Hello, I want to tell you my story and if anyone can give me advice. 7 months ago I started a relationship with a 35-year-old man driving a taxi. In the beginning we went around the cafes, after a month or two he became attached, he started watching my Facebook, who I go out with during the day, etc ... He was interested in everything around me. Before I went with him, I was warned that he had never invited anyone to their house, not to expect anything serious. However, I did not listen to this and continued to see him. Our relationship was like this ... Work during the day, then training for an hour and then he saw me and then he went home and went to bed, and so on every day. I started to get tired of this and I started looking at my life, I started going out, he started to be very jealous of me, to look for me in the city. To wait for me in front of us. Until one day I told him that I wanted to separate, he did not agree, he said that he loved me and that he could not stop everything so suddenly. He said he had never been like that before. I compromised because I loved him and it all started again. We slept together on Fridays and Saturdays, but not at home. I kept going out with my friends, because I didn't see anything serious coming out of this man. He kept getting mad at me, jealous of me, doubting me. One day he just got tired and told me, we have to separate, we have no future together, I don't trust you. I can't live with a woman all my life without trust. Given that he has never had a serious relationship and has never invited or lived with a woman in their home .. He told me I will invite a woman who is 300 percent convinced that she is the woman for me. He also told me that if I hadn't been out so many times, he would have taken me to them, but I doubt given that so far none has ... He told me that everything should end. I didn't agree because I loved him so much and I hoped that something would happen, but alas ... The next day I had to go out in the center and then I met him, he took me to us and in the car he hugged me and started crying with tears .. I told him why you are crying after you decide this, he answered me, I love you. but it will be better for both of us. I felt even worse and I didn't want to part with him ... We had decided to spend the last night together, he hugged me all night. In the morning I felt sick and cried, I explained to him that I could not do without him and that it would not be easy for me, he cried again and said that he could not stand it. Without trust, in fear ... That was the end, I felt it .... My question is the following, how can a person who loves let go of another person and give it up ... !! One day I asked him to tell me, if you don't love me, it will be easier for me to experience it, and he replied, I love you 70 percent, but I can't go on like this anymore ... Separately while we are doing it, I think that he has problems with t. s. t. and .. ie .. Because when he lies down and they disappear and go up to the genitals, this most often happens when aroused ... I think this is not normal and that there is some problem. I ask you for advice ... I love this person very much ... Will he look for me again ... What should I do? I love him and I don't want to lose him, but I have the feeling that he is hiding something and is worried ... No he likes to go to discos, he told me that soon after me someone will love .. That he wanted peace ... :( One day I asked him to tell me, if you don't love me, it will be easier for me to experience it, and he replied, I love you 70 percent, but I can't go on like this anymore ... Separately while we are doing it, I think that he has problems with t. s. t. and .. ie .. Because when he lies down and they disappear and go up to the genitals, this most often happens when aroused ... I think this is not normal and that there is some problem. I ask you for advice ... I love this person very much ... Will he look for me again ... What can I do? I love him and I don't want to lose him, but I have the feeling that he is hiding something and is worried ... No he likes to go to discos, he told me that soon after me someone will love .. That he wanted peace ... :( One day I asked him to tell me, if you don't love me, it will be easier for me to experience it, and he replied, I love you 70 percent, but I can't go on like this anymore ... Separately while we are doing it, I think that he has problems with t. s. t. and .. ie .. Because when he lies down and they disappear and go up to the genitals, this most often happens when aroused ... I think this is not normal and that there is some problem. I ask you for advice ... I love this person very much ... Will he look for me again ... What should I do? I love him and I don't want to lose him, but I have the feeling that he is hiding something and is worried ... No he likes to go to discos, he told me that soon after me someone will love .. That he wanted peace ... :( Separately, while doing s. I think that he has problems with t. S. T. And .. ie .. Because when he lies down and they disappear and go up to the genitals, this most often happens when aroused ... I think this is not normal and there is a problem. I ask you for advice ... I love this person very much ... Will he look for me again ... What should I do? I love him and I don't want to lose him, but I have the feeling that he is hiding something and is worried ... No he likes to go to discos, he told me that soon after me someone will love .. That he wanted peace ... :( Separately, while doing s. I think that he has problems with t. S. T. And .. ie .. Because when he lies down and they disappear and go up to the genitals, this most often happens when aroused ... I think this is not normal and there is a problem. I ask you for advice ... I love this person very much ... Will he look for me again ... What can I do? I love him and I don't want to lose him, but I have the feeling that he is hiding something and is worried ... No he likes to go to discos, he told me that soon after me someone will love .. That he wanted peace ... :(
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Until now, I did not know that love is measured in percentages. And I didn't understand from your acronyms whether it was about the balls or something else? !! Very confusing story.
And how old are you, I guess you're under twenty? Apparently this man has a serious problem with trust, an unrealistic idea of women in general, and at the age of 35 he has long since built up the image of the ideal and the only one, down to the smallest detail, and every single, even minimal deviation from it is unacceptable and almost offensive. . And this constant calculation and weighing of percentages, and painful jealousy - many complexes, many. As for the testicles (this, darling, is not a dirty word, nor is sex, no one will censor you or think anything negative about you, on the contrary, I was irritated even when you saw how you spelled them, are you worried, shy are you, or what?) is not uncommon, I guess it happens to all men. If intuition does not lie to me and you have such a big difference in age, characters, views and desires, it's really better for both of you to end this relationship. Love is not just bitterness and tears, forget it. J. 45
He loved you 70% lol and do you trust him? Either you love or you don't love ... there is no other option. And this with tears is not a reason that he loves you, on the contrary he wants to keep you in this way, having already hit a rock, this with tears was his last trump card. He is attached, he doesn't love you !!! When you love, you say what is in your heart, you do not hide and you do not show off. This with sex, I did not understand, but I will not comment on it.
This guy certainly has a wife and that's why he doesn't drive the chicks in their house .... you will see for yourself at a later stage!
He certainly hides something from you if he doesn't invite you home. And you don't have sex in his house, he comes to you. This is not normal and there is a problem. Does he still live with his parents, does he have a wife at home ... But it's not the reason you go out in the evening.
Well ... I also don't like the boy we see alone for sex, but I invite him to our house. What people, then !!! There's something wrong with this one, you know.
To number 4, with, he certainly doesn't have a wife ... I'm convinced. But there is definitely something hiding ...
In general, the testicles should stay in the bag. They can rise up, but not disappear into the abdominal cavity. The latter is called "elevator testicles" and could possibly be a problem. There is a reason this man under the age of 35 did not trust a woman to "take home". Maybe he lives in some rigid notions of how things work in a relationship. In principle, no man will like to go home and his beloved to go to bars and discos. Like you, you wouldn't like the opposite. If you wanted to have a relationship with him, you had to think of doing something together. And not - who is from where. Clearly, a relationship will not happen. He doesn't like it, but he obviously can't get along with you. That's why he prefers to separate.
In my opinion, the problem is with the genitals. Maybe it's too small for him and that's why the balls go up (correct me if I'm wrong). For men, this is the thing that is most terrible and completely affects their psyche. When a man knows that he cannot satisfy you, there comes fear and jealousy and depression, etc. I think it is nothing else. F27
There is no way to know for sure that there is no woman. You didn't go to them. Have you even been in front of them? Go sometime and chances are you'll see him with another.