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The Good Ones!

By jerryaurum August 12, 2020 50 answers Last updated August 12, 2020

Hello, I want to share my story with you. I also want to get advice from you (mostly women). My question is where do I go wrong in my relationship with the opposite sex. I'm a 23-year-old man, and every girl I've had a relationship with has left me with the words, "You're too good for me," "I'm not getting up," or "You deserve better." What the hell? !? One of the girls dumped me because of a drunk who cursed her in front of everyone at work (she is a waitress). And she put up with it. And he was the mega ugly guy! I say this in terms of the fact that I have been going to the gym for years, and I have a body. He didn't even have a job. And I work and study Business Economics. I can't understand why I'm being dumped because of such degraded and hopeless types. Do I have to act like L *** o to be respected? I can't understand why I'm alone forever, but their attitude offends me. How do I proceed from here to Dad? Give guidance ladies! PP Dear moderators, I will be grateful if you publish my story :) Thank you in advance. but their attitude offends me. How do I proceed from here to Dad? Give guidance ladies! PP Dear moderators, I will be grateful if you publish my story :) Thank you in advance.

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skylarcrossfire answered · August 12, 2020

   I think the girls' words are just standard, they want to dump you without hurting you. You don't share anything more important, but the main reasons a woman dumps you for no reason are 1. You're bored You don't say anything about your lifestyle, but there are women who love gigi-bijito, others love various excursions, third social events and gatherings and I know - you just do not choose the right ones for your hobbies and activities 2. Sex is not good and / or boring A woman will never say, 99% even simulate in bed, but a long-term relationship with any healthy woman without satisfying sex is not possible. Erection or irregular sex problems are especially depressing for a woman. 3. You neglect her because of friends and you have your own life. This behavior is very irritating. Chat-pat is OK, but there are men who continue to live single 4. You suffocate her. You just don't leave your partner alone. 5. You think she's perfect? you suggest various complexes I know a lot of guys who just grumble - look at your hair, you're full, how you dressed and the like. 6. Your girls are not very educated, and you flaunt your education ... or all the factors together! As for what you study - I myself am an economist, but I have not heard of such a science as "business economics"? What kind of animal is this and where is such a specialty? but have I not heard of such a Science as "business economics"? What kind of animal is this and where is such a specialty? but have I not heard of such a Science as "business economics"? What kind of animal is this and where is such a specialty?

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falgunipeacock answered · August 12, 2020

   Please DO NOT change! There are 1 in 100 decent guys like you. Obviously you haven't found the right one, but there are a lot of girls who are looking for just such good guys. I am living proof. You just have to be patient and not look for them in the chalgoteks, because you will definitely not find something worthwhile there. Good luck. :)

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thatssoraven2727 answered · August 12, 2020

   Well, obviously the girls you deal with are still the same type. Try something more modest.

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stephanielee199 answered · August 12, 2020

   Be what you are. It may sound cliché, but we all live only once. There is only "now". I think the problem is that you've dated women who really aren't for you. There is only one solution. An intelligent and smart friend who respects you before she likes you.

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watchus1112 answered · August 12, 2020

   Girls, when they start a relationship, often subconsciously take on the role of mother. If you are good, they have nothing to do with you, nothing to teach you, to educate. And you have nowhere else to develop personally, which implies stagnation. While with a drunk there will be a show, dynamics, gatherings, sections, dramas, tears, snot, conclusions about how bad ALL men are, they will have an incentive to educate and thus subconsciously perform their function, and so they will turn out to be the victims - Supposedly they are very kind and perfect, but you see men are animals and doom them to suffering. Not that they will be able to complete their task, but the role itself will satisfy them. At some point they will get tired of such men, of the pain, of the lack of future and security, and they will stumble upon the good. But you're so tired of joffrey,

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rasmusjersborg answered · August 12, 2020

   Dude, choosing a girl for a serious relationship needs a lot of things to look at. I am a few years older than you and I can say that fortunately or not, the bad experience has opened my eyes to some extent. What do I mean? When I was 18-20 I was super naive and I thought that all girls are accurate and good, and infidelity and materialism are only in the movies and happen very rarely. In the next few years, however, I realized the opposite. I became quite careful and learned to judge a girl first and only then to do anything. I don't like to generalize, but I generally try to stay away from waitresses, cashiers, etc., unless they are students. Why, but because most of them are girls with low education and culture, whose only goal is for a village defender to take them to GOUFA and take them to the mall. I repeat, not everyone is like that, but the probability of making a mistake there is very high if you are not careful. Those who rely on their boyfriend to support them and hardly work because something is still wrong with them are also not an offer. In general, make sure that the girl has a good education, a good job and goals in life, other than wandering the streets and hanging out on the chalgoteks. It is also important not to be a liaison that mom and dad push hard in life. This is generally the case. Not that you still can't be disappointed, but at least you spend a lot of muffins before anything happens. other than wandering the streets and hanging on the chalgoteks. It is also important not to be a liaison that mom and dad push hard in life. This is generally the case. Not that you still can't be disappointed, but at least you lose a lot of muffins before anything happens. other than wandering the streets and hanging on the chalgoteks. It is also important not to be a liaison that mom and dad push hard in life. This is generally the case. Not that you still can't be disappointed, but at least you spend a lot of muffins before anything happens.

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andrea_sexlat answered · August 13, 2020

   It is obvious where you are wrong, you are too kind, too soft and servile to women. Give it hard and nepukistki, do not comply with their whims, do not ask them where they go, lead them, be proactive, burst them with gossip without caring. I guess the chicks you date are beautiful. The thing is that with beautiful women, unlike the average (and with most women) you have to act back to logic, that is, with the usual dumps, romance, etc. does not work. Such women are accustomed to male attention, and they are so tired of someone licking their legs that they are just bored. They are looking for a man who is different, who does not chase them like a stray dog, does not please them, does not behave so kindly, but on the contrary, someone who will tease them constantly, will not take into account whether they will feel bad. Especially young muffins fall in matchmaking behavior. I will give you a fresh example from my present. A very beautiful woman, my colleague from work, who I took off during the winter and cut me off, but I didn't care and I accepted it calmly. Then I started to ignore her, but not rudely. Gradually we became closer and I started to express my sexuality properly, to joke with it and to literally do it for nothing, a behavior that not every woman would tolerate. The result now is that she sets my phone on fire, constantly chases me, flirts like crazy, I think she's even in love, but I'll torture her a little more and then have sex until I faint, but there will be no retreat from my positions. I literally have fun with her, even now as I write she calls me to ask how I am, constantly teases me, says she's out of underwear and says everything: "I want you". That's the way, dude, believe it or not. You don't have to behave badly, but it's important to lead them, not to put them on a pedestal, the word is also called "dump", that is, you take it off the pedestal on which it climbed on its own and various naive men put it on. Try it and say, I guarantee you success!

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lady____a answered · August 13, 2020

   People have said: "Fight to be respected!" ... I do not advise you to be guided by this maxim, but sometimes such extreme measures are necessary. Personally, I was both good and bad, and in the end I decided that it was still better to stay good. Now I have found the man and I feel good. My advice is to stay the way you are, but if you want you can try the other side and make sure I'm right. I am sure you will meet the right person so patience and success!

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pelirroja95 answered · August 13, 2020

   Well, let me tell you, you come across people who don't like you or idiots. The totality is more or less, to the extent said by the previous ones, one has some understandings, another another. But understand that the woman has to run after the man and that is your mistake. The man provides physical protection, carries the money, she must deserve it. However, do not be rubbish and do not test them, as for the most secretive mission. For a serious relationship or not, this should guide you. Were you in love with those you are talking about now or did you have a relationship and at one point you were told? In my opinion, you shouldn't be a nepukist, but if you see that she thinks that men owe her for the first step, for the second, for something ... because she is a woman, you will get to the current situation. You are important.

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bridgestone answered · August 14, 2020

   The author Thank you for the answers so far! Number 1- Tru Stz majoring in Business Economics (I was totally wrong with the choice of university) but that's another topic. Boring? !! I do not know maybe. However, I do not have the finances and time of someone who is supported by his family. I don't think to ignore or suffocate her. I'm not narrow-minded, nor will I dump her when she needs me. But another issue is that I am too attached to their nonsense (a side effect of a good character) Complexes do not. I'm not a bastard or a sadist. For education, yes, they are not more than average. Of course, I'm not sinless, but there are no such people. I may be lame in sex. Number 7-I think completely described me with the first few lines.

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brownblossom answered · August 14, 2020

   Listen number 7, he told you things very well :) M, 36

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seyfrieddd answered · August 14, 2020

   From 1 - I don't know, but I think you're confusing something we can't know. The fact that it happens to different women - you either choose the wrong women and you have to change your strategy, or you have to change. As for your studies - a waste of time, do not be angry, but it is. It is better to stop and catch a trade, it does not have to be higher, because this university is semi-legitimate, and the specialty is pure pornography. You can work, then enroll in a normal university by correspondence. I myself regularly graduated from a very good university, supporting myself. Its possible! At that time I also met my husband, with whom we have been together for 12 years. One does not interfere with the other. Your specialty just sounds interesting and attractive to people who do not understand economics. As an employer, I would not even invite a person with such a fictional specialty from such a university for an interview. It's not your fault, our state is just stupid that it hasn't closed such universities for a long time, and young people are wasting time and money!

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mayho10 answered · August 15, 2020

   I think that these words in our language (female) mostly mean "I'm bored with you". You're just not looking for suitable women, obviously. They want a rougher, more relaxed (that's what they call him), a rude unscrupulous stripper - all of this is what some women call a "man." These women find it slimy to be courted by a man, because they are usually used to offering themselves to men, flowers and kind words seem to be some outdated crazy tradition. You ask yourself why she got drunk - because she likes to be "courted" like that. Can't you see how everyone is looking for some unexperienced thrills, families are falling apart because of some imaginary thrill, people in their 30s, 40s and 50s are still experiencing themselves as teenagers because you see they were missing something. It is clear what such people lack, but why do you aim at such people? Like someone polite, a modest, good-natured girl who fits your character. Are you looking for a "bitch" so you don't get bored? Think seriously about what kind of women you fall in love with and whether you are also looking for some unexperienced thrill with a woman "without restraint". If you are looking, it is time to experience it and then find someone who is worth the search.

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angel_eyees answered · August 15, 2020

   agree with numbers 1 and 13 - the girls politely want to get rid of you without offending you and use standard phrases. the more difficult question is what actually repulses them. here, unfortunately, we can only guess because we do not know you. you can be really boring - don't take offense, there are men like that. they are good, meek, they go to you. and, however, they do not have a gram of their own opinion, you have to take them by the hand everywhere, they are even sticky, of which there is not a gram of personal time. I do not mean financial opportunities, but other qualities. do you have hobbies and interests have you read enough to have an intelligent conversation on various topics? of course, this would make sense to girls on the same level, if they are dumb muffins, things are clear. F42

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mikejames7 answered · August 15, 2020

   There are a lot of good comments here. Dude, don't change! Be good, but of course don't put women on a pedestal. Men are no different from us. If you accept them as anything other than your male friends, you will succeed. As you fuck you and they want the same. And why do they dump? Well, because the ones you came across were really dumb pieces. Everyone chooses their own life in my opinion. You offered these girls something quality and they refused it because they chose another life - to go with a face, for example. Well, they did you a favor. You can only thank them. You don't need such a person, you need a babe who wants the same as you. And whether you will find you can not know - God's work, but even if you fail - keep searching and most of all learn to be happy alone and love yourself, the rest will only come one day

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pschile answered · August 16, 2020

   I'm number 7 again. Dude, head up, you don't care, just learn to be tough with women and not accept being treated like a second-hand man. My personal belief, coming from experience, of course, that when you hold fast to women, they subconsciously feel that you will be firm in bed. If you are soft with them, respectively ... you are soft in bed. There is nothing to lie about, for us sex is fun, but for them it is a cult. What do I mean by telling you not to let yourself be treated badly? It's just that a beautiful woman is looking for a strong man who keeps to herself, even at the cost of a firm and slightly bordering on rudeness when necessary. Keep in mind that women generalize with clues that they collect about you from your behavior. They often theatrical to see how far they will be allowed to go. A simple test that almost every woman puts you through, for example, is to see if you will always be available. If you let her lead from the very beginning, take everything into account with her, in the end it turns out exactly as you described. Another simple test is to see if you are servile in front of them (here they make you carry their bags, help them with this or that, make muzzles to see if you are tied to their numbers). You should not care at all and serve them !!! The woman needs to know her place, if she starts with the numbers you put her in her place. I'm not saying to be rude and misbehave, but this relationship is built by two people. If a woman treats me badly, I immediately show her a red card. Sounds rude and sorry for the comparison, but I make an analogy with dogs. When you raise a dog, you do not pamper it, but you give it rewards. In this sense, give flowers, be kind, open the doors, be a gentleman, but let her remember that this is because she won you over with good and kind behavior, not you her. That is, in a relationship there should be synergy, there should be giving on both sides. and Miss World if she behaves badly and refuses to change - bye. If he tries to mentor you and teach you how to live, how to behave, how to dress - bye. Keep in mind that women do this all the time, especially with men like me, because they live under the illusion that they will change me. Because I drink, smoke, watch sports, eat greasy crumbs, go out with friends, have hobbies, etc., many women have tried to give me a twist in life, but the moment I gritted my teeth and not take a lesson afterwards say goodbye forever. Don't give everything to one woman! Be calm and confident. Women smell fear and insecurity, because they are terribly intuitive. Have self-control and don't get attached when you find anything interesting. Remember that all women are born actresses, and their stage is life, where they play their plays. If you attach yourself to their nonsense, you burn. Never demonstrate behavior such as "you are unique and irreplaceable." The woman must be afraid of losing you, not her. Successful relationships and marriages are those in which the woman loves the man and is ready for anything for him. Where roles are reversed, sooner or later the relationship breaks down. Rejoice that this has happened to you because you are young and if you learn your lessons, you will end up winning something better. You want to be happy, to have a family and children one day. Therefore, you will not be content to just have a wife, but to have a woman who loves you, who clings to you and does not behave, as mentioned above. Be grateful to the girls who dumped you because they were honest with you, but because you were brought up to please and obey women, you took everything into account with them. Finally, here is the result. You think logically that once you've been good, it shouldn't happen, but the thing is, you've lost your personality in these girls. It repelled them in you. They know that you are good, moreover, they know that you are tied in a towel. Accordingly, you have become boring and too predictable for them. The woman always wants to have intrigue, to create emotions. Women are too emotional, and it has become too routine with you. These young ladies, although unborn, have a maternal instinct, which is often awakened by someone who is a bad boy, a gamena who will be rude to her, will shout at her, will cheat on her. Number 5 described exactly that to you. Now for the sex. It is very important when you start a relationship to perform well the first time, to get her air from orgasms. In order to avoid fouls (it happened to me with a solid amount of alcohol), when I have a new mistress, I try to drink moderately and take some sex stimulants to fuck her all night. Don't take Viagra, you're too young, something lighter, but the idea here is, not that you have a problem, but to literally turn off the electricity. To fuck her like no one before you. Do this, fuck her from sex all night and I guarantee she'll go crazy over you. I try to drink moderately and take some sex stimulants to fuck her all night. Don't take Viagra, you're too young, something lighter, but the idea here is, not that you have a problem, but to literally turn off the electricity. To fuck her like no one before you. Do this, fuck her from sex all night and I guarantee she'll go crazy over you. I try to drink moderately and take some sex stimulants to fuck her all night. Don't take Viagra, you're too young, something easier, but the idea here is, not that you have a problem, but to literally turn off the power. To fuck her like no one before you. Do this, fuck her from sex all night and I guarantee she'll go crazy over you.

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tomasatoransky answered · August 16, 2020

   Listen №16, the dude said everything you need to know about dumps and women, there are many truths. Personally, I have come to the same conclusions, of course, after suffering a lot of times and I realized that if a woman finds out that you are in love with her and do everything for her, you become boring, predictable and the end comes. Women love the thrill, the unexpected, if, for example, you are available every time, you also carry bags and other things that I see a lot on the streets, consider the connection exhausted. The woman needs to know that she can be replaced at any time, this is exactly what will keep her away from infidelity and trickery. And this is true of sex, women hold a LOT of it, which says that sex does not matter lies to you, just for them it is a sacred thing. If you die there, you burn. In short, don't let the woman drool, they do, in order to beat you if you are soft and if they will be able to get on your head, they are like children, you have to show them that you are serious and you shouldn't change them otherwise you will win their respect very quickly. Good luck and hopefully our advice will help you, I was in your situation and all I know now is after a lot of bitter failures before I found out the truth!

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karanvgrover answered · August 16, 2020

   I was wondering if he should join, I will try, and if you will understand .... When we tell you the truth, usually: 1. You join a passive defense mode or an open attack. 2. You categorically deny 3. You start to convince that you will change and you usually succeed .... in 2-3 weeks. 4. You blame us for the above "male" comments. We know this, and since it is a waste of time, nerves and energy for us, we prefer to end in a neutral way, taking "guilt" (you are too good / you are not your reason, I am .. etc.) I will give you an example! I broke up with an ex in a similar way. I tried to tell him once, he told me that I had suggested nonsense, that I could hardly get mad. Shortly after that, I pretended to be "slightly hooked by so many suggestions" that he was kind and would find a better one. Well, find it. Until recently, I was in daily scandals with his wife for the same reason I was trying to point out as a mistake. He kept accusing her of the same thing, she was a bitch. At the moment they are divorcing, and the poor man had no idea what happened to his wife that she would not even explain to him why. I am happily married, and my ex is telling my husband that he shouldn't have let me go. Unlike his weary wife, you see, I was a "woman on the spot." So ... open your ears, men, and listen. We are talking. And we talk. Finally, we stop talking, but we leave. If we leave ... only the more naive return. that she wouldn't even explain to him why. I am happily married, and my ex is telling my husband that he shouldn't have let me go. Unlike his weary wife, you see, I was a "woman on the spot." So ... open your ears, men, and listen. We are talking. And we talk. Finally, we stop talking, but we leave. If we leave ... only the more naive return. that she wouldn't even explain to him why. I am happily married, and my ex is telling my husband that he shouldn't have let me go. Unlike his weary wife, you see, I was a "woman on the spot." So ... open your ears, men, and listen. We are talking. And we talk. Finally, we stop talking, but we leave. If we leave ... only the more naive return.

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adonis_kayne answered · August 16, 2020

   Number 16, from everything you've written so far, I conclude that you're a complete asshole.

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yelyahwilliams answered · August 17, 2020

   ;))) now I read n 16 and laughed a lot. He still laughs .... Ah men, men ... and then you wonder what happened like that.

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bellngasri answered · August 17, 2020

   Be arrogant with moderation, keep your position and distance, don't look for her on the phone first, pretend to be crazy. Be inaccessible, they are interested. Don't care too much what he tells you. Her opinion is less important, you are important, you are number 1. Speak calmly, be balanced, look straight into the eyes, into the pupils, without blinking and you will see the effect. Be alpha, don't give up easily, just add a little dose of arrogance, unpredictability, arrogance if you will. Now the women who will criticize me, those who enjoy only good guys, will not take into account my opinion :) greetings! Author try and tell me! and remember, "If you chase them, you run, if you run, they chase you."

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amigos20anos answered · August 17, 2020

   So far you are all right! Especially the guy under number 7-16 (the others also only that he did it more widely) Really looking at what is written and I see the guilt in myself. At first I bragged to friends that I didn't have an ugly girl. The truth is, they were muffins. Secondly, I have fully taken on the role of the good boy. Which, as 7-16 said, makes me boring. Thinking about my last relationship (I'm even ashamed to call it that - a month and a half) I find a lot of mistakes on my part. Add to that the fact that the girl in question dumped me, and after 6 months she asked us to get back together. And I was ready. (In a towel - tied as it was written). I just give myself a red card to myself! The moment she asked for it and I agreed, I felt I was making a mistake. In my eyes I even looked bored. Hmmm Thank you people. I will have to work on myself a lot. Regarding number 1 - and I'm thinking about this option and under a real university Svishtov is ideal :))

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katieprice answered · August 17, 2020

   Number 7/16 - at first your arrogant feminist attitude irritated me a little, but in fact you are HELL right and as a woman I confirm what you said. There is a man like the author - kind, kind, he will do whatever I say, he is literally tied in a towel. He writes to me all the time, he wants us to go out, etc. Well, I can't take him for more than a friend. No excitement, no play, chasing, dumping, flirting if you will. As it is very easy - not interesting. On the other hand, there's another man who likes me, but he doesn't like my ass that much, he's been pretty dumb at times, and I fall for him. Here now I expect the misogynists on the site to start with "all women are whores and garbage", "we poor good guys" and "bad stupid women who only like rude people, etc.", but you are not right. It's not about behaving like total assholes - it's as repulsive as behaving like loyal puppies. There must be some balance between the two - to behave well, but also to maintain the interest of the woman. Author, listen to number 7, that's exactly what success told you.

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afamilitar answered · August 18, 2020

   I'm number 7/16. Number 19, in that job, is what you think of me. I know that women hate men like me, but I also know that men like me wet them. I was also a kind and naive dude, but I learned my lesson and now I live my life without being fucked by any chickens.

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alex_albon answered · August 18, 2020

   I'm number 7/16. Author, rejoice that it has happened to you now, because you are only 23, life is ahead of you. Almost every woman wants to be controlled, but under control you do not mean to suffocate her, but to have respect, to respect and appreciate you. Many men devalue themselves with servile behavior, but the paradox is that it is this behavior that repulses women. The important thing now is that you will start with a new approach and sooner or later the real one will appear. You already know the lesson. Success!

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myhornyaesthetic answered · August 18, 2020

   №19, full ass, but WALKING ass, unlike the author.

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lilemily_ answered · August 18, 2020

   27, .... these are the fantasies of an asshole, he is so confused already that he makes neither a connection nor a difference from reality. H 16, if you do not come out of this fictional world of yours, you will remain a virgin;)))

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ounousa answered · August 18, 2020

   Hmmm, he was a walking ass, but he was walking in front of WHO ??? In front of some muffins - OK. But it will NEVER pass before me! To carry a fat man who only watches sports on TV, eats crumbs and drinks beer - no thanks! I want a HEALTHY and LONG-TERM ass, so his NOT going with women like me at all ... And they are a pain, don't be afraid! So he walked in front of quality women, but the next time!

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thecurvyfashionista_ answered · August 19, 2020

   Yes, we're not saying that 7/16 is also arrogant, except for a lazy and lazy ass, so you tell your grandmother how horny he is - she may believe you!

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kris_ray answered · August 19, 2020

   NO, author, for God's sake DO NOT LISTEN 7/16 or you will NOT find a quality woman ... Be what you are and look for quality ....

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lunastar6 answered · August 19, 2020

   I was in the same situation in my last relationship. I was always good, kind, I did everything for her. At first she told me I was the best, what pink things. She had told her best friend / colleague that she had not met a man like me, etc. Exactly 2-3 months passed and everything went wrong. When I told her she was very nice, the answer was something like "it's when you said something else about me". I did a lot for her, but she told me "what have you done so much for me", she started to treat me badly, and I made the mistake of treating her even better, she made her even worse and so on. You remember how it all ended. Then she looked for me, she had changed, etc. I connected and the same movie again in 2 months. I can still talk a lot, but it doesn't make sense. Only men should comment here, women, as in life, I think that they tell the truth by telling you that they are looking for the good and the kind, but they always find themselves with the one who is bad and rude to them. Let's not all, but 95% of women are. I know you think you're telling the truth, but it's not really like you always don't know what you want, you just think you know. You are doing the boy a disservice by telling him not to change unless he wants to have many female friends, but to be alone in the end. Of course, you don't have to be rude and arrogant, insulting, but never, but never do everything for a woman, unless you're 200% sure it's the woman with the main G. But in the beginning you can never be sure of that, it takes time. Everything can be seen in difficult moments for you. All the advice given by colleagues is for the beginning of a relationship, in my opinion. that they seek the good and the kind, but always find themselves with the one who is bad and rude to them. Let's not all, but 95% of women are. I know you think you're telling the truth, but it's not really like you always don't know what you want, you just think you know. You are doing the boy a disservice by telling him not to change unless he wants to have many female friends, but to be alone in the end. Of course, you don't have to be rude and arrogant, insulting, but never, but never do everything for a woman, unless you're 200% sure it's the woman with the main G. But in the beginning you can never be sure of that, it takes time. Everything can be seen in difficult moments for you. All the advice given by colleagues is for starting a relationship, in my opinion. that they seek the good and the kind, but always find themselves with the one who is bad and rude to them. Let's not all, but 95% of women are. I know you think you're telling the truth, but it's not really like you always don't know what you want, you just think you know. You are doing the boy a disservice by telling him not to change unless he wants to have many female friends, but to be alone in the end. Of course, you don't have to be rude and arrogant, insulting, but never, but never do everything for a woman, unless you're 200% sure it's the woman with the main G. But in the beginning you can never be sure of that, it takes time. Everything can be seen in difficult moments for you. All the advice given by colleagues is for starting a relationship, in my opinion. but 95% of women are like that. I know you think you're telling the truth, but it's not really like you always don't know what you want, you just think you know. You are doing the boy a disservice by telling him not to change unless he wants to have many female friends, but to be alone in the end. Of course, you don't have to be rude and arrogant, insulting, but never, but never do everything for a woman, unless you're 200% sure it's the woman with the main G. But in the beginning you can never be sure of that, it takes time. Everything can be seen in difficult moments for you. All the advice given by colleagues is for starting a relationship, in my opinion. but 95% of women are like that. I know you think you're telling the truth, but it's not really like you always don't know what you want, you just think you know. You are doing the boy a disservice by telling him not to change unless he wants to have many female friends, but to be alone in the end. Of course, you don't have to be rude and arrogant, insulting, but never, but never do everything for a woman, unless you're 200% sure it's the woman with the main G. But in the beginning you can never be sure of that, it takes time. Everything can be seen in difficult moments for you. All the advice given by colleagues is for starting a relationship, in my opinion. You are doing the boy a disservice by telling him not to change unless he wants to have many female friends, but to be alone in the end. Of course, you don't have to be rude and arrogant, insulting, but never, but never do everything for a woman, unless you're 200% sure it's the woman with the main G. But in the beginning you can never be sure of that, it takes time. Everything can be seen in difficult moments for you. All the advice given by colleagues is for the beginning of a relationship, in my opinion. You are doing the boy a disservice by telling him not to change unless he wants to have many female friends, but to be alone in the end. Of course, you don't have to be rude and arrogant, insulting, but never, but never do everything for a woman, unless you're 200% sure it's the woman with the main G. But in the beginning you can never be sure of that, it takes time. Everything can be seen in difficult moments for you. All the advice given by colleagues is for starting a relationship, in my opinion. Everything can be seen in difficult moments for you. All the advice given by colleagues is for the beginning of a relationship, in my opinion. Everything can be seen in difficult moments for you. All the advice given by colleagues is for starting a relationship, in my opinion.

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barhamsalih answered · August 19, 2020

   G35 I can confirm that number 7-16 is somewhat correct, although he has exaggerated things a bit, especially with the harsher statements - apparently he comes across such stupid pieces of women or he has not yet found the one who will turn him around like that, that all his ideas would collapse and he would want to spend his life with her as if he were having fun and holding the bag. From the position of a married woman who knows the price and already with some experience in these things, I want to enlighten you men about a few women's secrets - keep notes, even you who are considered great understanding and moving matchmakers. There is something to learn. 1. While taking down and seducing the woman, the man should behave as he described 7-16 - confident and mysterious, but not rude and vulgar that we do not last them. There must be intrigue in order to be noticed, but intelligently and elegantly played out by him. And if the woman and she understand these things, she will play by keeping up ... and a pleasant game of nerves for both of them will follow. (eh, sweet memories ...). At this level, excessive matchmakers and bullies and simpletons do not win. Those who do not call but wait for the woman do not win. We do not find them as reliable partners and this is the end, even if the heart pulls the more insecure girls to take matters into their own hands. If the woman takes the initiative with your masculine dignity, it's over and this is the beginning of the end, boys! At this stage, too many good people also have no place, they are not interesting, we are bored, they just can't touch our soul, make us feel the butterflies in our stomachs. The only time a good guy wins at this stage of the game is if the woman has suffered from the rudeness of a previous one who did not pass level 2. What is it? Here it is. 2. When the relationship deepens and the woman already loves, the man must lose his matchmaking behavior and be kind, gentle and responsible, in short, kind in everyday life, to become the spiritual partner that we all dream of as little girls. If she stays on her behavior in point 1, it is repulsive for the woman. We are intuitive, and if kindness and devotion are not sincere, we do NOT take a man's attitude as serious, but theatrical and flat. The end is not far off if this happens. At this stage, the rude and macho can only keep an insecure, naive or inexperienced woman or one with very low emotional intelligence who has not suffered enough. 3. Very important! In bed, no matter what stage of the relationship he is in, the man MUST be the bad boy. I do not mean to be rude or to deal with whores and thus prove to himself what a man he is (usually this is your fault), but with dedication and skill to his partner to be able to dominate, to mark his territory to stimulate constantly her interest in bed. 4. At all times the man must show sincere attention and respect for the woman as a person, soul, body! I am talking about absolute surrender, without fear of abandonment, without theatricality, without lies. The feeling of total and absolute spiritual and physical merging is wonderful if it is mutual. I wish you that. And the best to be in attitude, and the best to be in bed, you can always lose a woman if you lose her mind (as long as it's not simple, it doesn't apply to the simple). The love of an intelligent woman passes through the mind. You have to know her inner world, her dreams, her fantasies, her expectations to anticipate and anticipate and come true before anyone else does. A second to slow down, to relax for a day and now someone like you sees in her what you may have forgotten to appreciate ... or she begins to look for a more appropriate and you lose her before she is kissed by another . Remember that your wife will eventually get bored of you only if you live with the thought that she is yours and your security is trapped. No such thing. The struggle for the other of the whole is constant. Well that's it, guys. I hope I wasn't too annoying despite the verbosity. or she starts looking around for more appropriate and you lose her before she is kissed by another. Remember that your wife will eventually get bored of you only if you live with the thought that she is yours and your security is trapped. No such thing. The struggle for the other of the whole is constant. Well that's it, guys. I hope I wasn't too annoying despite the verbosity. or she starts looking around for more appropriate and you lose her before she is kissed by another. Remember that your wife will eventually get bored of you only if you live with the thought that she is yours and your security is trapped. No such thing. The struggle for the other of the whole is constant. Well that's it, guys. I hope I wasn't too annoying despite the verbosity.

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anendfor answered · August 19, 2020

   I had a lot of fun with the comments on number 7. Dude, why don't you publish a book? You understand things a lot! :) I will also say my point of view, as a woman. Things that may repel me at first reading: 1. Impurity; 2. Too bad sex / too small a penis ... BTV, don't believe that fireworks have to fly for the first time - you'll get to slap things. Women give both a second and a third chance in bed, provided they like the man. 3. Obvious dissimilarity in characters, mentality, views; The things that would fail the already started relationship: 1. hopelessness of the man, laziness; 2. conservatism; 3. rude treatment, physical and mental harassment; 4. boredom and narrow-mindedness; 5. lack of sex;

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dennismore1 answered · August 20, 2020

   I am a woman of 31 and I recently dumped a "dude" because I feel sick from him for the following reasons: - selfish !!! His motto was "I think of myself" - he even said it to my face - I was an elementary and well-read book about him, the luxury of telling me this nonsense allowed him 2 times - I did everything myself, in the sense he insulted me and I went out I'm guilty of hurting me - he allowed himself to come to me unwashed several times - something I can't stand - a chronic alcoholic, you can't take the tickle out of his mouth - he allowed himself to shape me in front of his friends and dump me in the middle of the street alone-not that I can't fix it, but he won't chase him at all So I didn't even explain anything to him-I look at myself-I don't want to hear and see him and point-I don't deserve to do him the favor of explaining to him what are his mistakes - to get better.

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indiaferrah answered · August 20, 2020

   Hi, author, I'm a girl of 21. I rarely write, but I will speak too. Just to add that a woman being conceited and made does not mean that she is beautiful at all, but this is another topic ... I can say for myself that they tell me that I am not ugly, but I walk naturally and I am as if inconspicuous, but I don't care. But by nature I look too naive, non-conflicting, maybe soft-spoken person in front of others and they always come to my head, even strangers, as if it is visible from afar. And for me, boys have justified themselves with the words, you look too good to be real, all women lie, etc, there is something rotten, etc ... girls like me do not like. I mean, everyone makes a certain impression, everything is relative, but in general you have to be careful how you behave in front of others, because they are good at making wrong conclusions, just not showing all your goodness, lasting longer, I don't know if it will help. And with girls, too, don't care, they lose, just be more secretive and don't look desperate. And it is good to choose a little more when choosing. I hope I helped at least a little :))) PP. Where are you from?

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antonatale7 answered · August 20, 2020

   PLEASE! Just stay that way. g

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natty22_ answered · August 20, 2020

   Author To Number 18. I will disappoint you but I am not complex! If something is wrong, I look for the guilt in myself first. If I'm wrong, I apologize. Because first of all I am human.

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lonnymag answered · August 20, 2020

   "If you chase them away, if you run away, they chase you" Complete nonsense, once a woman escapes, it is difficult for her to return to do so, so she has realized that a man is not worth it, think about what the reasons are, men. from: ONE MAN

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nicol_wetxx answered · August 21, 2020

   To number 7: It was extremely interesting for me to see the male point of view so frankly! To the author: You haven't come across your girl, and everyone you meet and get disappointed with now will only make you even better for the one who really deserves you! Success!

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tuneeca answered · August 21, 2020

   Author (38) I did not say anywhere that you are complex, I tried to give my opinion, through my personal experience and female "look". And read my comment again .... here that YOU joined passive defense;))), and I did not attack you, I did not even target you specifically. We are trying to give you ideas of why it is happening, what is happening to you. The idea is to help. That's why I was wondering if I should get involved at all ... I think it's more important for you to know what women think, right? !! If you want to get to know women naturally, men's opinions ... um, you know. You want opinions, you have them, now it depends on you how you will dare the information. The truth sometimes hurts, if you recognize yourself in one of the examples, do not get angry, but think about how to change for the better. Success! From 18

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sashaabluee answered · August 21, 2020

   Abre 38 mi .... You did not understand the sentence "Do you chase them, do you run, they chase you?" It is not a question of who will run and will not return, the question is 4 intrigue, to be interesting women and men in each other .... I better not explain it to you, if you do not understand your problem is yours! You think very superficially, complete nonsense!

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natalie83917 answered · August 21, 2020

   39, it is certain that you are a virgin pickle, not a man.

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giroditalia answered · August 21, 2020

   Well, you searched and found b *** tsi. Nothing happens to them. These women are never happy. If they find happiness in love with health, they will not be well or their children will be sick. They are never completely happy. You make yourself suffer, you hurry, things are more complicated than seemingly. Never think of becoming "bad", "barking" or anything like that. One must strive to be good, not to imitate fashion in order to be liked.

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tobjizzle answered · August 22, 2020

   H 39, You're right! From: A woman P. p. n 45 - let me tell you - I'm not a virgin, I'm peeing a bit (I'm probably a pee) and I'm definitely a woman;)))

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fanfanla answered · August 22, 2020

   Author Number 36 I am from Stara Zagora. Why do you tell me to stay that way? I don't like being alone :) I have to change somehow to be suitable for a more serious relationship. Because obviously I'm not now. :) 36-This is about good girls, I don't know how true it is. But I was left with the impression that for a girl this is not fatal while for a boy ....

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news24 answered · August 22, 2020

   45 He said it well to this 39, for me it is a complete p ****

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sofiabottom answered · August 22, 2020

   I stopped reading the comments after "the woman knows her place." The same goes for the man! What's the point of being with someone if you don't love them and just want to humiliate them to show how great you are and what kind of man you are (this also applies to women), to break someone's character and ruin their life? Unfortunately, I do not think that only the author or his exes are to blame. They just weren't appropriate. The world is full of poor quality material and gender doesn't matter. In every relationship there is someone who loves more; someone who gives in more; someone who is smarter; someone who leads. It is already clear that I am a woman. Despite what was written above, I was looking for a male boss. That means not someone with money or a bastard or a man (because if you listen to some of the people above, you'll only have sex, but you won't have a full-fledged relationship, look around and see the fate of the older people around you and decide if you want to be their age). You don't have to be decent and under a slipper. You just have to know what your priorities are. At 23, I ended a very long and painful relationship for me. My friend at the time constantly rebuked me for not being able to do anything, cheated on me, lied to me, pretended to be important, and I was still to blame. And you know, I was really guilty, because I allowed myself to be insulted and humiliated, provided that I was relatively smart, terribly patient, according to some of his friends very beautiful, and according to others ugly ... Besides, he always said that others were more -beautiful and good than me (and this is a very big blow for a woman). The man had decided that he wanted to live and would do whatever he wanted (later I found out that he had listened to his unattached friends). until one day I left, I told him that he would look for me and want us to get together, but I would not want him. But there is always a Species Day. A few years later, when his friends made a living and started families, he was left alone. And guess what happened, he wanted us to get together, and when he had a problem with his family, he looked for me again. It's just that this man who left me alone, just when I needed support the most, was already dead to me. A few years later, I met the most wonderful man in the world. And he is above all my friend, a person with whom I can share everything, beloved and part of me. Now I know what it's like to be truly loved and shown to you every day and to be shown, but then I cried every day and thought I would be alone for the rest of my life because it's much harder for women to find a partner although I now know that it is not easy for either you or us to look for the Man, and not just for one time or a few months of non-committal sex. So be patient, because without it you will not get what you want and what you really need. You go out again, have fun, but look a little further away from those you have been with so far. Obviously, they are not for you. Watch the character more, because in the end we all become ugly and find someone who makes you smile and complements you. And it's not just about education, it's about intelligence, environment, upbringing and personal qualities. PP: I'm sorry it took so long. You go out again, have fun, but look a little further away from those you have been with so far. Obviously, they are not for you. Watch the character more, because in the end we all become ugly and find someone who makes you smile and complements you. And it's not just about education, it's about intelligence, environment, upbringing and personal qualities. PP: I'm sorry it took so long. You go out again, have fun, but look a little further away from those you have been with so far. Obviously, they are not for you. Watch the character more, because in the end we all become ugly and find someone who makes you smile and complements you. And it's not just about education, it's about intelligence, environment, upbringing and personal qualities. PP: I'm sorry it took so long.

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stormysky2020 answered · August 23, 2020

   Up to 33 - I completely agree with you! 24

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lillyes answered · August 23, 2020

   I ask all teens to write in their section, I know and know the women of you much better, let's save the "praise" comments. / 39 /

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w_n_r00 answered · August 23, 2020

   I'm 96! I completely agree with 114