Hello, I want to share something that has not given me peace for some time. I'm starting to fall in love with my colleague, with whom we have been very close friends since we worked together. We are very close, we talk about everything, we have similar views. The problem is that there was an attraction between us, I noticed him a long time ago, but he tried to hide it, recently admitted it and tried to kiss me, but I pushed him away. We are both married and have many problematic relationships with our spouses. I almost got divorced last year because I realized that my husband had put horns on me, so far I have not cheated and I accept infidelity as something very base and shameful, I did not believe that I could experience such things with a married man. I have a conscience. It started insomnia, excitement, thoughts, I even masturbate thinking about it ... Tell me what to do, to treat, how to react in this situation? !?
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well, your soul and body want to tell you something. whether you will listen to them is up to you.
You may think that's what your husband likes, but the truth is, if you let something happen to your colleague, you won't be better than him or his mistress. You will cause the same thing you experienced to your colleague's wife and you will risk not one, but two families. If you could live with yourself with that thought, I couldn't.
Don't tell me in a purely human way, don't bother. These loves and excitements are only in your head. He will fuck you and dump you and you will wonder how to go to work. You are interesting while you are a stranger. Then he'll just wonder how to get rid of you. No matter that he lies to you that he has a problematic relationship, he will not leave his wife. Unless she kicked him out
The question is not what to do with the colleague, what else are you looking for in "your husband" !?
You must have children, if you want to watch them alone, go, follow your heart. Such advice will give you most here. But sobering up will come very quickly and painfully!
You flatten me and you're done, what do you think so much?
He obviously doesn't want you, as long as you press him !!
But I wonder one thing - why didn't you take the thing and leave your husband? He put horns on you, don't do it. It's not right to be the better person of you. Number 3 is right. He will not leave his wife. You will just be a consolation, a quick sex and that's it. Then the interest in you will pass, and then you may be disappointed.