Hello dear readers. I have the following case. 2 years ago I went with a girl for 3-4 months. I am now 25, she is a year younger than me. I was 1st in many things. Our relationship was very turbulent and emotional. Finally, to be honest, I have no idea why we broke up. I was looking for her a lot and I didn't want to part with her at all. It blocked my FB, as well as my phone number (the FC is still blocked, I haven't tried the number). I also wrote one last e-mail then, to which I attached an e-mail opening counter. She had opened it 6-7 times in 24 hours, but that's it. In the e-mail, I simply wished success in the future. I wonder, she was a cool girl, shouldn't I write her an e-mail on the occasion of March 8, for example? Or her name day? Or birthday and day? 4 months after we broke up, we ran into each other by accident. We passed without saying a word. He unblocked my number for a week somewhere and then blocked it again (I saw it on Viber, I didn't write anything). At the time we were going, she was telling me that no matter how much she wanted to look for me, she wouldn't do it, because ... I don't remember the reason she gave me. I don't want to date her. Although my relationship with her was one of the most beautiful things that ever happened to me. There is no point in being together, because at least I was so in love with her that I was not on my own. I don't want this to happen to me again. I am also aware that even if we start communicating again, nothing will happen, because after her I had other girlfriends. She will consider it an infidelity on my part and will not want to hear me if she understands it. It bothered her that I had many girlfriends. He was very jealous of me. By this I want to emphasize that I am not desperate. It was just that this girl was different. She was an extremely wonderful creature that I would not go with again. Even then he didn't have to. This type of girls do not deserve a man like me ... Thank you for your attention and I will enjoy adequate advice and reflection. P. P I will probably write to her.
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Are you crazy? Or do you just not have dignity? I would live in the future and I would not go back. And if I spot her on the street, I will say hello to her and even if she stops, I will ask how she is, I will answer her something positive and bye. F32
Not bad to congratulate her on her 8th birthday. You lose nothing. There are 2 options - either he will block you, or he will act like a normal person and give thanks. If it blocks you, then it's just a vicious person who can't even say a thank you. That would disgust me. I didn't succeed, but at least you can't appreciate that I remembered the date and took the time to congratulate you? I would be happy if someone I was with remembered after a while and remembered my birthday. And even if he congratulated me, I would still be happy, even if I wasn't with him. One has to be more broad-minded and not so petty as to harbor malice for years and pass each other on the street.
You better not call her and don't look for her. What happened - happened. She went on her way and she went on hers. That's how I had an ex, we broke up, I wrote to her only after months of total eclipse. And finally what-nothing. In fact, we both felt sick. I had just shaken off everything and with a few words on the messenger I remembered all the good and bad things and why we actually broke up. I was very upset and angry that I had started contacting her again.
How to set this counter?
I can't believe you don't remember why she did it. And if there really is no reason, then do not deal with freaks.