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The Female Number

By goodknight11 September 10, 2020 50 answers Last updated September 10, 2020

How many men have you been with? I am a woman of 38, I have been with 11 men and 1 woman. I have been having sex since I was 18, and I met my husband at 26, so I had 11 sexual partners 8 years before him. Is this normal or is it a lot / a little?

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infobmkg answered · September 10, 2020

   With none! I'm a man ;)

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ivygold90262 answered · September 10, 2020

   It is not only to the number, but also to the mentality. Are these 11 pieces of relationships, are they for one-night stands, are they friends with privileges, or did I go out with them with the idea of ​​a relationship, and they attacked and did not call. And these things matter. And the most important thing is whether after these numbers you will calm down by getting married. Because most of the numbers do not calm down after marriage or at least look around constantly.

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amyy__s answered · September 10, 2020

   I was with two, my second is a man. For me, 11 is a lot.

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sauage_man answered · September 10, 2020

   I am 1, but I, like 2, ask myself similar questions. What does "how many men you've been with" mean? Is the woman depreciated, is she worn out? Because if it's for depreciation, one can depreciate you as much as 10? So what does it matter if you have slept 100 times with 1 or 4 times with 25 men? :)

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cabrera27 answered · September 10, 2020

   My girlfriend is 21, I'm 7. There is no sex for one night without communication. My ex when we left was 23 with 11.12 pieces, sex for one night, there were a few extra for oral and there was infidelity in defiance of her ex-boyfriend! In general, anything over 10 sounds sinister to me, and for a girl of 21, like my girlfriend and 7, they come in more, I think 3-4 is normal. For a woman your age it is even prestigious 11. In general, those at the age of 20 already have 20 or more pieces and these are from 10 at least 6-7 girls and very rarely to have less. The number is important because it is unpleasant for your wife to have been beaten by a whole team, imagining them, to have cummed in her mouth, which you kiss in the evening with love and to be used for one sex by someone and so it will be. Soon I was watching a story about a girl who was 17, they asked her when she had sex for the first time. It says, at 16, so far so good, how many partners have you been with and she wrote with 11. In fact, in 1 year there are 11 sexual partners and you realize whether they are few or not, but she still has at least 5-6 years ahead of her. 10 a year, what happens? I have a girlfriend who is with different boys every day, she only goes out with boys and says different things, I guess she was over 30.40, but she is 26 and when I think of the word ku * va she too is my personification for that. There is no way, these numbers weigh .. It is a pity that I have male friends who brag that they are 40-50 and that they do not remember their names, because this is not pleasant, probably for the woman, if you have a relationship with such a man . Although it is said that a key that unlocks many locks is valuable and irreplaceable, and a lock that is unlocked by everyone is the worst, you judge how many partners have you been with and she wrote with 11. In fact, in 1 year there are 11 sexual partners and you realize whether they are few or not, but there are at least 5-6 more years a year in front of her, 10 what happens? I have a girlfriend who is with different boys every day, she only goes out with boys and says different things, I guess she was over 30.40, but she is 26 and when I think of the word ku * va she too is my personification for that. There is no way, these numbers weigh .. It is a pity that I have male friends who brag that they are 40-50 and that they do not remember their names, because this is not pleasant, probably for the woman, if you have a relationship with such a man . Although it is said that a key that unlocks many locks is valuable and irreplaceable, and a lock that is unlocked by everyone is the worst, you judge how many partners have you been with and she wrote with 11. In fact, in 1 year there are 11 sexual partners and you realize whether they are few or not, but in front of her there are at least 5-6 more years a year, 10 what happens? I have a girlfriend who is with different boys every day, she only goes out with boys and says different things, I guess she was over 30.40, but she is 26 and when I think of the word ku * va she too is my personification for that. There is no way, these numbers weigh .. It is a pity that I have male friends who brag that they are 40-50 and that they do not remember their names, because this is not pleasant, probably for the woman, if you have a relationship with such a man . Although it is said that a key that unlocks many locks is valuable and irreplaceable, and a lock that is unlocked by everyone is the worst, you judge In fact, for 1 year there are 11 sexual partners and you realize whether they are few or not, but in front of her there are at least 5-6 years a year for 10, what happens? I have a girlfriend who is with different boys every day, she only goes out with boys and says different things, I guess she was over 30.40, but she is 26 and when I think of the word ku * va she too is my personification for that. There is no way, these numbers weigh .. It is a pity that I have male friends who brag that they are 40-50 and that they do not remember their names, because this is not pleasant, probably for the woman, if you have a relationship with such a man . Although it is said that a key that unlocks many locks is valuable and irreplaceable, and a lock that is unlocked by everyone is the worst, you judge In fact, for 1 year there are 11 sexual partners and you realize whether they are few or not, but in front of her there are at least 5-6 years a year for 10, what happens? I have a girlfriend who is with different boys every day, she only goes out with boys and says different things, I guess she was over 30.40, but she is 26 and when I think of the word ku * va she too is my personification for that. There is no way, these numbers weigh .. It is a pity that I have male friends who brag that they are 40-50 and that they do not remember their names, because this is not pleasant, probably for the woman, if you have a relationship with such a man . Although it is said that a key that unlocks many locks is valuable and irreplaceable, and a lock that is unlocked by everyone is the worst, you judge but she still has at least 5-6 years a year in front of 10, what's going on? I have a girlfriend who is with different boys every day, she only goes out with boys and says different things, I guess she was over 30.40, but she is 26 and when I think of the word ku * va she too is my personification for that. There is no way, these numbers weigh .. It is a pity that I have male friends who brag that they are 40-50 and that they do not remember their names, because this is not pleasant, probably for the woman, if you have a relationship with such a man . Although it is said that a key that unlocks many locks is valuable and irreplaceable, and a lock that is unlocked by everyone is the worst, you judge but she still has at least 5-6 years a year in front of 10, what's going on? I have a girlfriend who is with different boys every day, she only goes out with boys and says different things, I guess she was over 30.40, but she is 26 and when I think of the word ku * va she too is my personification for that. There is no way, these numbers weigh .. It is a pity that I have male friends who brag that they are 40-50 and that they do not remember their names, because this is not pleasant, probably for the woman, if you have a relationship with such a man . Although it is said that a key that unlocks many locks is valuable and irreplaceable, and a lock that is unlocked by everyone is the worst, you judge There is no way, these numbers weigh .. It is a pity that I have male friends who brag that they are 40-50 and that they do not remember their names, because this is not pleasant, probably for the woman, if you have a relationship with such a man . Although it is said that a key that unlocks many locks is valuable and irreplaceable, and a lock that is unlocked by everyone is the worst, you judge There is no way, these numbers weigh .. It is a pity that I have male friends who brag that they are 40-50 and that they do not remember their names, because this is not pleasant, probably for the woman, if you have a relationship with such a man . Although it is said that a key that unlocks many locks is valuable and irreplaceable, and a lock that is unlocked by everyone is the worst, you judge

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nostressmiss answered · September 10, 2020

   God, author, but you were a saint, ma'am. Up to 26 years only 11 men. By the age of 27, my numbers had already exceeded 70. I always made them use condoms, they even bought them in front of me to make sure everything was fine, and if some were left unused, they stayed with me and so on with every man. I had a girlfriend who had promised herself to marry the hundredth man, and so she only did so when she was approaching the age of 29. She gave birth to a baby girl a year later. I don't know if her daughter followed her mother's example. Two and a half years after her marriage, I moved to another city and we lost touch. I don't know what happened to her then.

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xabrilx answered · September 11, 2020

   In my opinion, a woman with many numbers will never calm down, even if she does not cheat, there will always be others in her head (as someone said above). The same goes for a man. One statement of my grandmother, I liked very much once: A man / woman who smoked, drank or walked on women / men, even if they ever stop, their minds are still there. I fully support this statement and I have seen it proven many, many times. 11 are not small, in my opinion, but this is a personal opinion. I personally have not met a woman with many numbers who are valuable and "decent" (all different meanings of the word), as you want to understand. I have communicated with many of all ages. I'm not just talking about women I've dated or had an affair with, but also about acquaintances, boyfriends of friends, colleagues, etc. It may sound like a stereotype, I don't want to offend anyone, it's just a fact

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lolla_2020 answered · September 11, 2020

   Up to 4. Depreciated yes, but mentally, emotionally. The same goes for men. Who has a large number, there is reason to have it!

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brantdaugherty answered · September 11, 2020

   For me, the problem is not the numbers themselves, but the fact that it is difficult for me to trust such a woman later, and a relationship without trust does not work. Because think about it, given that she was 15 before me, how can I believe that with me the 16th will be different and will calm down once and for all? Although I agree that there are hidden lemons that are supposedly virgin, and then open their eyes and pass everyone. Yes, there are those who really calm down. But how many are there and how can I believe that my wife will be one of the few with many numbers who have calmed down? And is it worth taking a risk with such a woman and risking, for example, 10 years of my life, having children with her, etc.? Because whining is up to the mentality. Usually you either have it or you don't. With this change, I do not believe that in most cases it is possible. If you hoy at 20, you're very likely to hoy at 30, and at 40, and at 50. Even when I look at women, at 40-50-60 they accelerate even more. Otherwise, your numbers are not many, if you really, really decided to calm down and your mind does not shy away from others. But if this is a temporary phenomenon ... That's why under number 2 I asked if they were relationships, if they were overnight sex. Because it is one thing to have had 11 relationships for 8 months, it is another to have had 1 relationship and cheated during that time, and it is a third to have gone to bed for one night with 11 people. If it's the first - come and go, 11 is fine. However, if it is the second or the third, I would strongly doubt you. Because it is one thing to have had 11 relationships for 8 months, it is another to have had 1 relationship and cheated during that time, and it is a third to have gone to bed for one night with 11 people. If it's the first - come and go, 11 is fine. However, if it is the second or the third, I would strongly doubt you. Because it is one thing to have had 11 relationships for 8 months, it is another to have had 1 relationship and cheated during that time, and it is a third to have gone to bed for one night with 11 people. If it's the first - come and go, 11 is fine. However, if it is the second or the third, I would strongly doubt you.

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blondiebaby355 answered · September 12, 2020

   I am 31 and there are about 20, of which 4 - 5 were not overnight. I have had sex since I was 19 and I was monogamous until I was 28. Then I needed sex, so I was looking for it. It seems absurd to me a woman over 30 to wait for the "love of her life" and sit dry. At least in my opinion. But a girl under 25 to have a lot of relationships for one night I do not consider normal. You are not mentally stable at this age for such a lifestyle. PS, whoever wants, let him copy ancient professions for me. I live my life as I see fit and I have not harmed anyone.

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sativahonest answered · September 12, 2020

   to 8 (I'm 4) When I read and read the topics here, mentally much more amortized are these women with almost no numbers;) If the site was not anonymous, hardly anyone would admit to more than 3, and here I look 100 pieces knocked .. literally;)

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bigbunnywow answered · September 13, 2020

   Hi, I'm a 27-year-old man. Some time ago I had mainly a sexual relationship with a lady who was 3 years older than me. I was her 65 sexual partner. It sounded a lot like she told me for the first time, but this is the lifestyle she chose. She really is a smart and beautiful woman, I would even say extremely beautiful. For her, sex is mainly physical entertainment, it does not invest so much feelings and emotions in hego.

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bitemebish answered · September 13, 2020

   "Depreciation" itself is not so much a problem, the skin underneath is healthy and elastic ... The problem is that such women are usually uncontrollable, reckless and have a weak will, and their unreasonable approach to sex only strengthens these qualities. Here is an example of number 6, assuming that it is a true story, the friend promised that she would marry her 100th sexual partner and have a child by him. Her 99th partner may have been more appropriate, maybe even her 15th was more appropriate, but she has turned the creation of a new life into a child's play. Otherwise, indiscriminate sex is like a drug that affects the oxytocin system in the brain, just as overeating sweets affects the serotonin system. Just as there is emotional eating, so there is emotional hunger for sex. Depressed people, especially women, like to eat sweets, because the insulin peak temporarily raises serotonin and the depression disappears in a few hours. It's the same with sex.

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fkmeallday answered · September 13, 2020

   There is such a topic already. 0 pcs. I am 28 years old.

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acielawiv answered · September 14, 2020

   I am 31 years old. and I've been with two so far. I hope I didn't laugh at someone hee, hee, hee!

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gretacostanzo answered · September 14, 2020

   If everyone who wants to lift a leg has it, what number will become a record. One truth is a woman if her dogs go eat her. Saffron becomes

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mrlustfulxx answered · September 14, 2020

   Only insecure men and those who know they are uncompetitive are afraid of a woman's numbers. Of course, if you're not good in bed, you won't want to be compared to 10 other people. And, of course, you will cover it up with some high-sounding nonsense about morality and amortization, but otherwise, if you find someone suitable for one night and you won't forgive her. Hypocrites. Author, you've been different every nine months, what's so great about it? Grandpa Torbalan

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entreprenistas answered · September 14, 2020

   I am 27 and I have been with 2 women, and I had a relationship with one for 4 years. Honestly, I'm very angry that I have so little experience. Life is about living, what others think and what is normal for them should not be given so much attention.

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kalipolis answered · September 15, 2020

   hahaha Grandpa Torbalan knocked on the sweep again. There is no such curtain. Grandpa Torbalan and Black Sabbath are the mascots of the site. Without them, there would be no color.

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yosoybanana answered · September 15, 2020

   8, f, 24.

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jona answered · September 15, 2020

   <20> There comes a time in every man's life when a curled-up woman falls and you don't ask how old she was;)

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sagerose94 answered · September 15, 2020

   8, I'm 33 I don't have sex for one night, but I sent 3 to study or work abroad. Otherwise they would be less.

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crystallayne answered · September 16, 2020

   9, I am 23 years old, woman. I'm already married and I have no intention of even looking at another man. Whatever it is, happiness is to find your soul mate.

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itsjustswings answered · September 16, 2020

   I'm 22 and I only have one ... is that bad? (I am a woman)

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sophie_miller_ answered · September 16, 2020

   Hey n22. This applies to women. Men can stay alone. We don't need another person to feel complete.

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goddessmxx answered · September 16, 2020

   Author, there is nothing normal or abnormal in sex. Different people, different sexual desires. It is important to have mutual respect and no violence. Everything else should not be limited because, as I said, people are different. What is strange to some is the pinnacle of pleasure. If you like it, everything is ok. It will be abnormal if you are not happy with your sex life in general.

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student24444 answered · September 17, 2020

   18, Torbalane, don't confuse the two states. If it's just to satisfy the urge, every woman who picks it up for me, no matter how many partners she's been with. I even recently had sex with one from Tinder. The sex was great. But I would not marry such a woman, I would not want children from her. Honestly, I don't see this chick from Tinder in a stable relationship, at least not long ago, even though she was 27. It's just that her mentality is like that - partying. To break as many cocks as possible. So just as women fuck the "bad boys" and then go to the more settled and worthy of serious relationships, so men use various cracks to empty themselves qualitatively, and when it comes to serious relationships and children we look for more decent women.

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sloanestephens answered · September 17, 2020

   As the saying goes - the sinless to throw the first stone As men do not like to imagine the chick with how much she was, so women are not happy to imagine the guys next to them how many times they have done oral and similar in numbers Things are mutual You don't like someone with a lot of "pieces"? What are you doing there then? You do this to become the next number and you to have the next number and so on. You are all even separately.

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anonpvt answered · September 17, 2020

   I've been with a lot before my husband, not everyone was serious. I think this is an experience and a chance to offer more emotionally and physically afterwards.

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ebonyhot69x answered · September 17, 2020

   I am 20 years old, almost 21 and I have 7 pieces for now. I haven't had a serious relationship and I don't think I will soon. The numbers are mostly from friends with privileges, the other is overnight sex, although not with a complete stranger from a disco. I've always done it with a condom. I have been having sex since I was 15, since then I change 1 partner a year, for some time I haven't had one for a year and a half or 2, other times 2-3 a year. The reason I didn't have a serious relationship and I didn't have it was not that I didn't want to, but the only person I loved was extremely unsuitable for me and we just didn't get into any relationship, even though it was obvious that sparks were flying between the two of us. . But we just didn't clarify and things didn't work out. We haven't even kissed him, let alone had sex. After it didn't work out with him, I couldn't fall in love anymore, it can be said that I rarely have sexual desire, only if I meet a person who attracts me, otherwise I do not feel such a need at first. I go out often, I have a lot of fans and I certainly don't go to bed with everyone I meet, although a lot of people will probably like my number, but I don't care, to be honest. For me, having a serious relationship is not a small step, because when I'm serious I really want to be serious, and when I feel that I can't be with only one person, I'm direct. I hate infidelity and I don't see the point in being with 1 person with whom I can't find other points of contact than sex / and he will quickly get bored of me / and at the same time getting stuck with others behind his back. It's just stupid. I don't care if I'm a whore or not, I just want to be free and not hurt anyone. If I love a man, I do everything for him, but if I don't, I won't lie to him,

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hanna_bellen answered · September 18, 2020

   I can't help but be curious about the principle on which comment number 20 was approved. Does it contribute anything to the discussion? Does he make an argument? Is it on topic? Last but not least, if I make such a comment, will it be approved? Grandpa Torbalan

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capitals answered · September 18, 2020

   At 40 with 4. Two in their teens. With two in relationships. I don't want to have a heel. I would like to stay with this man I am with at the moment. But honestly, I'm not proud. This number seems a little hard to me. Not for anything else but for experience. Although I can talk to my last partner about experience. With the first three, I now realize that I have done almost nothing. My point is that it is not the number that makes the experiment. Abe, I don't know which number is a lot or a little. Curious how men see it?

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toysloveboys answered · September 18, 2020

   20, the more colorful thing is that you attack Grandpa Torbalan because he has a different opinion from you and you mention another person (me) who has not taken any part in the topic so far. If you come up with a nickname and continue in the same vein, you will surpass us both. On the subject - I think that every woman is different. For some it has always been in nature to be light, for others a certain number changes them, but this is strictly individual. If you think infidelity is a bad thing and if Black Sabbath

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capriceofficial answered · September 18, 2020

   58 men exactly and most of them were young and sexy guys and they took down my stars and how much they explained to me in love and you know that, I'm not a whore. I am now 47 years old and I got married at 41 and I have two beautiful girls, I was very developed as a child and my breasts were formed at the age of 11 and I am a beautiful woman and sexy body and I do not regret any, one night stand I've never done it, I just dumped them after a few months and how much the poor people cried then, but I didn't do it on purpose, I just changed my requirements over the years and I really liked them. it was not until I was 41 that I found my husband and calmed down and lived happily ever after.

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analaura_gonzalez answered · September 18, 2020

   I'm 25, I was 5. One was my first love, two of two serious relationships and two to boost my self-esteem in a crappy period for me and I honestly feel sorry for them. I found that sex without feelings was not my thing and I didn't feel good after that.

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jasonslyric answered · September 18, 2020

   Bs, DT, don't give your opinion. I haven't used offensive words, what are you jumping at me for? Why was my comment approved? Well, is that exactly what you say, where you have spoiled half of the topics :)

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lusty_lyn answered · September 19, 2020

   40, that's right, is not a man to express his opinion. Grandpa Torbalan writes a comment - you are attacking him; I was not present at all in the subject - I am mentioned. It is really not a person to express an opinion. I do not comment in any topic, not in half, and if you like, stop determining who comments where and in how many topics, be it me, Grandpa Torbalan or someone else. Black Sabbath

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olivia_wells answered · September 19, 2020

   Number 30, as I wrote above - hypocrisy. You despise her, but you fuck her, and you actually act just like her. How are you different from the Tinder girl? Are you becoming more than her for a serious relationship? Grandpa Torbalan

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maturexxx_ answered · September 19, 2020

   This is my opinion to me. What am I guilty of that you don't like and don't carry the criticism that only you see? Since you spoke in the same way about different people by different accessories and summarized all the men many times, why don't you roar then?

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manieshpaul answered · September 19, 2020

   Number 40, how is your opinion useful on the topic? Grandpa Torbalan

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julie_blossom answered · September 19, 2020

   43, have your say. As for you, we are the mascots of the site, ok, thank you. : D But in this topic you were attacked by Grandpa Torbalan because you don't like his opinion, he mentioned me, without commenting at all so far and it's normal for us to answer you. Before I started categorizing people, I was categorized many times. At first I was far left, then far right, being a racist and homophobe for a while, now I am neither. Everyone has their own individuality. People are changing, their worldview is changing. Plus, I began to realize that everyone has their own truth about life, which makes a lot of arguments pointless. P.S. I'm not attacking you. Black Sabbath

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alwaysready_20 answered · September 19, 2020

   I am 30 years old, sexually active since I was 17 - I have slept with 15-16 men and 2 women. I have been married for 6 years and I have never cheated on my husband, so I don't know why you decided that all those who are more liberated in their youth do not become a family.

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kadishasweetwild answered · September 20, 2020

   I'm 4 to 17

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frasedesarcasmo answered · September 20, 2020

   I am 22 and my current boyfriend is the 3rd one I do it with. The others were my boyfriends too, and I've never done it for just one night, I won't do it. And those who say they do it, because of the experience, just retaliate. It's like wanting a child "To have someone look after you in the old days". And other. Women with many numbers will always want more. And I don't think about having sex without feelings. And women with many numbers are as likely to calm down as I am to do with many men. All I want from life and sex is to find someone I can be with forever and watch TV shows at 70 years old. And the pleasure of sex, I find it not only in sex itself, but also in the person next to me. If someone is going to be the greatest man in sex in the world, if I don't have feelings for him, I won't like him. I know

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beauty_monica answered · September 20, 2020

   DT, with whatever yours. By expressing an opinion. BS, even if I attack, what, don't I have the right?

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_sweet_kim answered · September 20, 2020

   46, you didn't understand. Not all, but most. In this sense, it is a risk. I would not take it, for others they decide. 6 years is not a criterion. The trials of marriage usually begin after 10 years or more. But I wish you didn't have to cheat and your marriage is happy.

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valeriecut answered · September 20, 2020

   At 20, with 2ma. There was no love with any of them, I had a short relationship with one of them. The strange thing is that I did not allow the people I had more feelings for to reach such a relationship. We both just slept once and then cried because we liked it. The first one was very nice and he was in love with me, in the second one I fell in love, but he didn't respond to my feelings. I do not regret them or the fact that I did not sleep with others.

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sexyladies062 answered · September 20, 2020

   49, I will repeat my question, how is your opinion useful on the topic? I express an opinion on the subject, you do not. Your comment is of the most general ad hominem nature. That is why I am curious why a comment without argumentative value, containing profane expressions, was approved. Grandpa Torbalan

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thugiyfe answered · September 21, 2020

   49, attack and express your opinion as much as you want, but know that others have the right to the same and it is precisely because of this right that you resent at the moment. You attack and you are attacked, you express an opinion and others do. However, I do not attack you personally, you just mentioned me and I wrote to you. Black Sabbath

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katya101 answered · September 21, 2020

   Dt, I'm expressing my opinion about you, is it illegal? Bs, you are free to attack me.