I am currently in motherhood, monotonous daily life, care is not easy. Is it easier to grow? Constantly following him and trying not to get hit, my husband thinks it's easy? Does it get easier with time. I want one more, but looking at how difficult it is ..
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It's getting easier. It's hard only while you're in maternity. Will. pass.
I am also a mother. But we only want 1 child. That's what we decided before I gave birth. Our child fell for it very easily and meekly, but again the worries are worries ... I am a big ninja and I do not complain. As long as I fall asleep. In time it will really be easier. My mother repeats it every day. Courage!
From what you write, it sounds to me that you were not born to be a mother. Monotonous daily life and care, and you say nothing about the mother's joy and happiness that she has a beloved child. It is obvious that for you children are a burden. Do not give birth to a second child.
A woman is not born just to be a mother and thus to end her existence.
of course, it becomes easier :-) over time the child becomes more independent, at 1 point you just start to miss that he is not looking for you much :-) and with the second it is definitely easier, at least already you are a rattlesnake and you have experience, and the second always has the example of the first, tries to imitate him and constantly learns from him. abe fun :-) and on number 3 I will say that not all people like to drool and exalt themselves with words like "beloved child", etc. To me they sound extremely pretentious and unnatural, although I have 2 of them. sometimes people get more workload. and I don't see the author speaking negatively about her child, she's just tired
Calm down. It will become easier until puberty. Then you will dream about the time when you followed him and your child was in your arms.
And we wonder - why is the birth rate in Bulgaria falling? Bulgarian women simply do not want to have children.
Yeah ... it'll be easier, but in time. More or less after 10 years they start to break away from their parents, at puberty they start screaming, and when they turn 20-25 they already look like people and you see the result of their upbringing better or worse. Well, then you want them to be 1-2 years old to hug them. Author, when you turn 20 and wonder where they are all night, it is also not easy. Now you keep a child from getting hit, tomorrow from worse things. Each age is a different stage of life. I have 2 of them on 24 and 14.
It's getting easier and more interesting! It's the hardest thing now. At 3 everything changes, at 5 he is already a very reasonable man, at 7 he is an independent person.
Yes, it is. Mine is four and there were a few turning points. When he started walking, I no longer had to wear it. When he spoke and I didn't have to guess what was wrong with him. And when he started dressing himself. It's getting easier for me. In the beginning, I was like you. Secondly, I never decided ... Now he can pour water, spread his bread, eat alone, go to the toilet alone, there are many things that become easier.