Two years ago I started working in a company and in the beginning I was trained by a colleague. We talked mostly about work, about life, a nice woman 7 years older than me was understood. I am 23. The days flew by we became attached to each other and a year ago I confessed to the feelings I have for her. Fortunately, she felt the same way about me. We started going out, everything was very beautiful. A few days ago, however, she broke up with me. He told me that he loved me and wanted us to remain friends at work. I told myself nicely, although I love her and I will still manage somehow. People have said that time heals. The problem is that we work together and see each other every day because we are in one shift. Whenever I get up from the chair to go to my car, it is in front of my eyes. It's very difficult for me, but there's no other way out. I stopped looking at her, stopped talking to her. I torment myself when I think about how good I was with her, how fast my working hours went. I will miss both the moments spent with her outside of work and at work. We only had to remain colleagues. I lost a really good colleague, and nowadays they are really few. I would like to hear your opinion, what is the best thing to do? I want to heal! The pain is really very strong! Thanks.
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Try to maintain a friendly relationship with her and at least communicate as colleagues. It is clear that it will not be like before, but there is no point in ending any relationship. This is the disadvantage of a relationship with a colleague, because during the separation you continue to work together and see each other every day.
This colleague of yours was with you, and then she turned out to be, right? Is there anyone else, it must be nasty to be in one place, to see each other up close, and to know that you will not have more intimate contact .And won't you "wake her up" if you start flirting with another colleague of yours. Just an idea, sometimes it works, if she feels confident and you understand, you may still have a chance, but drive thin so that it doesn't catch your eye, still one thing you changed the course smoothly, not just :)
Whatever number 6 said .... or just change jobs.