My husband and I went through a serious conflict a few years ago. There was a misunderstanding, but I took it very seriously ... I blamed him constantly, I myself was poisoned by feelings of insult and disappointment ... I wondered how to forgive just to calm down mentally. I'm still wondering how to do it. The problem, however, is that a few months later he developed an illness associated with constant dull pain ... there was no cure. All esoteric sources say that this is a kind of "punishment" for him, caused by guilt. I came to this conclusion very recently because I was watching a seminar and I connected things there. Do you think it is possible? How can I forgive when I really have no control over my feelings? And if I do, will his condition improve? How do you overcome the anger and resentment of other people?
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Don't forget to take the pills, if you don't have one, run to a specialist.
Read Louise Hay and her disease chart. It is very interesting. You can listen on YouTube. I got a constant round-the-clock headache from the stress. Terrible. I got a chronic inflammatory process. Pain, antibiotics, hospital. Even with good results, I still had pain and the same symptoms. I dragged one, for years. Once I realized that it was all about lifestyle and stress, I started the changes. I read whatever I can find. I realized that behind the physical pain is the psyche, our behavior ... a bunch of things. Read, improve and things will get better. Treat the cause not the consequence
What you are talking about is good to keep to yourself, without wanting to rise, people can not understand you. You can forgive him if you love him, try. In fact, mental and emotional state is the cause of illness.