuous looks. This is my example of what I would do. Unless we are meant to be together, there is always someone out there who will be happy to be with you. Show him you like him. If he doesn't understand from a hint, just ask him what his opinion is about you and the head up! Even if you get hurt by his answer, don't put it on. So it's not for you. Nothing happens by force.