My problem is very big and burdens me mentally. I've had a lot of chances to kiss a boy, but I've always missed them for fear of kissing, I've told myself that this is something difficult to do, that I can't do it, that I will never learn, that I will never I will not be able to be happy !!! I walk the streets and watch couples in love hug and kiss, it's easy for them and not for me :( It's stuck like a stone in me, I'm almost 16 years old, I had about 20 fans with whom I could get something serious with them but alas I'm scared and so I just get stuck more and more, I just suffer and suffer :( Help me how to shake off this and experience it :)
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EYYYY EYYY EYYYY life is in front of you! You think so now, but when the time comes you will forget about everything. As the old people said, forcibly beauty does not happen. You have instilled something that you cannot shake off. The exact moment is real magic, enjoy it. Don't bother that you haven't kissed a boy so far, there is nothing shameful or scary, just calm down at the moment and don't think what the end result will be! Good luck:)))
Ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Thank you for dealing with me, but in the end I'm scared and I don't know when I will be able to overcome this problem :)
Don't worry darling this site is to help each other as much as we can or it's just a kind of vent. Do you know in some way I would tell you that you are lucky you haven't kissed yet don't stiffen I told you you will feel the moment kiss was stubborn to prove to a boy who did not care but a gram that I can ....... and tnt I have not had the opportunity to tremble from this special moment in the life of every person. Your old, unforgettable and crazy years are yet to come I am older and I tell you from experience the real and beautiful moments in our lives are few and we must enjoy them 100% I wish you with all my heart to soon feel what I'm talking about. :)))) SUCCESS
I had the same problem but one evening I was at a party, I got drunk and did it. There is nothing complicated and everyone has a different technique and the one with whom he kisses will not understand that this is your first time. Be bolder.
Thank you so much you really help me like this. at least to tune in. I'm going to the sea soon, I'm thinking of finding a boy there to have fun with.
A kiss is something very beautiful, you can hardly do without it in a relationship, if you learn once, you will want to do it for life. Yours is not fear, you just haven't found the boy who will predispose you to this kiss. Do not despair, but keep looking when you meet him, your whole body will tell you that this is him, believe me :)
Here's some advice from me. The kiss is probably one of the greatest things - it is the reason for sex if you want :) And the kiss itself - how to do it the first time - just when you decide that the person against you is the one you want to be the first kiss with, bend down lightly to him, kiss him lightly on the lips, honor him friendly without hurrying, he will do everything else himself, you just have to be sure that this is the boy and relax. As they said above, everyone kisses differently and you might not know how the person does it - so leave it at that - let him teach you. Believe me you will not regret it. The kiss is above all else. GOOD LUCK :)))
здрасти аз съм на 12 и още не съм се целувала предлагали са ми много пъти но аз съм отказвала такъв случай се случи скоро ходих с родителите си на гости там имаше басейн запознаха ни със синът на човека който ни покани той беше много сладък но и по голам на 16 не спираше да ме гледа независимо къде съм в басейна или навън след време ме извика да се разходим така и стана после ме покани у тях седнах ме на леглото му и гледах ме телевизия той ме обхващаше с ръце най-накрая ми дръпна косите приближи се ищеше да ме целуне и аз се дръпнах исках да го целуна но ме беше срам ако бях го целунала като първа целувка можех да се проваля и да се изложа пред него мисля че това е любовот пръв поглед но не искам да проваля всичко с една целувка аз съм готино и красиво момиче но и срамежливо страхливо и стиснително скоро пак ще ходя там какво да правя? надявам се вие да ми помогнете защото нямя кой друг
Hello! I'm 14 years old and I thought until recently that I might be one of the biggest I mean in terms of age who haven't kissed. But I soon discovered that there are older than 17-18 year olds who have not kissed yet and I no longer feel alone and the only one who has not kissed. I now feel more hopeful and confident. But I will ask you to explain to me how to kiss if you can. Thank you in advance!
Hello, I kissed for the first time 2 years ago I was almost 19 years.But worry and I think like you, BUT NOT EVEN happened so quickly NAUCHIH.OSTAVI ALL the boy they kissed you yourself will know what to do .
This is not something who knows what you have nothing to fear and worry about just relax. the first time I didn't even feel it when I turned to say goodbye to him and ......
Hi. Calm down, I soon turned 17 and I haven't kissed yet, but I'm determined to kiss the boy of my dreams tomorrow, because I love him very much and I'm burning with desire to kiss him! hardly anyone knows what, you just have to relax and enjoy the moment :). Squeeze my thumbs for tomorrow and good luck
Hey, I'm 14, I was recently given so many opportunities to kiss a boy, but the problem with the anxiety of the first kiss also intervened. I had some sympathy for him and decided that I should take this chance, as I am almost 15 and I think I should have experienced the 1st kiss a long time ago. But then I thought I would wait for the right moment with the right person. Judging by the comments above, everything will work out on its own, but I'm still shivering at the thought ....
Hello! I am 13 now, I have a boyfriend for the first time and I want to kiss him, but it doesn't work, I'm ashamed how to overcome him ?! I like him very much and he likes me. I want to kiss him but it doesn't work? , (sweat)!
Hello ! I am 12 years old and a boy told me that he likes me, I like him, but he has already kissed and I do NOT know how to help me, please !!!! 1
And what happens when both I and the boy I like are ashamed ...? Please help because I know that he likes me too, but ... but do I have to take the first step because I am very scared .. . :( :(
hello i want help a boy likes me he himself told me but i really want to kiss him but i don't know if i like him i just want to kiss him so my question is how do i make him kiss me? help please thank you in advance!
Hi, my name is Marina, and I have a similar problem. So there is a boy from my class who I like very much, and he constantly offers me to become boyfriends, but I do not agree because I can not kiss and he has a lot of experience. He is already used to hugging me constantly, kissing on the cheek, forehead sending me kisses in class and so on. He proposed to my girlfriends, even one when he agreed he wanted to be kissed and broken the next day. I'm also afraid because he's a big gossip. If the kiss goes badly he will tell everyone. If anyone has a way to help me please do so. Thanks in advance for the help
18-mile, you have nothing to worry about, just go, I'm sure it can't go bad. When I was little, I was so worried, and it didn't turn out to be anything scary or difficult :)
Hey, girls .. don't worry .. and I was like that for the first time .. but I gradually learned! It's just that the first time is really disturbing and exciting, but when the time comes to kiss ... just close your eyes and let your partner guide you. Whatever he does, do it too! !! ..
Hello, I'm 12 and I have a boyfriend from 2 months somewhere and 2-3 times we would kiss with our tongues but since it's my first time I always pull and now on Friday we will go out and I decided to kiss but I'm very worried and I'm afraid not to splash everything please help:))) !! Thanks in advance :)
Abe, as Ilo Siromahov said: You grab him / her by the ears and that's it: D People, leave it to your instincts
Look at it calmly, bend down and kiss it.
And I was very worried from that moment, but it just happened :) The boy was very much in love with me, he sent me to us one night ... (he was not sending me for the first time but so far I had not given him the opportunity to do so) , but it happened .. as long as you're not stiff, just relax and leave it to the boy :)
Hello, I'm 14, I'm very scared, I had so many opportunities to kiss a boy, but I just backed off, I'm ashamed, I think that if we kiss, he won't like it or he'll ask me if I've had experience, and maybe I say I can't kiss ...? Is it possible ... Please help me .. Tomorrow I will go out with him and I don't know what to decide to do