Hello, my story is short, but it personally fills me with many questions. Last year, when I was 13, I went crazy a little older than me. He only wanted sex from me (with an apology :) no relationships, etc. Because I hadn't had sex before and I was very excited and scared, but no matter how scared I was, I thought I would keep it that way. Personally, it hurts a lot, even if it wasn't all in, there's a lot of blood flowing. Then we both left without saying a word. I was very disappointed and I still am, I hope one day I will forget everything that happened between us; Will I succeed? Am I forgetting the first time ?? it hurts me during intercourse and I haven't done it since then because I'm scared and I don't want to be hurt twice like that! Do you think it will hurt so much or more, or I may have to wait for it to develop. Or is your pain normal and obligatory ?! Any advice, instruction?!?!?!
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At 13 you had SEX?!?! And you were a girl at 13. Your reproductive system is still developing, of course it will hurt you. And the first time it always hurts. Wait a while, live your childhood and then do these things.
I will advise you to try again .. I understand what situation you are in ... When I did the first time I was your age .. I also did not like it, I can even say that it was some hell .. After I caught a serious friend and tried again .. Several times after my sowing (4-5) I did not feel pleasure, but a slight pain (of course not as a 1-pat) .. and I did it just like that, but over time it started to I like it more and more ... Now I'm 16 and I'm a living nymphomaniac .. for me there is nothing better than sex ... so I will advise you to be scared, relax..and enjoy the moment ...; )))))
Some say the first time is not forgotten, but this is not true. Don't worry about it, of course it hurts, but it's because of the tearing of your hymen, and it almost always hurts. Try not to think about it, after a while find the right person for you and you will see that sex is not just a pain :)
When you meet the right person who is gentle and considerate with you, it won't hurt so much
I advise you not to have sex anymore I have not had SEX yet and I will not do it I am still 10 years old.
I also advise you not to have sex at this age, you are not yet developed enough, wait at least 2-3 years and then try.
Hi, I want to tell you: I'm almost 17, my first time was hell for me, horror with my friend we go almost 2 years. and let me tell you, it was hell, we first tried (yes he did) with our fingers, but I just died, so I got drunk like an ASS, with an apology and so on, the next time I also hurt a little, but when you catch a serious friend and he training will stop hurting you, calm down.
13 years old?!?! Maybe at this age you should have thought more about it and then waited to develop, but ... it's over. The colic to the pain - it is completely normal that you have been in a lot of pain. Each time the pain will decrease. And if you find a serious friend who loves you and is nice to you, sex will be a pleasure. Success!
I want to share my story I was 14 and I started having wet dreams that over time became a reality! But the first time was not the most pleasant and it's been 1 year and the pain continues! I went to a gynecologist and he said I'm not open yet!
Abe, I don't know how old you were, but at 13 you were still early !!
Well, I'm almost 15 and I did it a few weeks ago, but the man I did it with was super gentle and careful so I need to relax and be sure of the person, it's very important .. try the pain is worth it .. and fuck no one has died from this pain so far, it is definitely worth it and in the beginning it is normal because it is a muscle that needs to expand.
as far as I understand ..you had sex under duress ..and who would like that ?! It is normal to have a slight pain. There is nothing to wait for to develop, if your body wants it .. do it! And if your friend is careful enough and manages to arouse you in the best way .. relax .. it won't hurt! Remember the most important thing .. do it with a person you love!
I really want to do it with my boyfriend, but when he tries with more fingers he gets sick (once yes once not) .. and then I see that I have a small sore outside..at the entrance.And in fact it hurts because of her when she touch. Please help me, what can I do ??
At 13, it's really mn rno. I did it a few days ago, and I'm 21. I've never been in a hurry with that. There have been many guys who have offered me, but I did not feel that any of them is the person I want to be with. My friend and I have been dating for 6 months. There have been many moments when I wanted to do it, but still something stopped me. I knew everything in theory, but it is my practice :) The first time we tried it hurt a lot because I could not relax and gave up, but at least I had some idea. the next day we were guests , where I drank 1 glass of red wine and then we tried again :) it went very well. again there was a slight pain, but it was short-lived. there was some blood, but not as much as I thought. whom I felt pain, I said to myself that this is the person I want to do it with and I allowed it in myself. if you meet the right person, the experience for you will be completely different;)
What can I say, I'm 15 years old and I still haven't done it myself. I already know who the person I want to be with for the first time is. But he is much older than me, he is 32 years old and I don't know what to do. He doesn't pressure me to do it, but I feel kind of indebted. After all, he's 32, not 16, 17 or 18. I'm scared. Please give me advice!
She decided to do it on the 13th noo why did you choose a person who only wants sex .....? I think the first time is not forgotten or at least not so easy ... :)))))
"What can I say, I'm 15 years old and I still haven't done it myself. I already know who the person I want to be with for the first time is. But he's a lot older than me, he's 32 years old and I don't know what to do. I'm not pressuring me to do it, but I feel kind of indebted. He's still 32, not 16, 17 or 18. I'm scared. Please give me some advice! " Before you do something stupid, think carefully..What future can you have with this person. to want this perverted 32 year old man from a 15 year old girl besides sex .. !!?
What can I say, I'm 15 years old and I still haven't done it myself. I already know who the person I want to be with for the first time is. But he is much older than me, he is 32 years old and I don't know what to do. He doesn't pressure me to do it, but I feel kind of indebted. After all, he's 32, not 16, 17 or 18. I'm scared. Please give me advice! I'm sorry to tell you, but you'll be 20 and he's 50, so what are you going to do? :)
I want to ask for advice. I looked at a lot of sites where I realized that as long as you exercise and play sports, everything will be fine, it won't hurt and there won't be much blood. Please tell me what exercises to try because I want the first time to be perfect :) please also explain to me whether the pain will be very great or bearable and whether there will really be a lot of blood :). Please help. Thanks in advance :)
You definitely made a lot of mistakes when you only had sex when you were 13!
you didn't make a mistake at all you just didn't choose the right one !! AND FOR YOU !! THE GIRL WANTS ADVICE, SHE HAS ALREADY MADE IT, WHY ARE YOU JUDGING HER SO YOU ARE NOT PERFECT !!
Hah ... I was 13 when I did it, but I'm not in pain or bleeding ... Thank you for being scared, I can't judge you, because I was your age, as I mentioned, but with the difference that I did it with a person we loved and continue to love! Regarding your question: I don't think it will hurt you anymore unless you have a too narrow pelvis (in this case it will hurt you 1-2 more times) or if the boy hasn't opened you properly! Do not regret what you did, if you wanted it, then it should have happened! :) 32
I want to ask is there a possibility of getting pregnant when he was wearing a condom and yet he pulled it out earlier than the evacuation?
Number 17 I'm already 16 years old and I would suggest you not to do it with a 32 year old man. Somehow he doesn't bond, because you're still 15 and he's 32. better try with someone 17 or 18
That's why people keep telling people like you that they will be sorry .. but NO .. you have to do it .. you are just starting to change and you have started to do something that you have no experience from? Well, the first time no one has experience but of course you will you are in pain and you will bleed and this is the least ... at least did you use a condom .. that you will have such problems .. wait at least at 16-17 to get up !!