Hello, I am from America, but I was born in Bulgaria and my mother tongue is Bulgarian. I don't know it perfectly, but I can handle it if I get into a conflict or a ridiculous conversation. This year in America I liked a girl - she is Bulgarian, she went to study in the country. I see her every day, she smiles at me and greets me, on my part the same. I am ashamed to offer it to her because I have a loose stomach and I am quite overweight. I am 1. 80 tall and 104 kg. which complex me terribly. Yes, I'm fat and it's a fact. When I see the girl I like, I refuse to offer her to be together, because if for some reason she decides to accept, I will be ashamed of her. How do you see an athlete and an elephant together? I don't have the will to lose weight - I started something like a diet, I give it a maximum of one week and I refuse it. I lose my desire, I lack enthusiasm and let's start again. I have many friends I can count on if you think of me as an antisocial guy. Let me tell you a little about her. She is a girl who does not come from a rich family, is not a spoiled daughter or from today's "Muffins". It's quite natural. Sometimes I write on Facebook, but it doesn't always suit me, it's just "Sinva". She looks at me every time with a smile and an attractive look that makes me like her more. I wonder if she might like me too? Her demeanor drives me crazy - Neither positive nor negative. So dear readers, what do you think of me and her? Will something happen or not I hope? Dear moderators - with great respect to your site, I want to tell you that this site helped me solve many problems. Thank you for developing it and I wish you great future success! I'm sorry if I make mistakes, but I'm used to writing in English and over the years I've forgotten the language. I wish you a pleasant day or a pleasant night! Veseloo :)
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hello, what greater incentive for change than a girl? Let it be your stimulus, start a diet and train something until you reach a normal weight. Start slowly showing her from now on that you like her. She may not respond, but when she sees the change in you and realizes that you did it for her, she has a good chance of changing her feelings and liking you.
Why not start a gym? At this height, these kg. they are not so many. Get a coach to motivate you and you will see for yourself how this will become part of your daily life. For the girl, you gave up on yourself, but you can't figure out a woman. Try it, if it doesn't work, it will hurt, but it's better than ruining yourself and wondering what it would be like.
First, a complex man is a pretty bad factor, second, you're not that fat because you're tall and the weight, unless you're lying, is not that much. Thirdly, I don't understand you, I have a full girlfriend, she constantly complains to me about this, and she creates complexes, but you don't make an effort to fix it, which means I don't have a desire, I don't have a passion? How to have when you give up and how to lose weight effortlessly? The girl, being an athlete, is a pity for you as a man to be lazy, what an impression you leave lazy and complex, just a tragedy. Tighten up how someone wants you when you yourself are desperate, you literally don't bother me, it doesn't hurt, you get up and start training, you ruin your own life, you despair, and that's it. This is not the way exactly that you want it, you have to be inspired by a man, as long as you whine, but hold on to life and destiny, because today you are lazy tomorrow you have no desire, but obesity leads to disease. Tighten up, because nothing comes for free if you want to lose weight and effort is needed if you want to be with her, you should not whine but win it. Fight and never give up, because you don't know how far you can go by giving up, life is not easy, but that doesn't mean lying down and roaring and getting up to tighten up and change it.
First, a complex man is a pretty bad factor, second, you're not that fat because you're tall and the weight, unless you're lying, is not that much. Thirdly, I don't understand you, I have a full girlfriend, she constantly complains to me about this, and she creates complexes, but you don't make an effort to fix it, which means I don't have a desire, I don't have a passion? How to have when you give up and how to lose weight effortlessly? The girl, being an athlete, is a pity for you as a man to be lazy, what an impression you leave lazy and complex, just a tragedy. Tighten up how someone wants you when you yourself are desperate, you literally don't bother me, it doesn't hurt, you get up and start training, you ruin your own life, you despair, and that's it. This is not the way exactly that you want it, you have to be inspired by a man, as long as you whine, but hold on to life and destiny, because today you are lazy tomorrow you have no desire, but obesity leads to disease. Tighten up, because nothing comes for free if you want to lose weight and effort is needed if you want to be with her, you should not whine but win it. Fight and never give up, because you don't know how far you can go by giving up, life is not easy, but that doesn't mean lying down and roaring and getting up to tighten up and change it.
Look, I was dumped by a full man, but because I was ashamed of him, I was given information through another girl. I was repulsed by the fact that he did not have the "balls" to stand against me and tried to get whatever he wanted. I immediately thought "yes, there is a need for someone to solve the important things in his life, and for him not to move a finger for anything". The next thing that repelled me even more, again told through the girl in question, that if you see that if she agreed to at least one meeting with him, he would go on a diet. Please ?? !! What conditions do you set for me? This was the other thing I thought, except that it was confirmed to me that he has no will, which automatically means that even if he catches something to do, he will quickly give up. I am an athlete and no, I would not be with a fat or full man, but if we really like him, I would help him get in shape. However, he does not want to do it for himself, he tries scary dumps in third people, so he leaves the responsibility to another, to everything on top and with conditions. Well, I was repulsed by the character, or rather the lack of such, and not his weight. By the way, he was a very charming, even handsome man, but laziness and escape from responsibility ... no, thank you, if only Mr. Planet were. YOU make your decision! Risk being cut off like all normal people, what do you think, if you were white with perfect abdominals, wouldn't the girls chop you? Error. Start training for your own pleasure and tone, after less than 2 months with proper training, it becomes a desirable way of life. It's the same with the diet, after only a month you think "how I ate those crap". Everything is in your head, it costs until you break the habit and feel / convince yourself of that, which I say. It is very likely that you are sympathetic to the girl, but if you are going to do something, go with your head held high, with a smile and most of all like a confident man, not a timid thumb. And if he cuts you off, you will survive like everyone else, but without trying ... well, even if life brings you something by chance, then it will take it away from you with interest, it is better to work it out yourself.