Hello, I am a 26 year old young, beautiful lady. I have sex with men, a regular sex life, and almost anything I want. But ... there is one but ... I dreamed of women - big, with big breasts, older than me, and I often masturbated over porn, where fat women had sex with each other. In real life, however, this type of woman did not attract me at all, and I thought that everything was just a figment of my imagination, I calmed down. Until the day when I accidentally saw a cute girl in a nearby supermarket. He was about 20 years old, smaller than me, smiling, tender, beautiful, weak. And you may think that I was fascinated by her kindness - an integral part of her job as a shopkeeper, but it is not, I have been thinking about her for many days, I do not feel like I tip her and smile. I can't stop thinking about her strangely pursed lips, her shy eyes, maybe this is her first job, she's 20 and I'm 26. I think about her, I can't deny it. Until yesterday, I would ask "Is it right? ”And today I ask“ How? ”. How can I take her off, what can I say, I'm ashamed of myself, I wouldn't hurt her, maybe I would be afraid that "some old woman" like me, and a woman, says something to her, feels something for her?
Please tell me what to do, how to proceed, something new is really important to me, and I would very much like to talk without intimidating her. It's not even about sex, I want to go to coffee with her, see her up close, hear her talk, get to know her, tell her something, be my friend, and have fun. I hope I don't sound like a crazy lesbian, but I really like this girl… and today I ask “How? ”. How can I take her off, what can I say, I'm ashamed of myself, I wouldn't hurt her, maybe I would be afraid that "some old woman" like me, and a woman, says something to her, feels something for her? Please tell me what to do, how to proceed, something new is really important to me, and I would very much like to talk without intimidating her. It's not even about sex, I want to go to coffee with her, see her up close, hear her talk, get to know her, tell her something, be my friend, and have fun. I hope I don't sound like a crazy lesbian, but I really like this girl… and today I ask “How? ”. How can I take her off, what can I say, I'm ashamed of myself, I wouldn't hurt her, maybe I would be afraid that "some old woman" like me, and a woman, says something to her, feels something for her? Please tell me what to do, how to proceed, something new is really important to me, and I would very much like to talk without intimidating her. It's not even about sex, I want to go to coffee with her, see her up close, hear her talk, get to know her, tell her something, be my friend, and have fun. I hope I don't sound like a crazy lesbian, but I really like this girl… and I would very much like to talk without intimidating her. It's not even about sex, I want to go to coffee with her, see her up close, hear her talk, get to know her, tell her something, be my friend, and have fun. I hope I don't sound like a crazy lesbian, but I really like this girl… and I would very much like to talk without intimidating her. It's not even about sex, I want to go to coffee with her, see her up close, hear her talk, get to know her, tell her something, be my friend, and have fun. I hope I don't sound like a crazy lesbian, but I really like this girl…
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.. you sound and how ..
You don't sound at all! Ignore malicious comments. Your expression that you are "old" makes me laugh, it shows that you have no self-confidence, you just secretly fantasize. You are 26 years old for God's sake, if you already consider yourself old after 10 years, when a beautiful woman is in bloom, you will consider yourself a grandmother. This issue is very complicated, because in our country such feelings and attitudes are not tolerated. They would hardly understand. The girl in question is very young, maybe she has no idea about such feelings, she will be very scared, you should not reveal yourself. It will be best if you meet her as a friend. You can also have a coffee. But you should not be aggressive with your feelings, to share with her what you write to us. She will definitely run away ... You can just communicate with her and once you get to know her you can think about it. I don't know, if your boy is different, you can easily get her phone number, but in these circumstances it is very difficult. You have a Bi orientation, there is nothing wrong or reprehensible about that. I don't know why some people get annoyed. You are not old, on the contrary, now is the time for extreme experiences, but maybe with another girl, more playful, from another environment. You write that the chick in question is timid, modest. Look for another that is bolder and bolder. Tanya
I got excited just reading! Too bad it won't shine on me. Male 28
I support you! And I absolutely agree with Tanya's comment. Meet her, she may not be the right person to really fit your notions of intimacy. There is no reason to be afraid or ashamed. Don't go into too much fantasy, because you will hurt yourself. These are difficult relationships. It also takes a little ingenuity to get to it and get to know it. I wish you good luck!
Nm 3 you are right. Unfortunately, however, another lesbian and as long as you justify the opposite. It is not normal. At 26, a young, clumsy woman (as she says) and doesn't know what she wants. Pity.
To number 5. Which is not normal? That she liked a person of the same sex to fall in love with? She knows very well what she wants - to experience what it is like to be with a woman. We live in a free, democratic country, the sexual revolution is long gone and everyone has the right to fall in love and have sex with whomever they want, as long as it doesn't hurt the other. It's not normal for people to be so rigid and just wave a finger when they don't like something. She is not yet a lesbian, but if she has sex with another woman, she will not become a lower quality person. We have to defend ourselves, why hide, be afraid of other people's opinion. I recently read again on this site about a man who dreams of a threesome with his wife and another man. Is this very correct? And everyone defended him. The fact that the author liked this girl does not make her another lesbian, she has felt a thrill that you can't imagine, so you don't accept it. To the author - you are mature enough to make your own decision, not to listen to others. And yet it excites them ...
HORROR !!! Girl, get well ....
He complimented her and noticed how she reacted. It's really hard to tell if a girl likes the same sex, but you just have to watch her reactions. Maybe her politeness is just a matter of her politeness. So, you can try the fact that you think she's very nice and would like to go out for coffee. If he agrees perfectly, if not ... accept him with a smile and move on!
Maybe you're not in love, but you're just curious what it's like to be with a woman. Anyway approach carefully, the girl may be startled. I agree with number 2, try the approach with friendship. If nothing else, at least you can become friends - it's still something. Success! --- Jesse ---
Bray very wrong people in such a small country ...