only then did they look for me, because they obviously need time to get to know a person. I understand this, but then how can I get acquainted with any of them, when they do not give a drop of chance, they almost do not respond to one hello. So I really don't know what to do, what approach should I have? I can't start my approach because I can't say a word to them. Please advice, I am already very desperate.
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Don't chase them so much and don't put them on such a big pedestal.
Hello! I read your problem and felt obliged to tell you that I personally receive more and more messages on Facebook from boys, most of whom I do not even know and do not answer. I don't like 1. that we meet on Facebook and 2. I conclude that the social life of this boy is expressed in writing messages to as many girls as possible, in the hope that someone will answer and more precisely - yes tie to him, so to speak :) (I express an opinion and I do not want to affect you in any way) So .. my advice to you is to smile and resort to Facebook, for example, if you see that a girl likes you or looks at you at all because it will make her infinitely happy. I mean, even if I don't respond to these acquaintances, their messages inspire confidence, and if they're from someone, whom I know or with whom I had fun during the day, the better, and then I will answer him 100 percent :) You have to be confident, smiling, kind and complimenting, but not something worn out and dirty .. I hope that you understood me and good luck! :)
I don't know how old you are, but if you are still studying, study a lot, graduate higher, which is worth studying, and tomorrow, when you have money, you will have everything. I don't know from experience, because I'm still a graduate, but my cousin lives a salary of 4,000 euros and every day is different! But obviously you have to change nothing in yourself. Be more open, don't be ashamed, be funny and if you want something serious with a girl just don't deal with dumb pieces!
With this attitude, it is normal to have no success. Give a little more positive! Work on yourself (I'm talking about a way of thinking specifically)!
If you are weak, well, if you are anxious, this is a problem, find the mistake in yourself (if there is one) and whether you have many friends does not matter. If they are slimy, do not say goodbye and greetings
Did you give them any reason not to avoid? Don't care at all and don't worry about it. Look for some dating opportunities, and don't just write to random girls.
The answers to your questions are in one book - The Law of Attraction of Esther and Jerry Hicks (available online). That's how I solved my problem. But keep in mind that you must first, necessarily and exclusively emphasize the exercises for concentration of thought, otherwise everything else becomes meaningless. This will help you in other areas of life as well. I succeeded thanks to this book, you succeeded too. It sounded a bit like a teleshop ad, but it's true. :)
Train :) if you will calm down, when someone writes to me and sometimes I don't even bother to see who I'm writing with and when I'm busy then I answer otherwise I don't bother :))))
I had written but apparently they didn't publish it for me .. So, I wanted to say that you should be a little more insistent, but in a cool way. There is a boy from our class and he just hugs us and writes to us. at first we thought he was dumb, but now we girls like him and want him with us. The conclusion is - talk to them NOT ONLY on Facebook. And be a little more insistent. And one more thing, do not turn only to the girls, not to get bad: e
Hello friend! And I was in your position 3 years ago. I had no female friends, they ignored me anyway. In general, I am not one of those who go to parties, discos and the like. But suddenly a girl appeared who, like me, was ignored by most boys. It wasn't ugly, on the contrary. She was nice but too direct. She said out loud everything that was on her mind, and as you can guess, people don't like that these days. The first time we saw this girl we fell in love. It was obvious and needed no explanation. We were like each other. We had a wonderful and nice relationship until she created a Facebook profile (but that's another question) So let's get back to the topic. As soon as I went with her, I immediately started getting solid female attention. These same girls, who until recently ignored me began to pay me unprecedented attention. I can even say that I even got fat. My male friends also gained more respect and increased their number dramatically. In fact, I was the same. And as a way of dressing and as a way of expressing everything else. It's just that their attitude towards me has changed. The girls always envied her for being with me and wanted to be in her place, seeing how much love I showered on her. The boys were always angry that almost "he" had found a boyfriend before us. The advice I will give you is never, BUT NEVER meet a girl on Facebook *. And second, never show that you are desperate or lack confidence. Keep up. Communicate with the girls, but do not imply that you like them until they show some signals about it. Show them you're cool, independent and you will see how they will start to push you. * Once I accidentally logged into my boyfriend's Facebook profile because she had used it on my computer and had not logged out of it. I was tempted to look at the chats and (I know, a stupid teenage act) I was horrified by the vulgar suggestions that various strangers had made to her. Things like "Do you want to ... Do you want to do it" and so on. Of course she had put them in their place! But imagine how this affects the female psyche when it is daily and annoying. When it almost makes you feel like a commodity, not a human being. Find out for yourself why they don't answer you in the chat. Greetings! And good luck :) I was tempted to look at the chats and (I know, a stupid teenage act) I was horrified by the vulgar suggestions that various strangers had made to her. Things like "Do you want to ... They wanted to give it to you" and so on. Of course she had put them in their place! But imagine how this affects the female psyche when it is daily and annoying. When it almost makes you feel like a commodity, not a human being. Find out for yourself why they don't answer you in the chat. Greetings! And good luck :) I was tempted to look at the chats and (I know, a silly teenage act) I was horrified by the vulgar suggestions that various strangers had made to her. Things like "Do you want to ... Do you want to do it" and so on. Of course she had put them in their place! But imagine how this affects the female psyche when it is daily and annoying. When it almost makes you feel like a commodity, not a human being. Draw your own conclusions as to why they don't answer you in the chat. Greetings! And good luck :) When it almost makes you feel like a commodity, not a human being. Draw your own conclusions as to why they don't answer you in the chat. Greetings! And good luck :) When it almost makes you feel like a commodity, not a human being. Draw your own conclusions as to why they don't answer you in the chat. Greetings! And good luck :)
Be more careless ... Show a slight hint that you like a girl and if she is interested she will start paying attention to you :)
Don't look at the girls. Study, graduate and they will come on their own :) Learning now is the most important thing for her.