Hello, I am writing this story because I am divided and I do not know what to do. I am 17 years old and I have a lot of problems in the family. My father is an alcoholic, he is drunk every day and there are scandals, and my mother roars every night. I have saved about 500 leva and I am thinking of running away to another city and living for rent for a while until I decide what to do. All my life I have been subjected to mental harassment by my father and in recent months the situation has been unbearable. Thank you for taking the time to read this story.
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I welcome your decision! With 500, however, you will not get anywhere. I advise you to seek the services of social services - the state is obliged to take care of people like you, you are a minor. They offer sheltered housing, offer living in a boarding house or a foster family at least until the end of your education. Without a high school education for nowhere! And the bad news - at the age of 17 you are a minor, the police will find you and bring you back to yours and then fight-fight-fight. Another solution would be to hide with Grandpa IVAN b Novi Han, for example, these 500 will be enough for you to get there, and when you turn 18 to continue your education and live there until you finish. Their coordinates are on the Internet. There you will find a kind of family, there is no way to fall victim to ill-wishers. With secondary education and over 18 years. you can now live as you wish. Otherwise - seek the services of a psychologist as soon as possible. Your mother is also to blame. She is called an "alcoholic supporter" and is at least as harmful as your father to you. You have to get out of there and start a new life, undergo psychotherapy and until then have no contact with both pest parents. I recommend the book "Poisonous Parents". It is in the reading room.
Try to protect your mother, you know that when you run away, she will cry 10 times more, because she will be alone and your father can touch her and there will be no one to stand up for her. I know you feel bad, but if you leave her, she will suffer greatly and you will hurt her. You don't want that to happen, do you? Think a little about other people, not just yourself, even though you can't stand harassment.
Try to last a little longer until you finish school and raise at least as much money, because no matter how economical you live, these will not be enough for you in two months. Good luck
Why don't your mother and father get divorced? Talk to her best and don't leave her alone, she doesn't deserve it! Come up with a plan to move, etc.